"It's not a sin for a man to cry." This is a song by Andy Lau. I remember that I was still young at that time, so I didn’t feel much about it. But at the age of thirty, after growing up and being severely beaten by society, I began to realize more and more, is it a sin for a man

"It's not a sin for a man to cry." This is a song by Andy Lau . I remember that I was still young at that time, so I didn’t feel much about it. But at the age of thirty, after growing up and being severely beaten by society, I began to realize more and more, is it a sin for a man to cry?

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From childhood to our twenties, we basically live a carefree life, without the pressure of life or unhappiness, because our parents are still young and can protect us. Keep out the wind and rain! How wonderful and free it would be to "earn your own money and spend it yourself"! But when we are thirty years old, we go home and see our parents who are getting older. Their health is not as good as before and they can no longer protect us from the wind and rain. From this moment on, we grow up and start to shoulder the burden of the family.

Nowadays, there are many unmarried young people in their thirties. It’s not that they don’t want to get married, but they can’t find the right person, either because they are “poor” or “not good at talking”, etc. Their parents can only worry, so they go on a blind date. From the beginning, every time you go home during the holidays, your parents will ask your seven aunts and eight aunts to introduce you to your partner. But as for us, we are actually already numb to love! Don’t know where the future is headed?

Children from poor families have a happy family and their parents are in good health. They go out to work as early as fifteen or sixteen years old to supplement their family income. I am lucky to live in a family with relatively good conditions and do not need to bear the burden of life prematurely. When you are thirty, your mentality matures and you understand how difficult it is for your parents. Without money, you cannot provide a better life for your parents. When your parents are sick, you cannot afford the high medical expenses. At this point, I understand it’s time to grow up! Life is inseparable from money. It can not only maintain the dignity of adults, but also provide negotiation capital when it comes to finding a partner.

"Live up to your youth, live up to your time" is the message to young people in the new era. I hope you and I will remember to take good care of ourselves and love ourselves on the road of struggle, so that we can protect our family, wife and children!