These truths have always existed, but we have not paid attention to them: the father is incompetent and the son suffers, and the son is incompetent and the father bows his head. Thirty years ago, the father respected the son, and thirty years later, the son respected the father.

These truths have always existed, but we have not paid careful attention to them: the father is incompetent and the son suffers, and the son is incompetent and the father bows his head. Thirty years ago, the father respected the son, and thirty years later, the son respected the father. Either you can endure hardship, or your children can endure hardship, or your parents are still enduring hardship for you.

If our parents are still suffering for us, then what is the point of growing up?

This is a question worth pondering. There is not only self-blame, but also more needs for us to change our situation and life.

If our parents are still working hard and we are unable to help them, and they are far away in a foreign country, does that mean that our children are unfilial? If you say no, how should you express your filial piety? Someone once said: If a child is useless, at least he can stay with his parents and enjoy his old age. Although he may not be rich and powerful, he can still live a happy life with children and grandchildren at his knees. As the saying goes, children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. If the children and grandchildren are more promising, they may go home less often. The more promising people are, the busier they are. They have no time to eat, and they are busy negotiating during the New Year.

Growing up is a process of constant loss. What is lost is the joy of childhood, what is lost is the innocence of youth and ignorance, and more importantly, what is lost is the laughter and laughter without burden and pressure. Growth is too cruel to us, but we have no choice.

I am thirty, but my parents are still there. Every time I think about it, I feel a heartache. Marriage is so important to a man. It is so important that it determines your future life, direction, family harmony, children's education, and many more. question. For a family, it is so valuable that the daughter-in-law understands the truth and respects both parents.

When you grow up, you will have many things you cannot help but have, and there are many ties behind you. When you want to reach out, you often think too much and have to take it back. This is probably what it means to be helpless. Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult to get along well with, and may even be incompatible with each other. Therefore, the common scene in society is the separation of old people and children. It can be said that there are countless incidents one after another.

This creates a situation where parents are still working hard. This is a kind of sadness, a kind of irreparable sadness, a kind of sadness that makes it difficult to fall asleep when thinking about it in the middle of the night, and a kind of sadness that makes me deeply blame myself every day for not being able to live in peace.

What is the significance of our growth? If you ask me, I am speechless.