Are you smart?
Maybe we don’t know it ourselves, but we have “standards” in our hearts to measure a smart person.
We either envy or admire those people who are responsive, smart and capable.
Their talents make us always want to get close to them unconsciously.
A smart person can not only solve problems faster, but also make his life smoother.
Smart people have a different attitude towards the world. They are confident, optimistic and courageous.
Being a smart person is something that almost everyone hopes for.
So how do we become smart people? In other words, what mistakes do smart people not make?
, they will not make excuses
Many times, making excuses is a person's subconscious reaction. When we make mistakes, we will unconsciously want to shift the responsibility to others. This is a self-protection mechanism.
But smart people can overcome this impulse and dare to take responsibility for their actions.
When smart people make mistakes, they will not rush to take away the responsibility, but will look for something valuable in the mistake.
Such as experience, such as the reasons for making mistakes, such as one's own decision-making, etc.
These will become valuable experiences for them before doing things next time.
, they will not rely on luck
Obviously, smart people will not place their chances on luck. Even if there is gambling in it, luck only accounts for a small part.
Simply relying on luck will actually make it difficult for us to tide over the difficulties.
For example, I am short of money recently, and I am extremely eager for my articles to become popular, so that I can make a lot of money every day, and then turn around.
But this is just luck. If I don’t polish my content and organize it clearly, luck will not favor me.
Therefore, no one can have free luck. All good luck is actually based on our hard work.
99% hard work plus 1% luck equals success. If there is no 1% luck, I believe he can still succeed, but it may come later.
But without the previous 99% of efforts, it is impossible to turn over just by luck.
, they will not do things based on preference
When we choose to do something, it depends entirely on preference. If you like it, do it, and if you don’t like it, don’t do it.
This is actually a normal phenomenon, but if we apply this phenomenon to other aspects, it may get us into trouble.
When we make decisions about certain things, we must rely on our own experience and understanding of market conditions, rather than simply relying on our own preferences.
so that we can better do more correct things.
Smart people will not fight against their emotions, let alone be influenced by them.
Smart people know when they need to take a step back and consider it all before making a decision.
, they will not overestimate themselves
I once said that the thing we understand least is often ourselves.
We may be able to understand others easily, and we can even learn some skills to understand others, but we often don’t understand ourselves well enough.
In other words, we always think that we know ourselves very well, but in fact, in the eyes of outsiders, it is completely different.
Most smart people are relatively humble and will not promote themselves in front of others. Instead, they like to hide their strengths.
This is not a sign of lack of confidence. On the contrary, it is a very confident attitude, with full confidence that one can fully cope with any situation.
Moreover, these people do not rely on expressing anything to improve their status. They may express some opinions on the things they focus on, but they often stop talking about things they are not familiar with.
Such people will never overestimate themselves, nor will they put themselves in an awkward position.
5, they will not be impatient
Smart people are more able to keep their composure.
Especially the founder of the company, from the beginning of the company to the later financing and listing, every step was like walking on thin ice.
But I don’t see any intention of giving up.
The reason why many people fail is not because they are incompetent, but because they are always eager for success and want to start a company today and make money tomorrow.
This extremely popular behavior makes it almost impossible for them to succeed.
6, they will not rely too much on
Over-reliance on others will make us weak and even make us lose confidence.
Just like in relationships, if we rely too much on the other half, we will gradually become directionless, as if all the focus is on the other half.
In this way, not only will we not gain respect from each other, but once abandoned, even basic survival skills will be lost.
Just because we do not rely too much on others does not mean that we are completely independent. Asking for help and relying on others are two different things.
Smart people know how to be independent and how to ask for help.
7, they will not do things that are beyond their control
No matter how smart a person is, there are always some things that are beyond their control, and smart people will never touch these things.
When we are really in a situation beyond our control, smart people will only think about what they can do to change the worst outcome.
They prefer to focus on what they can do.
8, they will not make friends with negative people
Each of us has limited time, energy and resources, and we must learn how to allocate them.
The more time we spend with those who are negative and lazy,
we lose the opportunity to become friends with those who are positive and can provide us with motivation.
So smart people will not make friends with negative people. Every second spent with such people is wasted because they will not get any positive feedback.
can even affect our own emotions.
So, instead of trying to please everyone, smart people make a conscious choice to surround themselves with those who share their values and passions.
9, they don’t know how to gossip.
Gossip is actually a waste of time.
Sometimes we chat with others, and most of the day passes before we know it, but in the end we get nothing.
Gossip is something that should only be enjoyed by those who want to lie down or have no worries about food and clothing.
For smart people, when they chat, they will always find ways to get some information from the other party, or gain some knowledge.
I don’t know if you have noticed one thing. When our classmates got together in the past, everyone would either reminisce about the past or brag, but what about now?
More and more people are getting together to discuss what to do to make money, which line of work has more prospects, etc.
Smart people don’t gossip casually. Their time is often more valuable than what others see.
0, they will never forget to say thank you
Smart people prefer to say thank you. Others will express their gratitude for a little help from others, even to their own friends and partners.
This actually does not mean that smart people are polite, but that they understand people's hearts better.
People like to gain recognition and respect from others through small things.
Perhaps in our eyes, these things are trivial, but expressing gratitude will make those who help you feel respected by you, and they will be more willing to help you next time.
So smart people have a wide range of connections, not because they are really smart, but because they understand the weaknesses of human nature.
1, they will not indulge in the past.
No one will never make mistakes in their life, but some people can get over their past failures, and some people will stop there in their lives.
Yu Minhong has been trending on the Internet more than once recently. In addition to his live broadcast of agricultural products, which has made netizens shine, people also deeply admire the 60-year-old man's enthusiasm.
went from a hot leader in the education and training industry to a company whose stock price plummeted 90% overnight and was on the verge of bankruptcy. Yu Minhong transformed and established "Oriental Selection".
made netizens shine in his live broadcast room.
Yu Minhong’s live broadcast of helping farmers allowed him to see the old man’s passion and courage again.
He was not hampered by past success or failure. After shutting down New Oriental , he turned around and embarked on the journey of entrepreneurship again.
Conclusion:
We will find that smart people and stupid people are sometimes not reflected in IQ or EQ, but more of an attitude towards life.
The world kissed me with pain, but I responded with songs.
When we lament the unsatisfactory life and the lack of ambition in life, have we ever thought that the root cause of all this may be something wrong with ourselves.
I don’t think people with high IQs can live a graceful life;
On the contrary, I think that when we face life with a positive and correct energy, no matter what the outcome is, we can live a life worthy of it.
