There is no way for misfortunes and blessings, but people call for it; the rewards of good and evil follow them like a shadow. When people encounter setbacks and difficulties, they should not blame others and be full of complaints. They should reflect on themselves, find out their own problems and correct them. This is the correct way to solve the problem.
The following 8 things will consume a person’s blessings. We must be careful not to do them!
1. See him in glory and honor, and wish him to be demoted.
Many people have the problem of being petty. They don’t want others to be kind to them, and they don’t want others to get what they can’t get. Now that I see others getting glory and wealth, but I can't get it myself, I hope that others will be unlucky as soon as possible, that they will commit crimes and be dismissed from their posts and demoted.
2. Seeing that he is rich, may he be broken up.
When you see other people’s families being rich and you are so poor, you can’t stand it. You wish they would break up your family as soon as possible, and you will feel better.
3. Seeing her beauty, you have selfish motives
When you see someone else’s wife or daughter looking beautiful, you start to have evil thoughts and want to take her as your own. Although actual actions have not yet occurred, as soon as such thoughts occur, evil causes have been sown, because all evil deeds are initiated by thoughts.
4. If you bear other people's goods and wealth, may they die.
The ancients said well: "A drop of water should be repaid by a spring." When we encounter difficulties, others lend us a helping hand and lend us goods and wealth, so that When we get through difficulties, we should repay others' kindness and always think about repaying others' kindness. But some people don't think so. Not only do they not want to repay their debts to others, they also hope that they will die soon so that they can default on the debt.
5. If you don’t get what you want, you will be cursed
In life, you need to ask for help from others for many things. When others help us, that is their duty. If others do not help us, it is also their duty. We should not feel the slightest resentment. But some people are not like this. When they ask others to do something, if they don't agree, they start to feel resentful and even curse them.
6. When you see him lose his bowels, say that he has lived a bad life.
When others are happy, you will please them and flatter them. When people are down and out, they feel that they have no chance to make a comeback and are worthless, so they take the opportunity to say all sorts of bad things about them and step on them hard.
7. The scope of disorder is to defeat others.
When you see others doing a prosperous career and are about to achieve something, you will feel jealous and suffer from pink eye, so you will do everything possible to sabotage him and prevent him from succeeding. Let him end up in failure, and then he will be satisfied.
8. Damaging people's artifacts. If the poor use
and see that others are doing better work, or have better skills, or are valued by the boss, they will deliberately destroy the tools used by others. When others want to work, they will be unable to work because the tools are damaged, thus their purpose is achieved.
