I used to be free and easy, happy, and lived the life I wanted. At that time, I only knew that work was work, and I should go out for fun when I was on vacation.
Later, 30+ my life has undergone a huge change. It is precisely because of this change that I have seen the reality clearly and experienced the warmth and coldness of the world.
I have been negative, and I am even as negative now. I give up on myself and I have lost confidence in life.
I always thought someone would understand me and help me overcome this difficulty, but I never expected that I thought it was too beautiful.
There are no friends in the face of difficulties
When a person is very glorious, many friends appear around you for no reason. They are always wandering around you and surround you all day long. When you are in a downturn, those friends disappear. Even the friends who saw you smiling and now pretend not to see you.
Don’t talk about real friends anymore, there are no friends in the face of difficulties.
There is no family in the face of difficulties
The seven aunts and aunts in the past come to visit and chat, asking this and that.
Now I have encountered hardships. They are afraid that I will borrow money, but now they are gone without a trace and they are never contacted by phone and WeChat again.
Relatives? family? Even parents are like this, do you still want to count on them? Haha…………Learn it for yourself!
You have to swallow all the pain by yourself
Don’t tell anyone easily if you have any pain, they don’t understand you at all. Only those who have experienced the same experience can empathize with it. Don’t be stupid and talk to others a lot. Not only will you waste your expressions, but it will also become their gossip after dinner.
Remember to swallow the pain and don’t say it easily. I finally realized the warmth and coldness of the world. Difficulties can overwhelm me for a while, but I can't defeat me.
Often at this time, you should cheer up, create a world, live a wonderful life, and make them look at each other with admiration.
The more negative you are, the more proud the villain behind you are.
How easy is it to let go? How easy is it to cheer up?
Then just think about it, be content with the status quo, and face everything optimistically.
(I hope that people who have shared experiences with me will live like me, even if they lose motivation in life. Live for yourself, to make those who have asked for help feel guilty, and to make the family who give up your family regret it)
The premise is that you must live better than you are now! ! ! Come on!
