suddenly discovered that I have this habit. When I find myself encountering some problems, my first reaction is to be quiet for a while. Sometimes I do something else or think about other things, but I don’t think about how to face it. After this matter has passed for a while, think about what you should do about the problems you encounter. Sometimes I review the situation afterwards, but many times I miss the best time to deal with it. It seems that when a person faces difficulties, his first reaction is very important, whether to face it actively or to avoid it passively.
When facing a trough, another thing is that I like to remember, which is also a kind of escape mentality. Memories are a whirlpool black hole that makes you unable to move forward. When you enter, you will be immersed in the beauty inside. Compared with reality, you seem to prefer to stay in memories. A black hole is still a black hole, that is the abyss that prevents you from moving forward. When you fall into memories and climb out, you must leave behind a lot of things that originally belonged to you. Those are your beautiful qualities, such as: enthusiasm and curiosity about the world. I hope that when I encounter some difficulties while walking, when faced with the black hole of memories appearing from the side, I can quietly tell myself that the scenery ahead is beautiful and the difficulties in front of me are nothing. Now is not the time to reminisce, so seize the time to solve the problems in front of you. The problem.
Suddenly I thought of some old people I met. They all have some common characteristics: they love to recall the past and don’t have much curiosity about the world. They don’t have much curiosity about the world. I don’t know what they know. In the few remaining lives (there are cliffs in my life, but I know there are no cliffs, it’s almost impossible to have cliffs to seek for no cliffs), a kind of rationality choice; or they feel that they already understand how the world works. They quietly face the approaching pace of death in the small rooms of their hearts. I love reminiscing about the past, and I think of a popular saying among Internet girls recently: "Of course I have to take photos to record it. I won't always be in my prime." I seem to see those who are lying in hospital beds decades later and have not come to visit when they are in pain. At that time, looking at myself when I was young, I was so proud, sunny and confident. Look at the frail and old body now, it will have this beautiful and moving youth. The collision of beautiful memories and cruel reality will always make people feel like they are being torn apart, pulling and hurting.
I hope that when encountering difficulties, I will have more courage to refuse to recall and move forward, and also have more expectations for a better future. Think more about the future - spend an outdoor camping trip in the ice and snow of Alaska where you can see the beautiful aurora; in Ushuaia, you will be facing the rough waters of the Drake Passage, and your heart will rise. of awe. The thrilling feeling of experiencing the huge waves of more than ten meters high behind you on the sea surface of Hawaii. On the Huashan Iron Cable Plank Road, looking at the invisible foot of the mountain below, I felt that my legs were weak. Waking up from somewhere every day, something exciting happens.
