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Sometimes what you need to do something is extreme optimism. This is a great test of a person's mentality. That is to say, you will encounter many and many problems every day. Sometimes you don't know how to solve these problems, and you don't even know how to solve them. Now that you know what resources you should find to solve the problem, what should you do now? Complain? It's no use.
can only believe that it can solve this current problem.
When we are doing something and are about to succeed, we suddenly find that a certain link has fallen off. At this time, everything we have done before is in vain and the success is wasted. Many people yell, get angry, and complain to vent their inner dissatisfaction and even doubt their life.
But are these complaints useful? Is this anger useful? It's of no use at all. What to do with ? We can only be positive and optimistic, continue to work hard, continue to work hard, and continue to struggle. shows that my thinking is not comprehensive enough, and I need to continue to improve and add to it. Just roll up your sleeves and get back to work.
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Tang Monk was studying for scriptures, but it was difficult. When the turtle took them across the river, the turtle suddenly sank to the bottom of the water, and the scriptures floated directly in the water. What should we do at this time? Is complaining useful?
is useless. find a way to salvage all the scriptures and publish them one by one. This is the fundamental solution to the problem.
We always have thoughts and suspicions of one kind or another on many issues. It is nothing more than that we are not firm enough, confident enough, and optimistic enough. It's normal to encounter failure. It doesn't matter if you fail. At worst, you can just start over.
It is said that starting a business is a life of narrow escape. One of the core points is: Whether you can accept failure, failure, and failure again. Because every choice and every decision means that there will be a 50% failure rate.
If you fail, can you stand up? Can you get back on your feet? This needs to be evaluated by yourself.
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When you wake up every day, you have to think about what problem you want to solve today? How to solve it? Who should I meet today? What should you talk about when you meet these people? These are all things you need to think about yourself.
This kind of thinking is of great significance. Without thinking, it is difficult for people to grow.
When many actors worked with Wong Kar Wai , they said they were tortured to death, tortured to the point of doubting life, and tortured to the point of losing all self-confidence. They would deny themselves and have an inferiority complex.
Are you so bad? Isn't that what I am doing? Sometimes it takes dozens of shots to pass.
But many actors who have worked with Wong Kar-Wai have won many awards, even Best Actor and Best Actress. Every time it didn't work, every time he felt it was the best, Wong Kar-wai said: No, come again.
Especially when it doesn’t work after more than ten or twenty times, the feeling is really speechless. Is just giving up? Most people won’t and will continue to do it.
Even many actors said that after the movie was released, they found that the shots that had been passed dozens of times were not found on the screen and had been cut out by Wong Kar-Wai.
At that moment: another kind of doubt, another kind of loss and disappointment. But will he stop acting? No, you have to be extremely optimistic to act.
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So this thing is weird. We don’t know how well we can do it, but we can keep improving and keep carving until we are satisfied.
Some people are trying to save themselves. As long as they find out with their heart, many problems will be solved.The leadership requirements are strict, and it is a good time for you to rise quickly.
Extreme optimism is a mentality. The cultivation of this mentality requires practice every day, especially when encountering things. It is more important to practice.
Don’t let go of every setback, tribulation and failure. They are the best soil for cultivating your own positive and optimistic attitude.
