Whether you have it
Whether you lose it
Only living well
is the most important thing
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When you relax, you have also thought about what you have gained and what you have lost in this life, right? Some people sometimes have such a feeling that every day they spend is a waste of life, their efforts are like working in vain, and they never get what they want. But the fact is that we have gained invisibly and lost silently.
No one's life is perfect, and no one's life path is smooth sailing. Every step that everyone takes is wandering in possession and loss. When we work hard to get something, in the end it may go according to our own wishes, but we also lose the most precious time along the way.
Some people say: After possession, it is actually the beginning of loss; after loss, it is also the beginning of a new beginning.
I hope I can’t understand this passage, so that I don’t have to live too clearly. But at the same time, I also want to be able to understand this passage, because I want to know what I gain and what I lose. What is it again.
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Everything you gain will be lost in the end. The things you have experienced will eventually become past events and memories; the things you store in the refrigerator will eventually deteriorate; the stories you say are wonderful will eventually be diluted by time. All the things you thought you could never lose may have gradually changed over time, and slowly turned into something you can't have.
I once believed that as long as I persisted enough in the face of feelings, I would never lose them. It was only later that I discovered that no matter how tight I held his hand, if he wanted to slip away from me, sooner or later he would leave quietly when I wasn't paying attention.
Faced with such a loss, should I be sad? Actually, I think I should be lucky, because at least I have had it and I have worked hard for it. As for the subsequent loss, maybe it was due to fate. Maybe this is something that must be experienced in life. So things that are destined not to be retained are sometimes just to make a place in one's heart so that others can come in.
Gradually, you will find that even if you cannot forget all the past events you have experienced, you will no longer be sad because of them. The wounds left in the past have long since healed, even if the food in the refrigerator has already spoiled. , but you won’t have nothing to eat because of this, because you can also add new food to the refrigerator, and when you clean the refrigerator, you will find that there are many foods that you may not like that much; no matter how good the story is , if you keep listening to it, you will feel tired after listening too much...
In fact, everyone is not afraid of losing, but afraid that after losing, they will not know how to adapt to the current rhythm of life.
It's time for you to learn that no matter how much you lose, you must firmly believe that all those lost things are to make you have better things. God will never deliberately target a certain person. Everyone has experienced it this way, gaining and losing at the same time, encountering misfortune, and forcing themselves to forget.
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However, we still have to believe that every step on the road of life is the best choice, and everyone will lose and gain at the same time.
Even if some things are very precious but are lost in the end, this does not mean that you have lost your happiness and joy forever from now on. There are people you once loved with all your heart and soul, but in the end you still did not get them, but This does not mean that you are no longer destined to love. As long as you believe that the world is so big, there will always be someone who will come for you.
Gains and losses are sometimes as normal as the weather. It cannot be said that it is always cloudy or always sunny. Sunny and windy weather is the norm, and sometimes it rains. It is not unusual.
So, there is no need to celebrate excessively when you get something, and there is no need to be overly sad when you lose it. You just have to believe that God has arranged everything for you, and some losses are just to make you better. of getting. You don't need to have a short-term loss or gain in your life to affect your heart. Living in the world, living in the present, and living happily are more important than anything else.
