The days are like the water in the river during drought, each day becomes less and less. Now that I am over fifty, I have seen many things clearly and I have understood many truths...
1. Talk about fate:
As the saying goes, there is a time in life that must be fulfilled, and there is a time in life, so don't force it. No matter how hard your heart is, you can't compete with fate, no matter how miserable your life is, you are lucky to be alive, just do what you should do, no longer care, no longer be strong, no longer worry about unknown things, just be a mediocre person without lofty ideals!
2. Let’s talk about money:
Everyone in the world knows that gods are good, but gold and silver cannot be forgotten. In the end, they will only regret that there is not much, and when the time comes, their eyes will close. No matter how much money you have, just enough can be spent. No comparison, no envy, just plain meals, plain clothes, still full, and still warm.
3. Talk about status:
No matter how high-ranking officials or ordinary people, there are still 365 days in a year, and no one has more than one day more than anyone else. Common people are leisurely and leisurely. Although they don't earn much, they are not tired. They don't have to worry about intrigues or trying to please anyone. They can earn the money they deserve with their own hands. What's wrong with that? Besides, no matter how awesome you are, doesn’t the final destination always end up in that black box?
4. Talk about career:
Three hundred and sixty lines, every line needs people. What distinction is there between noble and inferior, what distinction is made between high and low, and what about the peasants? If you dare to say that you don’t eat food grown by farmers or made by workers, please raise your hands!
Five talks about marriage:
Every broken pot has its own broken lid, and everyone loves the same person. Now that we have come together, that is the red line selection. No one is perfect, so turn a blind eye to see his strengths and close your eyes to ignore his shortcomings. The unique him matches the unique you, that’s great!
6. Talk about the family:
Who holds the flute Who plays the piano, who composes music and sings. A few notes that are destined to come together, depending on how you arrange them and set the tone, maybe they can even play a beautiful piece of music!
7. Talk about children:
Whether it is China Construction Bank or China Merchants Bank , God has given you a deposit certificate . You just put money in it. Whether you can withdraw it for enjoyment when it expires depends on the account owner. . Take the best you can, but don't take anything away from it, just treat it as a contribution, don't have high hopes.
8. Talk about friends:
If you have an intimate friend, of course it’s good, but if you don’t have an intimate friend, it’s okay. The most important thing for people is to rely on themselves. If you place too much hope on others, you will end up being disappointed.
9. Talk about your parents:
My account is full because my parents keep saving money. They didn't expect to repay the cost and interest, but I had to pay it back, double it, and do whatever I could.
summary:
Life is full of flowers and trees, fighting for everything and comparing everything. That is because you are not happy, think more liberally, be optimistic and be optimistic, isn't it good to make yourself happy every day?
Others drive luxury cars, I ride an electric car, and there are people riding bicycles and walking behind me; others live in luxury houses, I live in a shabby house, and there are people living in huts behind; others wear mink fur coats, I wear homely common clothes, and behind them There are also those who are half-clothed...won't they all end up in a pile of loess in the end?
