Opening remarks
There is a saying in the Buddhist school: is born from the heart and settles with the situation.
means that in the lifetime of a person, whether it is prosperous or dry; whether it is poor or rich, whether it has gained or lost; whether it has success or failure...
is all It's just a state of nature.
So, don't let yourself feel sad and happy because of changes in your circumstances.
Of course, most ordinary people are more or less unable to do so.
But on the other hand, if we have been entangled, complained and troubled, many things cannot be changed.
So, might as well have a normal heart, look down on the troubles of the world, let everything be up and down, and when you can’t look away, say to yourself: forget it.
Only in this way can make people live and be contented.
is just like that poem: Sit without problems, spring comes and the grass is green.
Let everything go as it is, what else can you care about in life?
When you can’t control your desires,Say "Forget it" to yourself
There is a saying: Desire is like sea water. The more you drink, the more thirsty you become.
Did you find that when we are more unrestrained with ourselves, the more we will be kidnapped by cumbersome days.
is like,
Some people, watching videos, can lie on the sofa without moving for three hours, forgetting what they should do right now;
Some people love favorites, But they don’t have that great ability, so when someone asks him to do things, they start to let go of bribery;
Some people feel that their family is already "old and yellow", so they start to feast and feast and ask for flowers and willows;
… …
If a person cannot control his desire, desire will control him.
In fact, in many cases, we eat a bowl of rice every meal, and more joyful enjoyment is spiritual abundance.
In the second half of life, when you live sober and understand, don’t be the captive of desire. Tagore once said:
If a bird has gold on its wings, it will definitely not fly. high.
If people’s desires are too heavy, they will make the mood depressed and sad.In the long run, it is inevitable to get sick.
So, the desire is coming, tell yourself: Forget it.
Let yourself live a little easier, and be healthy is more important than anything else.
When you are unwilling to take off your baggage, tell yourself: Forget it
cloth bag monk once said, put a cloth bag on the left, a cloth bag on the left, a cloth bag on the left, How comfortable.
When you deal with things indifferently, you will find that everything can be put down.
But, most of the time, we always come to toss ourselves.
Occasionally there are small gains, but they see their dissatisfaction even more; there will be small flashes, but they see their shallowness and ignorance even more.
is like holding a piece of paper. A piece of paper is very light, but if you hold it for a long time, it will crush yourself. What's more, some people hold thousands of sheets.
Maybe some people will say that your back hurts when you stand and talk.
Some people need to raise a family of children, and some people eat food by themselves and the whole family is not hungry. It is definitely different.
but, Letting go is not to let you take off the responsibilities and burdens on your body, but to face the pain and tribulations, taste all the flavors of life, and pack the experiences and lessons you have learned into your bag.
Throw away all your sufferings, sins, inner complaints, entanglements, and entanglements.
Don’t be immersed in the past, don’t let yourself roll in misfortune, frustration, failure and pain.
In the second half of life, you need to free up your soul and say to your past: Forget it.
calmly, peacefully, yearning for the bright future.
When you can't let go of the faults of others, tell yourself: Forget it
Everyone is just a mortal.
When you meet a grumpy, narrow-minded person, you will always complain about some injustices;
When you meet a ruthless, unkind friend, you will always complain about being unkind;
Passers-by who are not polite or hygienic will always be uncomfortable;
……
In life, there are always things, some people, which make us also infected and make us feel The world is scorching, and humanity is weak.
So I always remember some unhappy involuntarily,I also started to complain and let my emotions fall into suffering.
I am also affected by others.
Sometimes, because I care too much about other people's feelings and attitudes, I lose myself even more.
has a good saying: can be lifted and put down, called weightlifting. Able to lift, unable to put down, is called weight-bearing.
Because of the mistakes of others, I let a knife imprint on myself, and I live in distress and cursing all day long.
So, you might as well say to yourself: forget it.
No matter what others do, there is no need to waste your precious time in complaining and hating others.
In the second half of life, you should live for yourself, so why bother to make yourself angry because of someone else's wrong?
Concluding remarks
Master Hongyi Zeng Yun:
blockquote106 blockquote, for example, died yesterday.
means,Yesterday's is over, and today's is rebirth.
No matter what happened in the past, it is just the past. Living well in the present is the greatest wisdom in life.
People in this life, in the past, are used for remembrance, we only need to remember the good part.
At the moment, we need to cherish it.
However, most people are immersed in the past and longing for the future, but they ignore the present.
As a result, my heart becomes heavier, my life becomes more cumbersome, and people become anxious and irritable.
Life never lacks beauty, but it lacks the heart to discover beauty. The wisdom to live a lifetime is to enjoy the present.
is like that ancient poem:
People in the past, past events, let them exist in the past, for the second half of life, tell yourself, forget it.
Let everything, whatever you want, whatever you want.
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May you find the usual years in my words,Deep affection. Thank you for your attention!
