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Everyone has different personalities since birth.
Some people are carefree and will talk about anything new; some people are quiet and keep all their secrets deep in their hearts.
It is normal for people to have different personalities, but as they grow older, people will change.
It is not difficult to find that when people reach a certain age, they will become more and more silent.
Some people say that silent people are not good, because if you don’t speak, you will lose a lot of opportunities, but in fact, silent people have more structure, especially for men.
"Silence is the most difficult argument to refute."
The adult world is not easy, and the problems encountered are endless, and the solutions to the problems are hidden in silence.
When a person knows how to be silent, problems become clearer and easier to solve.
In career, if a person wants to be promoted, he must have the trait of calmness, and those who are silent must be able to deal with things calmly.
A qualified successful person is one who is not arrogant and does not panic when encountering problems.
Growing up, the elders always said that men should stand upright and achieve great things.
But many men always do things out of tune. When faced with difficulties, they either choose to escape or are impulsive and extreme.
often, their pattern is reflected at this moment.
Montaigne said: "Silence is more conducive to social interaction than insincere words."
There is a lot of knowledge and exquisiteness in social interaction between people, including silence.
Some people first enter the society and want to express themselves, but in the end they lose their sense of proportion because of their eagerness, which has a negative effect.
Rather than boasting without confidence, it is better to choose silence and wait for changes.
Often, those who hide in corners and remain silent are the real big shots.
And many examples can prove that those who are impatient in life have a far better life than quiet people, because when a person becomes impatient, many things will go wrong.
Being silent is not only to give yourself more time to think, but also to leave a way out for the relationship between each other.
When a person stands at the foot of the mountain, he can see very little, but when you reach the top of the mountain, you can have a panoramic view of the surrounding scenery.
The same is true when communicating with others. When you can see the entire situation clearly, you will be in an invincible position.
No matter who you are communicating with, you can "advance to attack, retreat to defend".
In social circles, people are always learning how to speak, because a word can be an antidote or a poison.
Some people always inadvertently say some reminiscences when they are in the mood for conversation.
Maybe you didn’t mean what you said, but when you hear it in other people’s ears, it means something else.
Therefore, if you want a stable relationship, make sure you let the words go through your head before you blurt them out.
Being silent gives you the opportunity to make it less likely that you will say the wrong thing.
Shelley said: "Shallow water is noisy, deep water is silent."
Those who are silent understand one truth: no one is perfect.
It is impossible for us to handle everything in an all-round way, so they chose to listen and look at the people and things in front of them from the perspective of a bystander.
I often hear a saying: "Those in authority are confused, but bystanders know clearly."
When people look at things from a third perspective, they are best able to control the direction of things.
In the process of getting along with others, you can learn the strengths of others and hide your own trump cards and flaws.
When one day, you increase your value and make achievements in something, you will receive great praise.
A person’s pattern is hidden in many places, but there must be a pattern in silence.
Someone said: "Silence is the only way to wisdom. Thinking and doing in silence contain huge energy."
People grow in silence, and power bursts out in silence.
When a person is silent, it at least means that he is mature and willing to think.
Life is always a difficult problem to solve. If you don't think about it quietly, you will never get the life you want.
So, silence is the key and the only way for human growth.
