01 As the saying goes, "People are most tired in middle age, and people have the most things in their old age." When you are young, no one will feel tired in life, and everyone is full of great hope for the future. But in our middle and later years, this so-called hope slowly bec

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As the saying goes, "People are most tired in middle age, and people have the most troubles in old age."

When we are young, no one will feel tired in life, and everyone is full of great hope for the future. But in our middle and later years, this so-called hope slowly becomes blurred, and we live increasingly in embarrassment.

Whether they are rich or poor, they will encounter many problems. These problems are related to money, work, relationships, family and many life conflicts.

people are getting older and their energy is declining. Then they will be in a state of "high pressure" for the rest of their lives. Who can escape the torture of time?

When talking about middle and old age, we have to talk about those born in the 1960s. The group born in the 1960s is actually getting farther and farther into middle age, and some people have already reached their old age.

The crisis in middle age has not disappeared, and the pressure in old age comes unexpectedly. Moreover, now that prices are so high, the income of ordinary people is still at the same level, or even reduced. The cost of pension is gradually increasing, and the expenses are increasing. So how many people can withstand the impact of life?

Everyone in life is walking farther and farther on the tightrope-like road of life. And you will also fully understand that the most lonely time in this life began when you and I turned 59.

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The post-60s generation in Benliu are facing these three problems.

Problem 1: Expenses increase in old age, but family income is not high.

If you are a rich person, or a person who eats from the government, then you basically will not face this problem. However, not everyone is rich, and not everyone can safely eat from the government.

Generally speaking, ordinary people account for more than 80%. These ordinary and ordinary people born in the 1960s usually do not have stable income, but they still have to shoulder a mountain of responsibilities. All these responsibilities cost money.

Problem 2: My health is getting worse and worse, and I am less and less afraid to get sick.

One kind of helplessness is that when people reach middle age or old age, they are not afraid of leaving immediately, but are afraid of suffering from certain diseases and needing to spend money on the family's money for treatment for a long time, making the family increasingly poor.

Just imagine, how many people today dare to go directly to the hospital for a physical examination, or to read the physical examination report? Basically no one goes. There are many people who would rather pretend not to know than to recognize the truth of reality.

Problem three: The problem of children is very worrying.

If you are from a rural area and your children are willing to return to the countryside, then you will basically not have any burden. But if your child chooses to stay in the city, or you are a city dweller, I believe that the marriage pressure on your child will make you unable to eat well or sleep poorly.

Not everyone can start a family, get married and have children in a big city. Since children do not have this ability, as parents born in the 1960s, they can only let themselves bear the pressure.

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60 The most lonely time in this life started at the age of 59.

Many people think that the age of 60 is the beginning of old age. But from the actual situation, as soon as we reach the age of 59, the crisis in our later years will come to us.

You will find that at the age of 59, your mentality is getting worse and worse. As he prepares to retire, he gradually becomes alienated from the people around him. Slowly, I became like an isolated island.

People always think that old age represents family happiness and happiness. But in fact, how can ordinary people enjoy so many blessings? Ordinary people can only live in embarrassment at best.

There is another kind of person, that is the most unlucky person, who left before he reached the age of 59. Or, at the age of 59, it will be gone and unable to reach the starting point of old age.

You must know that there is a boundary between middle age and old age. This boundary is like a filter, which will eliminate some people and leave those who can successfully pass the test.

Of course, many of those eliminated are people from relatively poor families. Especially rural people, who have worked hard all their lives, but in the end still did not enjoy the blessings they deserved and could only leave in a hurry. It is really sad.

Life is not as simple as we think. Maybe an accident comes and the person is gone.

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When a person reaches the age of 59, he must make these three preparations.

Preparation 1: Stop meddling in your children’s business and take care of yourself.

As the saying goes, "Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. Don't work for your children and grandchildren."

Every generation has its mission and responsibilities, so why should we care too much? We don't have to deal with things that shouldn't be involved. Don’t worry too much about things that we can’t take care of. The more people worry, the shorter their life span will be.

Preparation 2: No matter how your life goes, you must have a good attitude.

people, only with a good attitude can you live a happy life. And if you have a bad mentality, it will be useless even if you have a lot of money. The older people get, the more their mentality will collapse. At this time, it is particularly important to learn to adjust your mentality.

How can there be so much despair in life? Everyone lives "upstream" in the trend of the world, and basically no one can stay out of it. In this way, only with a good attitude can we have a good life.

Preparation 3: Reduce desires and guard your money.

As the saying goes, how much money you have, the better your life will be. Wear a hat as big as your head is. Too much desire will make people miserable. Only by reducing desire can people be happy.

Everyone’s old age is a practice. You can only win if you have a good attitude and a certain amount of savings. Everything and nothing more.

text/Shushan Youlu