"We are not in a hurry, always thinking that the future is long."
Some time ago, a song "Always Thinking that the days are long" triggered many people's thinking about life.
In fact, life comes and goes, how can there be a long time to come?
Life is a one-way journey with no return, so every day in life is extremely precious.
As a woman, you must know how to please yourself. Only self-sufficient happiness can create a beautiful life.
Sober women and confused women live different lives. Smart women know how to manage themselves well.
Pattern is more important than appearance
Yu Dan once said: The key to growth is to establish a life pattern for yourself.
If a woman is compared to the seed of a fruit tree, different patterns will have different endings: if planted in a flower pot, it can only grow up to half a meter; if planted in a large water tank, it can grow up to one meter. How tall? If planted in an unlimited courtyard, it can grow up to four or five meters. A woman with a big personality will give herself more room for growth and more spiritual nourishment.
Dong Qing not only has a dignified image, but has also received extreme praise from netizens.
At the same time, she is also a woman with a sense of style.
At first in her life, she was also known as the "TV Sister", a title that has been attached to her for many years.
When her career was at its peak, she chose to put down her job and study abroad.
When she once again entered the public eye with the program " Reader ", many people had different definitions of her.
It turns out that women can be open-minded and realize their dreams, and they can also be so organized.
People with a small structure are often "poor at heart". They only focus on the present, so they will devalue or scrap themselves.
Only by enlarging your pattern can you live like the heroine of life. Don’t be trapped by things or people.
Let yourself maintain your inner "girlishness"
The word "age" has always been a topic that women pay close attention to.
Women are afraid of getting old, but time is fair, and she will walk in front of everyone at the same pace. The difference is that some people will "get older" with the years, while some people will become younger as they live. .
There was a hot word on the Internet some time ago called "middle-aged girl".
"Middle-aged Girl" talks about premature aging. This kind of "olding" means losing curiosity, passion, innocence and courage for life.
Corresponding to this kind of premature aging, there is also a kind of reverse age growth, out of which After half a lifetime, she is still a "girl"
, who became popular some time ago. "Heart Master" Wang Xinling , did you know that she is 40 years old this year?
But wearing the same clothes as the MV, she looks unchanged.
All this comes from her strict requirements for herself.
In order to show her best in front of the public, she only eats three meals a year, and does not skip jogging, yoga and other exercises. Even when walking, she always reminds herself to straighten her back and tighten her abdomen to maintain a good posture.
Good physical condition and practice allow her to maintain a stable breath when singing.
It is not so much that she became famous. It is said to be the inevitable result of years of keeping a low profile and accumulating efforts.
Inner self-confidence and external self-discipline are the secrets of maintaining a "girly" feeling.
On the one hand, you should face the challenges in life with a positive and sunny attitude. , live a regular life, live a refined life, and never be too willful and indulgent.
Another important point about girlishness is that there are no restrictions based on age.
If you are young at heart, you will never grow old. If your heart grows old, you will no longer be young.
It is better to please others than to please yourself
For women, a woman’s life is not to live for others, but to live for herself, and to please others is not as good as to please herself.
Yang Lan once interviewed Yu Yu, the founder of dangdang.com, and one of the conversations was thought-provoking.
Yang Lan: "Where are you least confident?" Yu Yu: "Your appearance."
Yang Lan: "Why do you become more confident, more temperamental and radiant as you grow older?" Yu Yu: : "Accept yourself."
Indeed, accepting yourself is the first step to pleasing yourself.
How can a person appreciate himself if he doesn't accept himself? Only by letting go of his grudge against himself and not feeling inferior, not forcing himself, and not covering up, can he discover his own shining points.
Please yourself, self-sufficient happiness will not change with changes in the outside world.
Only those who please themselves are worthy of the highest happiness in life! Only those who please themselves are worthy of the highest happiness in life!
