01 Silence in the beautiful scenery
A truly sensible person will choose to be silent in the face of achievements and wealth, and always maintain a humble life.
Eagles are like sleeping when they stand, and tigers do not show their power when they walk. This is where their majesty lies. Therefore, a gentleman knows how to introvert his talents, be low-key and humble, and gradually improve himself to become more outstanding.
A truly mature person with broad knowledge and low attitude, which is admirable and shows his own pattern.
The ancients said: "If you are full of losses, you will benefit from moderation."
When you are proud, you will win the respect of others if you know how to constrain yourself and be cautious in your words and deeds. At the time of the scenery, Xiu's calm heart remained silent amidst the noise.
02 Introspection when alone
Use time alone to reflect on yourself and see yourself clearly. This is the highest level of emotional intelligence for an adult.
The ancients said: "Seeing the virtuous and thinking together, and introspecting the bad is also introspecting."
Introspection not only allows us to truly understand ourselves, but also helps us develop our thinking and promotes deep learning.
"Listen to the bell of the quiet night, awaken the dream in the dream; watch the moon shadow in the pond, and see the body outside the body."
In the graceful time, I have a deep dialogue with myself, discovering problems from an objective perspective, and seeing clearly Oneself, to review life is the best attitude towards life.
03 Reading when confused
A famous author said: "No books in the world can bring you good luck, but they can make you quietly become yourself."
Reading can be rich Our spiritual life. At the same time, it is also a process of removing the clouds and fog. If it is said that confusion has caused black holes and thorns in life, then reading is the flower and armor on the road of life.
When a person feels empty and boring,Everything around him is terrible in his eyes; and when he finds sustenance and his soul is nourished, his views on everything will be better.
Reading is the best way to enhance your cognition, fill your heart, and relieve your confusion.
04 Relax when you are depressed
Everyone's life is unavoidable for a period of depressing days, with unsuccessful work, emotional frustration, confusion in the future, and panic all day long.
In a difficult situation, we should work hard to release our pressure and save ourselves from the darkness. As a saying goes, "If you survive, your life will suddenly become brighter; if you can't survive, time will teach you how to shake hands with them and make peace."
Some people say that the sign of a person's maturity is to look. Is he able to resolve his depression and adjust his mentality? And the most effective way to improve your mood slowly is to slow down the pace of life appropriately, find something happy, and maintain healthy living habits.
In this life, we decide what attitude we choose and how we treat life.
Silent when the scenery is beautiful, you can become humble; when you are alone, you can be more sober; when you are confused, you can find your way when you read a book; when you are depressed, you can be released.
For the rest of our lives, I hope we can grasp the "four seasons" of life, be a wise person, and live a better self.
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Source | Xinhua News Agency, the article has been edited and edited
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Editor: Yan Shan Zhou Zhou
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