If the moment when a person is born is defined as having all the time, time does pass through us.
But if we define the moment of life as having all our time, then we have never lost time, but have been getting time.
NO.1 Cherish today, reject age anxiety
"I'm still young, let's talk about it later" "I'm so old, it's too late"...
For life, there is only vigorous vitality or decayed vitality, and there are no two things: "time" and "age".
ganluo , was appointed as Shangqing at the age of 12. With a mouth, he earned 16 cities back from Zhaoguo .
Jiang Ziya , when he was 72 years old, he was fishing and asked to meet Ji Chang . King Wen of Zhou After talking to Jiang Ziya, he found that Jiang Ziya was a genius in the world, so he respected him as his grand tutor and asked him to come out to help Zhou attack the merchants. Finally, with the help of Jiang Ziya, the Zhou Dynasty defeated the Shang Dynasty and established the Great Zhou Dynasty that lasted for more than 700 years. Since then, Jiang Ziya has become famous all over the world.
There is an old saying among the people to this day:
"There are a lot less, Ganluo is the prime minister; if you are old, Jiang Shang 80 things Wenwang ."
You feel that you are very young, that must be real young; if you feel tired and old, then you are indeed old, and your life has begun to decline and move towards twilight.
It will do it immediately. It's just right now, neither too late nor too late.
No matter how old a person is, he lives today, and today only once and never returns.
We always thought we would come back tomorrow, but tomorrow is a new day, and it is gone forever.
is real today, we can grasp it.
NO.2 Treat your past self well
In your life, there are always times when you have far-sightedness and regrets for life.
If you are too contented and indulge in past achievements, you will stagnate; if you are too regretful and immerse yourself in past failures, you will be confused.
Jia Yi became famous at a young age. After undergoing an extraordinary promotion and demotion, he was appointed as the Taifu of King Huai of Liang by Emperor Wen of Han.
html When he was 132 years old, he followed King Huai of Liang to the court. King Huai of Liang Liu Yi died of falling off a horse. Jia Yi felt that as the Grand Tutor, he failed to fulfill his responsibilities. He blamed himself deeply, often cried, and was very depressed.
In the twelfth year of Emperor Wen of Han, Jia Yi died in depression at the age of thirty-three.
"Seven-Secret Jia Yi" writes, " Liang Wang It is common for falling off a horse, why do you have to be sad for a lifetime?
I have never been in love with the past. The right and wrong of the past has long been concluded, and no matter how you and I can reappear, it cannot be reproduced.
Indulging in the pain of the time will only make the rest of his life live in pain.
"The days of the past cannot be pursued, the days of the future are still expected." Saying goodbye to the past is the end and a new beginning.
NO.3 Addition in the first half of your life, and subtraction in the second half of your life
When I was young, people were constantly adding. Learn more knowledge, get more honors and wealth, have more and more identities, and assume more and more responsibilities.
However, if you want to live a good life, live a peaceful and comfortable life, you have to remove the definition of yourself and the world one by one.
"I don't think that a person's mental maturity is becoming more and more tolerant, and everything is acceptable. On the contrary, I think that should be a gradual process of eliminating, knowing what is most important to you and what is not important. Then, be a simple person.”
The best way is simple, return to the essence of life.
Life, the essence of the first half of life lies in getting a wonderful and complete self;
The essence of the second half of life lies in forgetting oneself and returning to a pure and complete life.
Source: Banshan Collection Newspaper and Publication Digest People's Forum Network
