Don't look for happiness in other people's eyes, otherwise you will always be sad; don't look for dignity in other people's mouth, otherwise you will always be humble. Be brave enough to be yourself and say what you really mean, because those who would mind you do not deserve you

Don't look for happiness in other people's eyes, otherwise you will always be sad; don't look for dignity in other people's mouths, otherwise you will always be humble.

Be brave enough to be yourself and speak your mind straight away, because those who would mind if you do this are not worthy of your mind, and those who deserve your mind will not mind no matter what you do. Only when you are covered with thorns will others take care of your feelings. You are so soft that everyone wants to rub you, you are so comfortable.

Maturity means being less self-righteous and more self-aware.

You should like people who make you feel beautiful and warm from the bottom of your heart. Not those who make you feel useless.

Time is the most untouchable thing. If you dare to squander it, it will dare to waste you.

Intuition is quite accurate. All the neglect and contempt you can detect, all the feelings you no longer like or care about are not because of sensitivity, but are real facts. Don’t accept all your grievances as they are, don’t always grit your teeth in secret and try your best on your own, don’t be afraid of rejecting others, don’t be afraid of causing trouble to others, don’t let your kindness hurt yourself.

There are serious words hidden in all the jokes, and those responses that seem not to be understood are probably the most tactful rejection.

All the things you have cried about, many years later, you will say it with a smile, and then scold yourself: It was really stupid at the beginning, but in fact, there are not so many worries in life, time will solve everything, love yourself well. No one can protect us from the wind and rain, so we have to hold up the sky by ourselves. Don't always worry about yourself, life is difficult for everyone.

Take good care of your body, do the things you like, treat the people who are important to you well, try to be happy and keep smiling, everything you want is on the way.

You have to believe that luck in this world is conserved, and the suffering you are suffering now will eventually turn into the sweetness you like. Just treat it as if you are on a long vacation, have a good rest, and when the time comes, life has just begun. Make a living first, then find love. Career is dinner, love is dessert. So slow down, slow down, everything will be the best arrangement.

Love will never disappear naturally, it will die due to ignorance, mistakes, and betrayal.

Sometimes, when you are disappointed to a certain extent, a flower will bloom. The name of that flower does not matter. Therefore, any comfort is not as effective as seeing it thoroughly yourself. May you have good luck, if not, may you learn compassion in misfortune; may you be loved by many people, if not, may you learn tolerance in loneliness.

People are only particularly interested in things they like.

Anger is punishing oneself with other people's mistakes; worry is torturing oneself with one's own mistakes; regret is using helpless past events to destroy oneself; worry is frightening oneself with virtual risks.