The reason why a person is rich is not the amount of wealth or high status, but the true inner freedom and satisfaction. Some people have a lot of money, but they are rich and unkind, and what they do is despised by others, so they do not get the respect of others.
Some people have a very high status and great power, but they always consider their own personal interests and do not speak and act for the people, and they will not be supported by everyone.
Only if your money and status are altruistic, people will respect and admire you from the bottom of their hearts. If you observe carefully, although the source of a person's wealth lies in his heart, it is expressed in his words and deeds. Those wealthy people never say the following five words in their speech, which is worth learning by everyone.
First, don’t say depressing words. They know how to think about everything from a positive perspective, and most of their speeches are inspiring and inspiring. Never say anything depressing about being listless or denying yourself. No matter what difficulties and setbacks they encounter, they don't seem to care. They still tell themselves that I can do it and actively find ways to solve the difficulties.
Second, don’t complain. If things fail to achieve their goals, they will not attribute the responsibility to others, complain about everyone around them, even complain about the world, and complain that they were born at the wrong time. All these complaints are of no use. They know how to reflect on themselves, find reasons within themselves, and can quickly make adjustments to prepare for the next step.
Third, don’t worry too much. They do not worry too much or suppress themselves about things that have not yet come. They always focus their time and energy on every big and small thing they are doing at the moment, take it seriously, complete the current tasks in a down-to-earth manner, and Don’t worry too much about the future. Especially always thinking about what will happen if I fail? etc. They will move towards their goals with 200% confidence and action. As long as the result is undecided, there are unlimited possibilities.
fourth, but too angry. They know how to control their emotions and learn to be the masters of their emotions. Instead of panicking when something happens, throwing yourself into confusion, or losing your temper and being unable to contain it. No matter what happens, if you can always maintain a peaceful mind, think calmly, and never speak irritating words, the result will definitely develop for the better.
Fifth, don’t speak arrogant and boundless words. Although they are very confident, they are by no means arrogant. Because they know that arrogant soldiers will be defeated, they are confident but not arrogant, and when they have good results, they are not complacent, boast too much, or show off at will. But know how to restrain yourself, be modest and prudent, and continue to work hard for the next goal.
