Belinsky said: True friends do not pay lip service to friendship. They do not ask each other for anything for the sake of friendship, but do everything they can for each other.
My friend, it’s not that when I need help, I saw the sentence you sent, I don’t know; when I wanted to go out to play with you, you sent the sentence, I don’t have time; or when I was embarrassed, your temporary message Exit; when I need you most, I can't find you.
Instead of being friends with such people, it is better to make some new friends or be independent.
When we were kids, we thought we were good friends when we played together.
Time passes, and it is not until youth that we realize:
A true friend is happy for you when you succeed,
encourages you when you are sad, and criticizes you when you make a mistake.
A friend is someone who sees you through and still likes you. A true friend is someone who still chooses to help you when you are in trouble.
Everyone must have heard the story of Guan Bao dividing the money.
Guan Zhong got acquainted with Bao Shuya when he was in his 20s. At first, the two of them did business together. Guan Zhong, who was from a poor family, invested less, while Bao Shuya invested more. The business was doing well, but someone found that Guan Zhong used the money he earned to pay back the money first. Some of the debts he owed were repaid before the money was recorded in his account. If he was considered to have spent money privately, he might not be far from the crime of embezzling public funds.
What's even more annoying is that at the end of the year, Bao Shuya gave him half of the dividend, and he accepted it. Bao Shuya's subordinates were very angry. They didn't understand and told Bao Shuya that not only was his investment small, but he also spent a lot of money. At the end of the year, I even gave him half of the bonus, but he still took it. He must be a greedy person, but Bao Shuya said, "Don't you see that he is in difficulty now?" He needs money more than me. I do business with him just to help him do whatever I want.
A friend is someone who is willing to stand up for you when you are in trouble. Even if you suffer a loss, you will never hesitate to help you.
True friends should be based on encouraging each other and making progress.
If there is no inner encouragement and only superficial intimacy, such friends will not last long and the meaning of being friends will be lost.
In the vast sea of people, everyone longs for a friend who truly understands them and is willing to pay for themselves without hesitation. But don’t forget, don’t let your friend keep giving. Over time, your indifference will make her feel I don’t know, friendship is a two-way street too.
Finally, I hope you can meet someone who sees you through and is still willing to be your friend; someone who is willing to step forward to help you when you are in trouble; meet someone who inspires you to become a better person.
