home is a harbor of happiness and the destination of the soul.
A happy and fulfilling family is filled with laughter and joy everywhere, which can make a person's career flourish and the family can continue.
No one does not desire a harmonious and happy family. No one does not desire a family to be rich and peaceful. There is a saying in ancient times, "If you don't keep three at home, you will never worry about wealth." Perhaps it will be helpful for us to build a beautiful and happy family and maintain the prosperity and prosperity of our family.
No harsh words
is a place to talk about love, not a place to argue for right or wrong, or reason. A beautiful family is achieved through the hard work of every member of the family. As the saying goes, "Every family has a difficult sutra to recite." horse spoon always touches the edge of the pot. At this time, some families will quarrel and even speak ill of each other.
You should know, what can happen if the quarrels in the family come into play even if they have a long and shortcoming? For example, one spouse is indeed wrong, and it is clear that it is a clue and the winner is a winner. But is the winning side really winning? What may be lost is feelings. There is no victory or defeat in family quarrels. The most important thing is to care for each other and discuss each other, so that they will be full of harmony.
Home should be full of gentle whispers, not harsh words.
"A good word warms up in winter, and a bad word hurts people in June."
does not leave old customs and bad habits
0 The times are progressing, and it turns out that many old customs should have been changed long ago. For example, the ancients emphasized that men were superior to women, and men were the masters of the family. But now we pay attention to equality between men and women. Men and women are half of the family and are actively making contributions for the family. At this time, it is obvious that it is not possible to use the requirements of the ancients to restrain women.
For example, in ancient times, the status of daughters-in-law at home was obviously lower than that of mother-in-law, but now we must understand each other and care for each other in order to live in harmony.
keeps pace with the times, those outdated rules must be changed.
There must be bad habits in the family. For example, being addicted to gambling, being lazy to eat, going to bed late and getting up late, etc. These bad habits cannot make the family happy. If you want to have a good family, you cannot keep bad habits.
No unhealthy trends and evil spirits
Family style is particularly important for a good family. The ancients attached great importance to family traditions. For example, "Letters from Zeng Guofan" and "Letters from Yan's Family Instructions" all talk about family style. People cultivated by a good family tradition will naturally have a high quality and will naturally have a future.
Some families, especially couples, deceive each other and lie to each other. This is a kind of improper family tradition. If such a trend continues for a long time, it will inevitably slowly affect future generations.
Since it is a home, there must be elders and young people. Respecting the elderly and loving the young is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation and should be perfectly reflected in one family.
Some families are disorderly, regardless of size, and even son beats and scolds me, and are unfilial to my parents, etc. These are all concrete manifestations of improper family traditions. Such a family can last for a long time or produce talents, which is simply a delusion.
Conclusion: Whether a family is prosperous or not depends entirely on the efforts of every family member. There are no bad words at home, no old customs, and no unhealthy trends. I think such a family will definitely get better and better, and there will be no worries about wealth and prosperity.
