Happiness is the word throughout life. However, there is no clear definition of what happiness is and what constitutes happiness. But happiness does exist all the time and everywhere. The key is whether you feel happiness.
As a child, lying in your mother's arms, you will feel a kind of warmth. This kind of warmth is actually happiness.
When you are studying, if you get good grades in the exam, you will have a sense of satisfaction and pride. This is happiness. Even if your grades are not as good as others, think about there are many people who are not as good as you, you will still feel a kind of satisfaction and happiness.
When you grow up, when you go out, your parents repeatedly tell you to pay attention to safety, don't go hungry, don't freeze, don't get caught in the rain, and even prepare money, clothes, dry food, and umbrellas for you in advance. This kind of meticulous care from parents is even more of a blessing.
You are in love, and your lover likes you and cares about you in every possible way. You will feel a kind of sweetness, and this sweetness is happiness.
When you become a parent, you will feel extremely happy to have children. When your children live happily and grow up healthily, you will have an indescribable sense of happiness and joy.
Some people say that life is about eating and drinking. In fact, having food, drink, clothing, shelter, or even having everything is not necessarily happiness, nor is it necessarily joyful. For example, Leslie Cheung , he is a very famous actor and singer. He should have everything. Why would he commit suicide? This shows that happiness is not necessarily directly proportional to the degree of material possessions. On the contrary, some people are not necessarily rich materially, but they are rich spiritually. They live happily all their lives, just like gods, which makes people envious.
Happiness is always present, the key is to learn to feel it.
If you are a farmer, there are more than one billion people who are farmers like you. Think this way and you won't have an inferiority complex. On the contrary, when others eat meat, drink wine and enjoy delicious food, you may think that your contribution may be included in the things they enjoy. If you think this way, you will be proud of it and your labor will be glorious. Words such as "Labour is great" will fill your mind. Isn't this a kind of happiness?
If you are a teacher, although you are busy on the three-foot podium all day long and your mouth is dry when giving lectures, you pass on knowledge to each student, and you create batches of knowledgeable talents who leave the campus. In the future, they will devote their talents and talents learned from you to different positions. When they achieve something, don’t you feel honored? Aren't you proud? Just like Xu Teli, although he is a teacher, he and other teachers cultivated a world great man, and this great man created a new China. That kind of pride and happiness is difficult to describe in words. of.
To take a step back, suppose you become a beggar for some reason. You have to think that compared to some people who have died, at least you still have a healthy body and you are at least alive. This life itself is a kind of happiness. When you get a bowl of rice or a few yuan, you will feel sincerely happy. When you receive assistance from the state and have no worries about food and clothing, or even get out of poverty and become well-off with the support of the state, you will sincerely sigh: It is great to be born in China; to be Chinese, you are so happy.
So, how can we create happiness and feel happiness?
Learn more from Lei Feng and do more good deeds. At all times and in all countries, people who do good deeds will always be praised by people, and they will always get an indescribable happiness from people's praise. At the same time, most of these people live a peaceful and stable life. Peace means less worries; peace means a kind of happiness.
Don’t be arrogant when you win, and don’t be discouraged when you lose. If you struggle, you will succeed, but don't be complacent. Sometimes, efforts are not necessarily directly proportional to gains, or there may even be no gains at all. At this time, don’t be discouraged. It will hurt your health and consume your pride and capital to regain your glory. Only by always maintaining a peaceful and optimistic attitude can we continue to be positive, achieve continuous success, and make our lives full of sunshine.
Don't learn bad things, and don't do bad things.As a human being, as long as you behave appropriately, do things righteously, and do not do things that violate party discipline and state laws, do not do things that violate social morality, and do not do things that harm others and benefit yourself, you will be able to deal with them calmly and be happy. "If you don't do anything wrong, you won't be surprised if you knock on the door in the middle of the night." This is exactly what is said.
Don't compare with others, don't make trouble with yourself. In life, it is impossible for everything to go well, and there are always areas where you are not as good as others. If you are always sad and angry because you are not as good as others, your life will appear dim, miserable and desolate. "Comparing people with each other will make people angry." This is a thousand-year-old saying that should be kept in mind. Similarly, you may be inferior to others, but you may also be better than others. Learn to be content, and those who are content will always be happy. Happiness is always accompanied by joy.
Don't fight, live in harmony with others. Between people, there will inevitably be stumbling blocks, misunderstandings and offenses. If we can understand each other, be tolerant, and live in harmony, there will be no quarrels, let alone fights. "Tolerance is the highest, and harmony is the most precious." Money cannot buy the happiness of living in peace.
In short, there are techniques and ways to happiness, and different people have different ways of pursuing happiness and feeling happiness. As long as you understand the true meaning of life, you will create a happy life.
