People are products of habits and are also trapped by habits. Getting along with others is also a struggle and blending of habits.
Therefore, people must know how to tolerate and understand. If you put yourself in others' shoes, you can avoid blind habitual reactions, and your interpersonal relationships will become better.
There are no real bad people in this world, they are just habits or bad habits. If you let your habits control you, you will do evil. If you think you do too much evil, you will be called a bad person.
In the final analysis, it is still human habit. By practicing mindfulness, you can be aware of people's habits, and then you can use reason to replace habits and make decisions for yourself. Then, everything in life will develop in a good direction. This is real practice.
Fighting against one’s own habits is spiritual practice. Fighting against the habits of others is loss.
Because cultivation is in your own hands, if you cultivate yourself, you will also cultivate the entire world. Instead of thinking about repairing others in your own practice, this will only cause serious conflicts and reservations, and then life will never be peaceful.
