People with strong enough hearts will do this when encountering problems.
A person’s attitude towards things hides his knowledge and cultivation, and also determines the direction of his life. Tonight’s night reading will share with you 3 ways of doing things. I hope you and I can be able to not worry about things beforehand, be able to handle things as they come, and turn around after things happen.
1. Don’t worry about things that haven’t come yet.
Life will always give you the answer. How can you understand before the time comes? Worrying about things that haven't happened in the future is just asking for trouble. The future is not scary. What is scary is always being anxious about the future. If you worry about the unpredictable tomorrow, you may ignore the important things at hand. Everyone has a vision in their heart, but we are ultimately who we are today. Only by taking one step at a time can we unload the heavy burden and lead to tomorrow easily and steadily. Please believe that as long as we live in the present and work hard to do the things at hand, life will not treat us badly.
2. When things happen, just hold on with all your strength
"The measure of a person's success is not the height at which he reaches the top, but the resilience when he falls to the bottom." When faced with the blows of life, can you bear it? Those who can withstand heavy pressure and fight back are the real strong ones. In this world, there are always many things that make us collapse. The difference is that some people sink in pain and give up the rest of their lives, while others endure the ups and downs of fate and usher in a new life. If you endure it, you will find that suffering is just another synonym for hardship. People should be like dandelion seeds. We will take root wherever the wind of life blows us. This is the tenacity of vitality and a person’s amazing self-healing power.
3. Let things go and let go of regrets
Some people, when faced with painful past events, always dwell on them and harbor resentment; some people, when faced with their past regrets and mistakes, always grudge and attack themselves. Some people say, "If you cry because you missed the sun, you will also miss the stars." Appropriate self-criticism will help correct your own mistakes; excessive self-blame will only make you lose the courage and courage to move forward. power. If we always hold on to the pain of the past, then the person who is hurt may not be those who have hurt us, but ourselves. people can walk faster and easier only by letting go of the baggage of the past. Only by letting go of "everything of yesterday" can we usher in a new life.
