Life is full of ups and downs, and no road is smooth sailing. You have to overcome many difficulties and thorns before you can find a road that suits you.
Success is not something that can be achieved easily. Behind a successful person, there must be countless blood and tears accumulated. Therefore, if you want to achieve great things, you must go through a lot of hardships.
Everyone will deal with it differently when experiencing hardships, which determines their different lives.
When I was young, the difficulty was the unachievable achievements. When I grew up, the difficulty was the embarrassment of life. When I was old, the difficulty was not having a good person to accompany me.
No matter which stage you are at, there will be different hardships. But we must also believe that difficulties and tribulations are only temporary. In fact, after this level is passed, these tribulations will not be worth mentioning when we look back.
As the ancients said, only by enduring hardship can one become a master. How can flowers bloom that have not experienced storms? How can people who have not experienced hardships grow?
No matter what kind of hardships you are going through now, as long as you face it bravely, in the future you will definitely thank yourself for working so hard now, and you will also gain different achievements.
All roads lead to Rome. Sometimes this road fails, so don’t keep walking. If you think differently, it may be another village where there is a bright future but a bright future.
Enduring hardship is not the only way to grow and achieve great things, but it will definitely be their most direct way. Only by experiencing these three hardships can your life become more meaningful.
1. After experiencing the embarrassment of having no money, you can better understand the meaning of hard work
The world is in a hurry, but it is just a few taels of silver. Since ancient times, all people's efforts have ultimately been to achieve the ultimate goal-making money.
Nowadays, many college students, when they are protected by their parents, always ask their parents for money in various names. However, when they truly step out of society independently, they find that making money is not an easy task.
It is precisely because I have experienced the embarrassment of having no money that I understand the meaning of saving money and living hard.
Whether in TV dramas or in real life, there are countless cases of couples falling out because of money.
When family, friendship and love become very fragile under the temptation of money.
Before we were embarrassed by money, we didn’t realize how much effort our parents put in so that we could sit in a bright classroom.
But when I started making money and realized that life was not easy, I suddenly realized that hard work is very important.
2. After experiencing the pain of missing your lover, understand that separation is the normal state of life
In this world, no one can accompany you all your life. No matter how much lovers fall in love, they may not make it to the end.
It seems that we have been practicing saying goodbye to different people all our lives. Some people seem to never see each other again after saying goodbye, while some people seem to have lost the original feelings even though they keep seeing each other.
Even though the other person was once your favorite person, one day you may choose to separate because of your outlook on life, family background or other reasons. At that time, please try to be calmer, because sooner or later you will understand that separation is the normal state of life.
3. After experiencing the pain of confusion, you can have a clearer plan for your future
Everyone must have experienced confusion, especially college students who are at the crossroads of graduation.
I don’t know what kind of industry I will choose, and I don’t know which path is more suitable for me. I can only rely on my own intuition to choose a path that is okay for now.
Everyone will encounter fog. When we are in it, we can't see the road ahead clearly, and we don't know what kind of difficulties we will encounter ahead. But as long as you persist in the past, it will be another village where there is a bright future and a bright future.
And in those dark days, even though we were in the dark, we were determined not to give up. Flowers can bloom radiantly only after experiencing a storm, and only when people experience confusion can they have a clearer positioning for their future.
No one knows what path they should take when they are born. They are all constantly exploring to achieve a better life.
Summary:
Life is short, cherish every person who has appeared in your life. If you want to achieve great things, you can't let yourself stay in your comfort zone for a long time. Only by putting yourself in hardship can you develop a better self.
Life cannot be smooth sailing. Once you have reached the top, you must have reached the trough. But since you have chosen a bright future, you must be prepared to fight for the future.
You may feel that life is very hard at this stage, but don't be afraid, this is only temporary. When one day you emerge from the tribulations, you will be the center of attention.
So when you are still unable to contend with hardships, then you should settle yourself down and make yourself better.
If you want to achieve great things, you must go through the above three points of suffering. If you can't bear even a little pain, then how can you talk about a glorious life?
