Recently, I watched and . I watched twice Yu Hua 's " Live " and I still burst into tears, but I also have new insights into life.
Everyone will experience suffering. Some people blame the world, people around them, and some people accept it quietly, and after quietly changing, everyone is amazed.
A teacher once told me: Suffering is the blessing of life with makeup. Only those who receive blessings will be happier and happier.
Read "Living" again and understands the meaning of suffering to life better.
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People without self, the sufferings of life are caused by their own choices
Xu Fugui Born with a golden spoon in his mouth. Before the Xu family was defeated, there were more than 100 acres of land. His father and he were famous grandpa Kuo and young masters, and the sound of shoes when they walked were like copper coins colliding.
His woman, the boss of Mixing, is also a rich family. The rich people marry the rich people, and the wealthy family becomes richer.
But Xu Fugui, a rich family, was a prodigal son. He joked that he was the father of a private school teacher. He never walked in a private school and was carried by his employer at home.
When he grew up, he loved to run to brothels and asked the prostitutes to send gifts to his father-in-law on his back. Later, he got a gamble and spent all the century-old foundation of the Xu family overnight.
After that, the slave left and mortgaged the house to the person in the gambling house. His father was angry to death. His woman was taken home by his father-in-law. Xu Fugui, who had a happy family, had a good family and had a good family, suffered the consequences. His family was destroyed.
He regretted, hated the heaven and the earth even more hated himself. cried and sneered After crying, he finally accepted the reality and started working in the fields.
Sometimes life is very kind, it is not treated well, so I fight back.
is like Xu Fugui. His birth environment is particularly good. A century-old foundation in eating empty mountains is enough for him to eat for three lifetimes. However, he chose to spend high consumption, choose gambling, choose joy outside, and let the beauty stay alone in the empty room.
He chose to live a arrogant and unrestrained life. In the end, life slapped him hard and let him experience all the sufferings of the world. The most fundamental reason for such consequences is that Xu Fugui does not have a complete self, he does not know his life value and does not pursue it.
can't see clearly and don't know how to cherish everything you have now. You just blindly pursue new things and are tempted by desire. Only when you are in a daze, let yourself fall into the hardships of life.
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Suffering is a blessing with makeup on it. Only those who receive the blessing will be happy
When suffering comes, you don’t have to thank it, but you must not blame it, because the big reason for its arrival is the result of your previous choice.
Of course, you don’t have to blame yourself. If you want to get rid of suffering, you have to see it brings you a growth side.
For example, during this period, Li Moumou's collapsed house gives all men a warning. Everyone has countless pairs of eyes staring at you, and the paper can't hold on to the fire. It's not that others don't know, but that people who may know don't say it. understands people pretend to be stupid, only you still think that you are very safe.
Play with fire and you will be immobilized.
People who have been hurt once either grow up from experience or fall from experience and cannot recover. Outsiders can find places to grow through other people's experiences, change their current words, deeds and beliefs, and allow themselves to save themselves through other people's sufferings.
The suffering and obstacles in life may be to tell you that the direction is wrong, and you need to adjust. If you are stubborn and unwilling to change, you will not be able to see the other side of things.
complaining will only make the obstructed city wall stronger. Only by accepting its existence, seeing its essence clearly, and seeing its other side, can you break free from suffering and create a better life.
Accepting any person and thing that makes you suffer is a kind of power itself, that is to recognize your own power and be sure to accept the power of their existence. This power will take you to your mountain.
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If suffering comes, there must be another arrangement
After Xu Fugui lost all his family property, Long Er took over the real estate and real estate, and he also became the landlord. He often walked around the ridge of the field with a teapot, very angry.
However, in less than four years, the village began to carry out land reform. The Communist Party confiscated his land and distributed it to the former tenants. He went to scare the tenants. If he didn't buy it, he would beat him and was arrested by the Communist Party, saying that he was a bully landlord and sent to the founding boss. Because he was not aware of the current affairs, he was finally killed.
This was Xu Fugui's fate, but it fell on Long Er's head, just as Long Er shouted before his death: Fugui, I'm going to die for you!
and Xu Fugui rented five acres of land with Long Er and finally got the land.
No one knows what arrangements will be behind the suffering, but when suffering comes, there must be other arrangements. Since it cannot be changed, it is better to accept it happily.
Xu Fugui "made" all his family property and worked hard for a lifetime, but saved his life until his old age. Long Er seemed to have taken a big advantage, but in the end he lost his life early.
Yuhua said in the preface: Living is full of power in our Chinese language. Its power does not come from shouting or attacking, but endure, endure the responsibility given to us by life, and endure the reality gives us our happiness and suffering, boredom and mediocrity.
Suffering has never been a maverick, it comes with good luck. This is also what the ancients said about "loving good and misfortune". Only those who can see will get better arrangements.
When suffering comes, instead of complaining about suffering and fear, it is better to temper yourself in suffering and make yourself more powerful to face all the unknowns in the future.
You must believe that if suffering comes, there must be other arrangements.
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