1. What kind of life you want, you must instill what kind of culture into yourself. This is the motto that changes your destiny. There is no so-called savior in this world. The only one who can save us is ourselves. We don’t want to have the idea of anyone coming to save us. This is a slave mentality. Never wait for someone to save us. Everyone should save themselves from an early age. To change your destiny, start by changing yourself.
2. Learn other people’s knowledge and experience and combine it with practice to have your own understanding of other people’s cognition. Such cognition is your own cognition. Talking without practicing is essentially a weak culture. If you place your hope on a simple learning methodology, you are just unwilling to get your hands dirty and explore on your own. Learning without effort is like writing in the sand. If you write today, the words will disappear tomorrow.
3. The rule of survival is very simple, that is, endure what others cannot tolerate, and what you can tolerate cannot. Tolerance is a line and energy is a line. The distance between the two is the chance of survival. Both sides suffer, if you live longer than others, you are the winner. "Ability" and "endurance" are the magic weapons for a person to gain an advantage in competition, and they are also the upper and lower limits for a person's survival. Those who accomplished great things in ancient times had extraordinary talents and perseverance.
4. Desire is the driving force for success, and greed is the source of failure. You know, in many cases, the failure of things is not a problem of your ability and methods, but the result of too much greed. Excessive greed will only make people more and more miserable, becoming a slave to desire, bringing disaster to themselves and those around them. Know how to be content. If you can’t get it, just let it go. Being content is happiness, and wanting less is happiness. Only by cherishing what you already have and living well in the present can you live your life well.
5. If you have too many things in your mind and think too much, your body and mind will be tired, and people will naturally become unhappy. If your heart is simpler, you will be happier and your life will be more comfortable. Sometimes, if you pretend to be a little confused and take everything lightly, you can live a relaxed life. The reason why a person is happy does not lie in having more, but in caring less. If your heart is simple and you don't think too much, life will become simple and happy; if you are confused and don't care, life will be happy.
6. Life is like a journey, and meeting someone is fate. Meeting someone who treats you well is your blessing; meeting someone who hurts you is your destiny. When people live in the world, they should think more of the good things of others and let go of the bad things of others, so that they can live easily and comfortably. In this life, there are many audiences, and it is not easy to meet noble people. When others are kind to you, you must know how to repay kindness even if it is a drop of water. Learn to be grateful, throw a peach in return, and repay a plum in return. A meal of kindness will be sent a thousand meters away.
7. Tolerance is not incompetence, but a kind of tolerance; tolerance is not cowardice, but a pattern; tolerance is not fear, but a kind of cultivation. To forgive others for their faults is to truly be kind to yourself. If you calm down your anger, you will not regret it; if your heart is tolerant, you will not be ashamed of yourself. People are not saints, and they have no faults. To dwell on the harm is just to use the mistakes of others to punish yourself and make yourself fall into the abyss of pain.
8. Always cultivate your mind. When you cultivate your mind to accept all rivers, you will be able to accept the ups and downs in life calmly, and then you will be fearless and calm. When a person lives in the world, the people he meets, the things he does, the love and hurt he feels are all by no means accidental. No matter how poor you are, never forget your original intention; no matter how rich you are, never forget the kindness of others. The road will be wider when your heart is wider, forget your resentment, and be grateful.
