In real life, everyone has something unsatisfactory, and perfect people can only be found in books. It is precisely because of one's own shortcomings that different beauty is achieved. Venus with a broken arm was stared at as a model of beauty because of her broken arm.
I once said: Everything has two sides, there must be a good side and a bad side. Regardless of whether everything in the world is high or low, fat or thin, light or dark, positive or negative, if you look at it from a different angle or look at it from a different state of mind, you will get completely different results.
Human life is a process of self-realization. In this process, we cannot be unrealistic and completely copy other people's lives. If other people's children are talented in music, they force them to learn music too. They don't know that this is the greatest harm to the children.
Only by knowing yourself can you know others, understand the strengths and weaknesses of others, and look at yourself objectively. For example, the figure is not as slender as others, but small, such as lack of agility, but very stable. Only by reading yourself patiently can you discover your own scenery.
When people live in the world, there are actually not so many comparisons, and not so much looking up to them. As long as you live in reality, put on clothes when it's cold, take off your clothes when it's hot, and enjoy the simplicity and happiness of the moment, you may become the scenery for others.
