I accidentally came across this content when I was browsing headlines today
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This daughter is still very filial, at least she feels guilty, but I think she has not seen the essence of this problem clearly. I want to say, For most low-income families, maybe only parents who don’t pull their hips are worthy of having children who are not cool.
In today's society, many times, you have to admit that you need to stand on the shoulders of your parents, the "giants", to see further and go further. This not only refers to the material conditions and spiritual edification provided by your parents, but also includes the many "worries" in life that your parents help you solve. However, as parents at the bottom of the society, most of the time they cannot provide enough material and spiritual support, so they usually help solve their "worries". The most typical one now is to help young children take care of their children so that they can go with more peace of mind. Work hard. However, if the lower-class parents suffer changes and have nothing to provide and need their children to feed them back, especially when their children are younger and their values are not yet mature, they will most likely become cold-blooded.
The same is true for the daughter in the picture above. Her parents’ house is still leaking. Most likely, she lives in a rural area with poor economic conditions. Her grandson is in school and she has not taken care of her daughter, so she can be said to be a bit of a crotchless parent. , not getting enough care from her daughter.
I once heard a story, and this is also the case. This is a true story told by an online ride-hailing driver.
I took a long taxi that day and passed by a well-known key high school in our city. The online taxi master proudly told me that his son graduated from this high school and was admitted to Beijing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics. He is now working for an airline in the south. When you go to work, the pay is pretty good. This is probably a common problem among Northeastern parents. If they have a proud child, they have to show it off. Of course I agreed and said it was great, and I would wait to go to a big city to enjoy the blessings with my son.
He smiled bitterly and said, that is impossible. In order for him to go to high school, I bought him a house in the city so that he could go to school with peace of mind. Now that I have grown stronger, I don't care about us anymore. After graduation, he went to the south by himself. Unexpectedly, a female classmate from junior high school followed him to the south to look for him. This girl is so scheming. She just went after my son. At first, she just asked my son to help find a house and a job as an old classmate. Later, she became obsessed with my son without knowing how to take care of her. My son's company dormitory I no longer live there, so I moved out and rented a house for her and the two of us lived together. She didn't go to work, and she pointed at my son to support her every day. She is now pregnant, and both of them have obtained evidence. She has taken over her parents and brothers, and they are all supported by my son.
This is quite obvious that he met a scheming girl. The boy is not very smart and is being manipulated to death. Of course I tried to persuade her, saying that she was pregnant and of course she had to accept it. Unexpectedly, the driver said it was impossible, and I absolutely disagree. He made his mother angry about breast cancer , and now he doesn't care about us. He relies on me to drive to treat his mother every day. We don't listen no matter what we say.
I felt quite heavy when I heard this. I thought it was to show off my son’s excellence, but I didn’t expect that I was so frustrated that I could only complain to strangers. I think there is a high probability that this son was raised in vain. If the mother is not sick and the parents accept the girl, the son can come back to see her. But in this situation, the Phoenix man who flew out from the bottom will most likely continue to be unfilial. Like him, he must be a more realistic person. Of course, being attracted to this girl may be true love, or it may be a mistake that will lead to eternal hatred, but it cannot be undone. After all, the girl's family is looking after him now, and he cannot take advantage of his current glamor. Identity bets. He has been sucked by the girl's family. He is definitely not willing to use the little money left (maybe there is no money left at all) to treat his mother's illness, and he is even less willing to accept the accusations from his parents. After all, he does not listen to the old man's words. It was a big loss, so he chose to escape.
So this has nothing to do with having a boy or a girl. Just imagine if the driver's family was rich. From the beginning, the son would follow his father's lead. He would never be complacent because of his small achievements, and he would never dare to sever ties with his parents. Well, at least for the sake of money.
Of course, there are many examples of filial sons from poor families. The words and deeds of parents are still very important. I hope that young people who are swept away by the current of the times will not be obsessed with material and reality.
