I was born in 1968 and am 54 years old this year. The oldest person born in the 1960s is 63 years old and the youngest one is 54 years old.
"At forty, there is no confusion; at fifty, one knows destiny."
People who are 50 years old should be self-aware. What can
do and what can't it do? I know better than anyone how capable I am.
Therefore, people at this age should arrange their lives according to everything they currently have, use existing resources, and rationally configure all aspects of life. This can reduce worries and anxiety for themselves, and lead a peaceful and peaceful life. old age.
1. In life, choose low-end, live a minimalist life, and save more money.
When eating in a restaurant, the quality and hygiene cannot be guaranteed. You often spend the most money and eat the worst food. Cooking and eating at home is healthy, saves money and is hygienic. Why not?
In terms of housing choice, at this age, you can buy improved housing. As you get older, it is more suitable to live in an elevator building.
Buy as big a house as you have, give up the mentality of comparing with others, and don't buy properties that exceed your financial strength. Especially don't take out another loan. Whether you can afford it or not, it's always a question in your mind. Carrying this pressure is unhealthy for people in their fifties.
Save the money you save. When you get old, your body will have various problems. These are natural laws and cannot be overcome. They require money. You can get it without asking your children for it, and it will be reduced. A lot of trouble.
Once you can no longer take care of yourself, as long as you have money, you can hire someone to take care of you without having to trouble your children.
Children have their own families, they have to work, and they also have their own lives. As long as you save money, you can not only hire someone to take care of your life and not trouble your children, but you can also use money to support their lives.
Therefore, some people say that money can solve more than 90% of problems, and the remaining 10% of problems require more money to solve.
2. Live a low-social life, reduce various social activities, withdraw from various circles, and learn to enjoy a lonely but not lonely life.
The essence of social activities is the relationship of mutual utilization. Once the value of being used is lost, various relationships will no longer exist. The reason why people have to be gregarious is to survive.
You are over 50 years old. Your career is over immediately. There is no career advancement. All you need to do is to take care of yourself and don't trouble others.
As long as you are not meddlesome, you will have made a contribution to your children and society. After
retires, he will continue to exercise, advocate healthy eating, and develop some hobbies that are beneficial to physical and mental health.
Help his children to the best of his ability and strive to be an elderly person who is beneficial to society and his family.
3. Have a high-quality family, care about your family, and maintain the relationship between the extended family.
When treating your relatives and family, you should choose a good match. Treat your relatives as kindly as possible. It is natural to be filial to your parents. The ancients said: "Filial piety comes first."
When children need your help, don't refuse easily. . Help them as much as you can.
It is not easy for children nowadays. They are busy with work and raising children, and they are overwhelmed by mortgage and car loans. As their biological parents, if you help them at this critical moment, they will remember your benefits.
As you get older, you will need more and more help from your children. Maintaining a good relationship with your children is an important guarantee for you to spend your old age safely and peacefully.
4. Equip yourself with more knowledge, don’t refuse to learn new knowledge, and read more. Develop hobbies that are good for your physical and mental health.
Reading more books can broaden your horizons and give you a better understanding of life. You can find answers to various doubts you encounter in life from books.
Learning a variety of new knowledge will allow you to keep pace with the times. When communicating with young people, there will be less generation gap and more understanding.
If you read more books, your mentality and temperament will become better, and your energy and energy will also improve. No matter what type of book you read, it will be of great benefit to your physical and mental health.
Cultivating hobbies that are beneficial to physical and mental health can enrich your life and kill a lot of time. At the same time, it can also prevent you from getting into bad habits, stay away from all kinds of bad people and bad things, and prevent you from doing unethical things in the last stage of your life. Norms, bad behaviors harmful to health.
5. If you don’t deserve bad emotions, you will learn to be confused.
As I get older, I can’t care about that much anymore. Just turn a blind eye to the same thing. Don’t take it too seriously, whether at work or in life.
Losing your temper will not solve the problem, it will only make things more complicated. This is a sign of incompetence. When you are emotional, you must find a way to calm yourself down, talk less, and don't make any decisions.
Facts have proved that any decision made when emotional is mostly wrong.
Treat everything that happens around you with a tolerant attitude, love your family with your kindness, don't force everything, don't compare with others, learn to let nature take its course, leave the things that can't be solved there, and let time solve them slowly.
As a person born in the 1960s, arrange your life according to the above five requirements and strive to spend a peaceful and peaceful old age.
