Author: Zimo
Life is impermanent, the years are ruthless, and things are often unsatisfactory. People often say: Living is not easy. I often hear people lament that life is really hard and tired!
Yes! In modern life, people are all living in hardships, loneliness and physical and mental exhaustion, especially the mental pressure, which adds a heavy burden to people psychologically.
Everyone knows that only by unloading one's burdens can you move forward lightly, and only with a simple heart can you be calm and calm. Facing the complex world, who doesn't want to be indifferent and face life with a smile?
However, life cannot be smooth sailing, there will always be twists and turns, and there will always be difficulties and obstacles. Maybe what I give you today will leave you with nothing in the blink of an eye. In fact, there is no need to worry, the ones that should come will always come, and the ones that should go can't be kept.
No matter how difficult life is, as long as you have a good attitude, no one can suffer for a lifetime. There will always be suffering. The long night will not last forever, and it will not be dispelled by dawn.
The quality of life is actually based on personal feelings. Your tiredness may not be someone else's tiredness, your happiness may not be understood by others, and other people's pains and joys are not something you can comprehend.
Everything is relative, relative to your tiredness, if you learn to relax, then it's nothing. If you are tired, let your life rest, and if you are tired, you must loosen your soul.
Suffering and happiness are often only between one thought in the human heart, a momentary insight or loss.
Don't love too much, don't sleep too late, don't eat too much, don't be too kind to people, don't believe too much. "
Most of the time in our lives, we cannot get rid of all kinds of problems. We can understand our feelings at the time that we cannot change, but we can’t restrain our emotions and get rid of it. We can only live in the moment. , Face the present truthfully, treat the problem truthfully, do not avoid or resist, and there will be less pain.
The insight of the world is knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the essay. There is no eternal suffering and happiness in life. There is often suffering and happiness. Through the adjustment of the state of mind, the so-called state changes with the heart.
The road of life is not smooth, and the most important thing is to overcome difficulties. The skill that a person must have is survival, and then It is a better life, which requires us to face reality correctly and face life.
The meaning of life is to be accessible and bestowed by others. And know what the real happiness of life is, and don’t devalue our desires. , I don’t have high hopes, but what can make life noble is to cultivate a normal heart in ordinary and trivial life!
"Mr. Itabashi said, "It's rare to be confused." "This sentence is not unreasonable.
If you live a spotless life, you will have to compare your baht and baht, but you will be burdened for a lifetime, and you are really confused, muddled all day long, and confused, it is difficult to create a worthy life; living too soberly How can you be happy if you are exhausted physically and mentally, and you can be happy? Only when you are confused and indifferent can you have a good life.
Everything in the world is nurturing. In the rolling red dust of material desire, there is no need to escape from the world, let alone deliberately. To see through, just need an indifferent state of mind, and a calm and calm smile on life.
Zhuge Liang "The Book of Rings": "Zhu Geliang is not indifferent.Nothing is far from being quiet. "
Life needs precipitation, tranquility can make it far; life needs reflection in order to sublimate in taste; life needs to be accepted in order to let yourself see the laws of the world; life needs to be indifferent, and in order to move forward lightly.
The realm of indifferent life is: do not be insulted, watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court; leave unintentionally, and let the clouds roll in the sky.
Life is an ignorant rush, for fame and profit In the past, there will always be wounds left behind. Surprise after surprise and regret after another are always indispensable in life, and maturity is to accept the arrangements of fate calmly and strive to write life, experience, and life into a poem.
Don’t be happy with things, don’t be sad with yourself, there are gains and losses in life, keep a calm mind. Only by being indifferent to life, can you be content with everlasting happiness. Let yourself remain calm and indifferent. Don’t abandon yourself, don’t like Aiai, and don’t complain about nature and others. Keep your mind calm and do things with the flow.
Kipling said: "If you talk to the villager in a humble manner, walk with the princes without showing flattery, your child, you will lower your eyebrows and When I look up, I feel the dignity and greatness of my personality. "
People’s desires are endless, fame, profit, and profit are all temptations. Ordinary people can’t sit back and relax. Therefore, the world has become more sophisticated, more innocent, and more Be good at yourself, do what you don’t want to do to others, practice inward, and treat others equally, and can’t be snobbish because of their different status and status.
The most despised thing is loss. I lost my self, lost my dignity, tended to be inferior to the flames, flattered, favored one another; the best life is always those who are generous, vigorous, look majestic, open-minded, and magnanimous inside.Upright and upright.
So, high and low are all human sketches, good and evil, beauty and ugliness are the footprints of life, the road is taken by oneself, and the blessing is built by oneself.
The complex world, under the mud and sand, requires us to have an indifferent state of mind, holding a cup of tea, and observing the ups and downs of life; holding a normal heart and looking at the cool world.
Feng Zikai said: "If you love, life is lovely everywhere. If you hate, you can hate everywhere in life. If you are grateful, you can be grateful everywhere. If you grow, everything can grow. Since there is nowhere to hide, it is better to be foolish. Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be joyful. Since there is no pure land, it is better to be meditation. Since there is no wish, it is better to be relieved."
Smiling in the face of life is actually loving the world , Learn to be quiet, learn to love yourself, love this world, return to the true nature of life, pick the chrysanthemum and see Nanshan leisurely. Looking for the pure land of the soul, there is no peach in the world, but there is a peach in the heart. If the heart is beautiful, where is it not between water and clouds?
Life is good, not blind obedience, but knows how to adapt to the current situation, and does not ask for disagreement, because everyone has their own wonderful, not to compare, and there is no need to look up and admire others, and maintain a kind heart is enough.
Bian Zhilin said: "You stand on the bridge and watch the scenery, and the people watching the scenery look at you upstairs. The bright moon decorates your windows, and you decorate other people's dreams."
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When you stand on the bridge and watch the scenery,People who watch the scenery are also looking at you upstairs, so you are the most beautiful scenery in the eyes of others!
Therefore, life needs the indifferent life, with a calm attitude, with a simple and rational thinking, to construct a low-key and reserved, unassuming and connotative life.
"Mountains are light and birds, and pools are empty." If it is light fame and fortune, light world heritage, honor and disgrace, in front of temptation, the clouds are light and the wind is light, then it is also the flower if it is in full bloom, and the breeze comes, although Without butterflies, the fragrance remains.
Xu Beihong once said: "You must not be arrogant, but you must not be arrogant." Mencius 's "Wealth cannot be licentious, the poor cannot be moved, the mighty cannot be bent" has become a portrayal of the backbone. .
Perhaps, the indifferent air is to face life with a peaceful mind, with a down-to-earth peace, rich but not superficial experience, calm but not noisy reason. Reading history for three thousand years is nothing more than fame and fortune; ninety thousand miles of enlightenment will eventually return to poetry and wine.
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