There is no free lunch in the world. Anything you get is a price. You might say that you don't need to pay any price for what you get from your parents. You get it for free, but is it really free?
What you get from your parents is also what your parents get through labor. You didn't sweat, but they did. They gave it to you because they loved you. You have enjoyed the rights they gave you, and you have to fulfill your obligation to support them.
Maybe they won't ask you anything, but if you don't support them, can your conscience survive? The law will not allow you to do this.
Therefore, any gain comes at a price. Don't have the idea of getting something for nothing. Today’s efforts are preparing for tomorrow. People must plan ahead and live their lives with plans and intentions.
If you are like a fly without a head, you have no plan for your life, and spend as much money as you want, then you will not have a future.
When a person suffers a bit when he is young, he can always carry it through. If you endure hardship when you are old, you are really suffering and there is no chance of a comeback in your life.
People must know how to accumulate virtue, and only after accumulating virtue will be blessed. This is like accumulating wealth. You accumulate wealth when you are young. When you are old, you will not be without money and will not be poor, so that you can spend your old age in peace.
In old age, if you just have money, that's not enough, you have to have family affection. A person who has money and affection will lead to happiness in his later years.
There is a kind of man who will lead a miserable life in his later years, just because they were too irresponsible to the family when they were young. If this kind of man doesn't accumulate virtue, then of course there is no blessing, and the evening scene can only be desolate.
When Lao Dai married his wife, the conditions at home were not good, but his wife did not dislike him.Married him without any consideration. After getting married, Mr. Dai went to business, and his business was doing well, and he naturally became richer on hand. But "a man goes bad when he has money", this statement could not be more correct when applied to Lao Dai.
Because he is rich, there are more Yingyingyanyan beside Lao Dai, and he is nostalgic for these Yingyingyanyan. He doesn't care about his wife and children at all, and doesn't go home once for ten days and a half. Later, he didn't return home once a year, and he didn't give money to his home. His wife and children seemed to have nothing to do with him.
His wife wants to divorce him, but he does not leave and threatens his wife. If his wife insists on divorcing, he will kill his parents-in-law. The wife didn't want to harass her parents, so she had to endure it and took her children to live a hard life.
Old Dai spent a lot of time outside, eating, drinking, and gambling. After nearly 20 years, his body broke down. At this time he had no money, Yingying Yanyan next to him naturally dispersed, and he thought of his wife and children.
At this point, the two children have already married, but neither of them recognizes the old. Lao Dai wanted to reconcile with his wife, so his wife simply moved to their children's home, leaving Lao Dai alone in the old house to fend for himself.
Lao Dai really tasted the desolation of the evening scene. Now no one cares about him. He has no income except for the basic living expenses subsidized by the government. An old man has no money, no one to take care of him, he has a problem with him again, the days can be imagined.
There are a lot of men like Lao Dai in life. This kind of man is selfish when he is young, so long as he is happy, he doesn't care about the life and death of his wife and children. At that time, they were still young and could do whatever they wanted. When they were old, they knew that hardship was coming.
In fact, life is also a process of accumulation, and blessings are accumulated through youth. This is what you plant in the first half of your life, and you will reap in the second half of your life.
Those who indulge themselves when they are young, think only for themselves and don't think about others, naturally no one thinks about them when they are old. You haven't done anything for your spouse, so why should your spouse do for you? You didn't raise your child, so why should your child support you?
A man cherishes his family after marriage,Run the family well with your spouse and do your best to raise the children. Your wife will love you deeply, your children will respect you, and your old age will be happy.
People are passed down from generation to generation. You can set a good example for your children, and your children can walk their own path in life. When you were young, you were irresponsible to your family. Regardless of the life or death of your wife and children, you broke their hearts. How could they love you?
People are mutual, you are good to me, and I am good to you; you are not good to me, of course I am not good to you. If you spend your time, energy, and money on outsiders, you are just squandering it.
The most important thing in your life is your wife and children, but he didn't do anything for them. It's like if you didn't plant crops on your own land, then you certainly didn't harvest.
Those Yingying Yanyan outside are with you because they are interested in your money. They want your money, not you. When you get old and can't make any money, of course they will leave you.
No matter how strong you are when you are young, and no matter how defiant you are, you will always have the old day. You will become very weak and you will need other people's care, but if you have no money and no relatives, who will take care of you?
If you "passed" all of a sudden, it would be altogether altogether, the most feared is that you will not die and suffer alive. Maybe you would say that when I am old, I will cut myself off and not suffer the crime alive. But when you are really old, you don't think so anymore, you just become particularly afraid of death.
This is also human nature. The more something is lost, the more reluctant it is. The desire to survive is a person’s instinct. Old people are particularly afraid of loneliness and death. This is human nature.
So if you don’t want the night scene to be bleak, you must be responsible to your family when you are young. You have to manage your family well, treat your wives and children kindly, and accumulate more virtues for your old age.
.Author: a creator in the field of emotion,Focus on various issues in the emotional field, welcome to pay attention. Life has warmth because of affection and love. Let us grow in love and spend every day in true love.
