Text: Joy and Wisdom
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As the saying goes: A good word warms you in three winters, but a bad word hurts you in June.
Don't think that words spoken casually without thinking will have any impact. Generally, people who have this kind of thinking can only mean that they have extremely low IQ.
being outspoken cannot be an excuse for you to vent your words at will.
Many people like to add fuel to the fire when others are embarrassed, and they don't forget to add, I am a straightforward person, so don't mind.
Does it mean that if you say this, others will really not mind your harsh words? On the contrary, saying this will only make others more annoyed with him.
"Those who speak impetuously are like knives piercing people, but the tongue of a wise person is good medicine for healing."
In addition to appearance and demeanor, the most important thing about the impression a person brings to others is the performance of his conversation. A talkative person who always becomes the center of attention wherever he goes.
If a person always speaks with nitpicks, makes people feel uncomfortable when he speaks, and always has dissatisfied anger in his tone, people will stay away from such a person.
How powerful is the charm of language? Friendly and caring language can make people feel like a spring breeze and feel the warmth of spring. At the same time, insulting language can make people feel pain like a biting cold wind, and provocative words can make people embarrassed. To the point of being ashamed.
Since words should not be said casually, before we speak, in order to avoid causing unnecessary misunderstandings or conflicts, it is best to ask ourselves not to say certain things, cannot say, and should not say.
The following four things that should not be said must be kept in mind:
1. Words of criticism
No one in this world wants to I hope that I will be criticized, and when I am criticized by others, even if it is my fault, I still resist it in my heart, because in addition to criticism, others can accept another way to admit their mistakes, instead of being criticized by someone. offensive words, "Speak well if you have something to say" will make it easier for the person who made the mistake to accept it and feel guilty at the same time.
2. Rumors
It is said that rumors only stop at the wise, so don’t follow others’ opinions. Many things sound like one-sided news and have not been truly verified, and most of the rumors are just right and wrong that have nothing to do with them. Don’t Spread it freely, otherwise, things will turn out to be not what you said, and others will look at you differently.
Three, negative words.
People like this always like to say some complaining and pessimistic words. Generally speaking, they are a negative energy existence. They don't have a word of positive energy on their lips. When doing anything, they first think about what to do if they can't do it or don't do it well, instead of If you want to focus on how to get things done, others will be adversely affected by its negative energy.
4. Hurtful words.
Don’t say anything that is targeted or sarcastic, especially if you know other people’s sad or unfortunate things, don’t mention them casually, be cautious, or force others to feel sad again, or even worse, others may think you did it on purpose. If you get angry at teasing, the consequences will be disastrous.
Summary: One sentence can make people positive, and one sentence can also make people negative. It is like a double-edged sword. You must be very careful when handling it, otherwise you will hurt others and yourself. The skill of speaking is actually very simple. , as long as you master the above principles, your words will be perfect and harmonious, and you will win everyone's respect and love without any effort.
