Author/The clear lotus fragrance in the rain (Henan Yu Xiaohe)
The passage of time has taken away too many past events and too much innocence. We finally learn to let nature take its course in the ups and downs of life.
There are many people and things that we are not accustomed to, but we are finally relieved; there are many grievances and complaints that we cannot swallow, but we finally choose to bear them.
——Yu Xiaohe’s inscription
01, ups and downs are all in life, sour and sweet are life
In the wind and rain of life, a flower blooms and falls and finally returns to simplicity; in the bitterness of life, a joy and sorrow is finally Light into clouds and smoke.
How much prosperity has disappeared, leaving dead branches and leaves; how many fates have gathered and scattered, leaving lonely eyes.
Happy stories are stranded on the other side of the years, and sad lovesickness is hidden in the wind and rain of life.
Gradually, we learned to let go, to reconcile with ourselves, and to let nature take its course.
Mo Yan said: "Life is all about things. Coming is accidental, going is inevitable. Take it for granted and let it take its course. So you have to learn to treat the world gently."
Yes! We came to this world without any choice. From then on, the ups and downs are all life, and the ups and downs are all life.
Perhaps, we have also been hit by the storms of life and have been depressed; perhaps, we have also been troubled by the bitterness of life and have complained.
However, we finally understand life and belittle the gains and losses. I only wish to be gentle with this world and live up to my time and life.
02. All things have spirits, I wish you to be at peace with the situation; gains and losses are fate, I hope you let it take its course.
In the storm of life, there will be gains and losses. If you treat gains and losses with a normal mind, you can be at ease.
On the road of life, there are reincarnations of gain and loss. No one can escape the joys and sorrows of life, and can only taste the ups and downs of life.
If you get something beautiful, you are lucky, and you should love yourself and cherish it; if you lose something broken, you should choose to let it go.
Only by letting nature take its course can we be at peace with ourselves. Only by letting nature take its course can we be at ease.
Sanmao once said: "You often cannot find things you deliberately look for. Just be yourself. Everything in the world comes and goes in its own time."
You really don't have to worry too much about gains and losses in life.
It should be something you own, because it is destined to you and will come to you sooner or later; it should not be something you own, because it is naturally undestined and cannot be forced.
All things have spirits, I wish you to be at peace with the situation; gains and losses are fate, I wish you to let nature take its course!
03. I just want to stay quietly and watch the changing times.
People, the more they experience, the more relaxed they can be.
Perhaps we were once young and frivolous and did not take anyone seriously; perhaps we were once ambitious and wanted to achieve something.
When we taste the bitterness of life and see through the weaknesses of human nature, we finally learn to be silent and learn to settle our thoughts in silence.
We are no longer frivolous or arrogant in doing things. We have learned to be content with the situation and let nature take its course.
Lu Sihao "You have to believe that there is no tomorrow that cannot come": "One day, your edges will be smoothed by the world, you will pull out the thorns on your body, and you will learn to smile at the people you hate, You will become a calm person. "
Yes, our edges have been smoothed away by the storms of life, and what remains is inner calmness and calmness.
Even, we no longer put up spikes like a little hedgehog , but learned to tolerate and hide.
We will not try our best to please others, but we will no longer be happy or angry. I just want to watch the passing years quietly and watch the changes.
04. May you taste all kinds of flavors and still have vivid eyes; may you go through vicissitudes of life and still have a pure heart.
Every storm will make us stronger; every joy and sorrow will make us grow up.
Perhaps, some of the ups and downs in life are to experience our state of mind; perhaps, some of the bitterness of life are to sharpen our will.
The years are like a song, singing about the joys and sorrows of life; the mortal world is like a dream, outlining the ups and downs of life.
When the storm passes, we will understand that there is no storm that cannot be overcome; when the bitterness is exhausted, we will understand that there is no bitterness that cannot be swallowed.
Bai Luomei said: "In this bizarre human world, no one can live a smooth life. But I always believe that those who have walked through the mist and rain of the lake, the mountains and rivers of the years, those who have gone through many disasters and tasted all kinds of flavors will be more vivid and clean . ”
In life, there are always ups and downs one after another; in life, there are always wisps of sweetness and sourness.
No one can avoid experiencing the ups and downs of life, and no one can avoid tasting the bitterness of life. Everyone has their own grievances and pains; everyone has their own disasters, joys and sorrows.
May you taste all kinds of flavors and still have vivid eyes; may you go through vicissitudes of life and still have a pure heart!
Text: The rain is carrying the fragrance of lotus flowers. Another pen name: Yu Xiaohe
Picture source: Xiaoqing Photography (authorized by Xiaoqing)
