The "discrimination chain" has always existed in Chinese culture for thousands of years, and people are divided into "three religions and nine streams".
refers to the three traditional Chinese religions: Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism.
Nine Streams refer to nine identities with different respect and inferiority. From the highest to the lowest, they are: emperors, scribes, officials, doctors, monks, soldiers, farmers, craftsmen, and merchants 985 and 211 look down on two or three books, undergraduates look down on college graduates, college graduates look down on high school graduates, and so on.
And this chain of contempt is not only in colleges, high schools, junior high schools, and even elementary schools, there will be such a chain of contempt.
Since childhood, we have been taught that we need to study hard and get admitted to university. The importance of academic qualifications is self-evident.
However, when we were young, we did not realize how important academic qualifications are. The concept of "educational qualifications" is fictitious. The question "why academic qualifications are important for " has never been properly answered by .
didn't realize until he stepped into the society that most companies originally require employees with a college degree or above. The
degree has become a stepping stone. Without a degree, there is no chance to compete with others on the same stage.
later had a dream and the future he wanted, but found that the key to the first door was still academic qualifications.
has no academic qualifications, can not take the required certificates, and even has no qualifications for civil servants in public institutions.
You start to be anxious and get into trouble, feeling that your first degree limits everything you have, and so is your fate. You will always be in the mood of inferiority and self-denial.
But you are not only one way to go. The protagonist of the
movie "When Happiness Knocks on the Door" is adapted from the story of Chris Gardner, a black American investment expert.
Although Chris has low academic ability, he cannot resist his desire to change his destiny. With his desperate efforts, he eventually got the first place among internships and got the position of stock broker. Since then, life is like hanging up.
But you would say that these people are a minority after all, and their luck is too good. If Gardner hadn't met a Ferrari man, he wouldn't have gone to a securities company, and he wouldn't be able to stand up.
But in fact, as long as you don't want to change, everything can be your excuse. The psychologist Adler proposed a theory called "teleology". ("Inferiority complex and transcendence")
is precisely because you regard gaining for nothing as your "purpose", so poor university , low academic qualifications , bad luck , etc. are all taken for granted. Can be an excuse to hinder your progress.
According to Adler's theory, you don't have to worry too much about your academic qualifications, but focus on the status quo and find solutions.
is like you have a cold. The doctor will not worry about whether you are dressed too thin or caught in the rain, but will prescribe medicine to cure you based on your current symptoms. Poor university and low academic qualifications are facts that cannot be changed at present, but you can change yourself and find ways instead of excuses.
The reason why you cannot change is because you have made the determination to "not change" yourself. Only you are willing to change yourself, otherwise no one can change you.
so.
Don't complain about your native family, don't just worry about the future, and waste time on meaningless entertainment and communication. Low education is no longer an excuse for not working hard.
will do everything possible to improve yourself, whether you have a degree, a hobby, or a skill, after a few years, you will be grateful for yourself who has decided to start without hesitation.
"Focus on the Ocean" can help you focus on learning anytime, anywhere.
Whether you are in a dormitory where no one is studying, or an empty shared house after get off work, it can bring you back to the state of concentration and high education. Newcomers can use the Pomodoro with the Pomodoro, take a break of 5 minutes for every 25 minutes of focused learning, and so on. You can also adjust the length of concentration according to your own acceptance.
Finally, this video is also for everyone:
"Life is not a marathon! "Z3z
[Focus on the ocean, moments with you]
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