Qiu Di hugged her son tightly. At this moment, she made up her mind to never separate from her son in the future.
Qiu Di is a miserable woman. When her son was seven years old, she divorced due to domestic violence from her ex-husband. The child belonged to the man. In the words of her ex-husband: His family is a single family of three generations, and parents cannot live without their grandson.
Qiu Di still remembers the sound of her son crying loudly for her mother. She held back her tears and dared not turn around and rushed out of the house.
She can only use her busy work to relieve her longing for her son. Every weekend is the happiest time for her, and it is a rare time for her mother and son to spend time together.
days passed like this. Her ex-husband had remarried and her son and grandmother had been taking care of her. Everyone around her advised Qiu Di to find another one as soon as possible, but the failure of the first marriage made her dare not touch love again.
When the company held an annual meeting, she saw the elegant Haonan. The two of them had a good impression of each other as soon as they met. After learning, Haonan worked in the human resources department of the company. He was five years older than Qiudi and was also divorced. He had a daughter who was in the second grade of junior high school. His wife went abroad for further studies two years ago and settled abroad. Haonan's parents and career were both in China. He didn't want to adapt to that strange country. They had to divorce.
Haonan worked hard with his daughter in the past two years, and his parents urged him to find a wife quickly and could also help him share some of it.
The two lonely souls created a spark of love. The two people got along very happily. Haonan took good care of Qiudi, but he just had a little button. In love with Mid-Autumn Di regarded it as a habit of living, but she didn't expect that this would It is the biggest driving force that destroyed her marriage.
After half a year of getting along, neither of the parents of both parties had any objections. It was just that Haonan's daughter Jia Jia, who was in a rebellious period.
hated Qiu Di's attitude, said that she had a mother, and said that Qiu Di snatched away all her father's love for her. This was what Qiu Di didn't expect, but she believed in the truth that those who have ambition would succeed, and was determined to warm Jia Jia's heart. tml2
Qiu Di took the initiative to ask Haonan about Jiajia’s preferences and what dishes she would like to eat. She had to do her homework and bring her mother’s warmth to Jiajia. She also often bought new clothes for Jiajia and took the initiative to pick Jiajia up after school. However, Jiajia still ignored her and looked at her coldly. After slow contact, and Haonan did her work, Jiajia finally stopped being so repulsive.
After marriage, Qiu Di focused all the attention on Jia Jia. She did everything in every detail for Jia Jia. Hao Nan was also moved to see Qiu Di's efforts.
But Jia Jia's attitude towards Qiu Di was like a nanny at home. There was something to do: hey, he screamed. Hao Nan also said Jia Jia, but she still did what she did. Qiu Di was afraid that Hao Nan's persuasion would backfire, so she took the initiative to say that she would slowly guide Jia Jia and told Hao Nan not to care about the matter between her and Jia Jia.
Under Qiu Di's careful care, Jia Jia's academic performance improved rapidly, and Hao Nan could also feel at ease and devote herself to work. He was soon promoted to deputy section chief of the company's human resources department. He was excited to say that this was all the blessings Qiu Di brought to him. He would love Qiu Di for the rest of his life.
In contrast, Qiu Di's work obviously had the opportunity to be promoted, but because she had to take care of her family and her daughter during the rebellious period, Qiu Di also wanted to do it and thought that it was enough to have an outstanding job at home. Her main responsibility was to take good care of their small family.
Such a warm and peaceful life, until his son was not in good health and his ex-husband had a daughter again because of his grandmother's health. He really couldn't take care of his son, so he discussed with Qiu Di and asked her to take his son over. Qiu Di couldn't ask for it.
went home and discussed with Hao Nan that his son would come to live with them. But unexpectedly, Hao Nan's attitude said that he had no objection to take it over, but there were only two bedrooms at home. Where would his son live? Qiu Di said whether you can free Haonan's study room for his son to live in. If you really can't, you can set up a bed in the living room.
looked at Qiu Di and looked at him with expectation: "Then let's live in the study room!" Qiu Di hugged her husband with a happy face.
Qiudi bought a lot of dishes that her son liked to eat early in the morning, and his son went home in the evening.
Qiu Di was busy in the kitchen excitedly. Hao Nan accompanied her daughter to watch the movie. Seeing that the time was coming, Qiu Di's vegetables were ready. After cleaning up, she went to school to pick up her son. When the son saw her, he ran towards her very happily. They finally could live together.
After arriving at home, they arranged their son first, and then called Hao Nan: "I won't come back for dinner tonight. My daughter wants to eat outside. You can eat with your son." Putting down the phone, Qiu Di felt a little lost, but was soon diluted by the joy of his son's arrival. Looking at his son's timid eyes and anxiety after he arrived at the new home, Qiu Di hurriedly called his son to come and have dinner,
Watching his son eat big mouthfuls, constantly in his mouth It was delicious, it was delicious. Qiu Di's eyes unconsciously moistened her son too much. She kept holding vegetables for her son's bowl, as if she wanted to make up for all her debts to her son.
After dinner, Qiu Di arranged for her son to do her homework. Hao Nan and her daughter came back. Qiu Di quickly stepped forward and arranged their slippers, took the coat they took off, and asked with a happy look: "Is it a great time to play? Jia Jia didn't even look at Qiu Di, so she went straight into her room. Hao Nan also made an excuse: "I played well," and also entered the room.
Ideals are full, and reality is very skinny. Because my son was studying at grandma's house, he developed the bad habit of procrastination and not learning, and his academic performance was also messy. He was about to go to junior high school. Qiu Di was very anxious and discussed with Hao Nan and wanted to sign up for his son to a cram school. Hao Nan said that the money at home was yours, so you can do it!
Qiu Di immediately found his son. A very experienced teacher, of course, the price is not cheap. After
, Qiu Di spent most of her time on her son, and her son's academic performance also improved significantly. This inevitably neglected her care and daughter. Jia Jia disliked her and often said bad things about Qiu Di in front of Hao Nan.
One day Qiu Di was about to pay her son for the next month's tutoring fee, but she found that there was no penny in the card. She immediately called Hao Nan to ask. Hao Nan just said lightly that he had used the money. If you have something to go home, Qiu Di had to pay the tutoring fee first with a credit card.
On the night, she could no longer help but wonder: "Husband, what are you doing in the card? Why don't you discuss it with me? Today, my son paid the tutoring fee, but I almost didn’t pay it. How embarrassing? "Qiu Di complained,
: "That's how I think. After your son came here, the consumption at home suddenly increased a lot, and he had to pay tutoring fees. I couldn't bear it anymore. I thought about it for a long time. Our life will be AA system in the future. You and your son live here for free, but you have to bear more of the living expenses and water, electricity, gas fees, etc., and half of the living expenses, and the elderly and children of both sides are responsible for their own relationships. I hope you can understand,"
episodes were spit out from Hao Nan's mouth, and they were pierced in Qiu Di's heart like a needle. She thought she had found someone who was inseparable from her old age, and she thought she had found true love, and she worked hard for this family, but she was the moon in the mirror and the flowers in the water.
: "Is this what you say in your heart? I heard it right, you want to use my AA system. I know that my son's arrival has caused you trouble, but I am a mother, and I can't leave my son alone anymore. I am willing to use your AA system. Let's start from now on, right? "Qiu Di looked at her husband who had lived with him for three years, why was she so strange?
: "Yes, it's best to free up the study for me. I have a job to do at night, which is too inconvenient." Hao Nan continued his request with his flashing eyes.
Qiu Di agreed, but her heart was deeply hurt. She devoted herself to work and the cultivation and education of her son in a new state.
The son became more and more sensible and had entered the formality of his studies. She also did her duty to take care of their lives for Hao Nan and Jia Jia, but she lost the element of love.At work, her own ability and hard work were immediately improved, and her salary also increased steadily.
She and Haonan lived with respect, and could not even say a word for a week. Eight years have passed, Jiajia was admitted to the ideal university, and her son was successfully admitted to the key high school. Qiu Di felt that she was old, and
Some things were also ready. She wanted to be grateful to Haonan for not abandoning her when she was the most difficult time, so her attitude towards Haonan also eased a lot. She took the initiative to get 10,000 yuan in college, but Jiajia took the money as if she should be given a score. Haonan didn't have any special feelings, and this time she hurt Qiu Di's heart again.
The son finally got admitted to a key university. Before leaving, he hugged Qiu Di tightly and thanked his mother for everything he had done for him. It turned out that his son knew everything in the family, but it turned it into a motivation to study harder and make sure to make a sigh of relief for his mother. Today he finally got what he wanted. He said that when he graduated and found a good job, he would take his mother to live with him.
Qiu Di was so moved that she agreed mouthfully, her eyes filled with tears of happiness.
The only ones left Qiu Di and Hao Nan, which were even more deserted. The two of them were basically speechless. Looking at the cold home, Qiu Di felt indescribable torture. She wanted to divorce, but she had already had a failed marriage and she didn't want to experience it for the second time.
Haonan seems to be very busy these two days. He comes back very late every day, and sometimes he doesn't even come back.
One day, Haonan goes home very early and prepares the meal. When Qiudi comes home, she is very surprised.
Haonan greets Qiudi and comes over to have a meal. Qiudi says in a businessman's business, "How much does it cost to buy vegetables for this meal? I'll transfer it to you,"
Haonan said embarrassedly, "This meal is mine, you don't need to transfer it,"
: "How can this work? How much does it cost to do," Qiudi doesn't want to fall twice on the same problem. Last time, because his son ate an extra ice cream, he experienced the embarrassment of Haonan chasing his butt.
Qiu Di knew that Hao Nan must have something to say. The two of them lowered their heads and ate with each other's worries. Hao Nan took the initiative to pick up food for Qiu Di.
Finally, Hao Nan couldn't help it: "Qiu Di, I want to discuss something with you. My mother has been ill during this period and has been in the hospital for treatment. Now her condition is stable. The doctor said she would go home to recuperate. My father is getting older and older. He can't cook, let alone take care of the patients. Look, can they come to our house to live some days?" After saying that, he looked at Qiu Di's reaction nervously,
: "Yes, no problem. Anyway, this is your home, anyone can come. But the ugly thing is that, I'm very busy at work, I don't have time to take care of your dad, and I will pay my money off. The rest has nothing to do with me."
Qiu Di acted as if he was not concerned about his own affairs.
She couldn't forget that her mother was sick and needed surgery, and she wanted to raise her son. She couldn't take out the money. He Haonan was so embarrassed that she finally agreed to lend it to Qiu Di and even count the interest.
Qiu Di was almost collapsed when she finally agreed to lend it to Qiu Di. She failed. She did not take Haonan's money. In the end, it was her best friend who saw her difficulties and solved her urgent need. Later, Qiudi took care of her sick mother. Haonan actually asked her to send her son away, saying that he had no obligation to take care of her son. Qiudi could only leave her son in her best friend's house for a while. How could Qiudi forget about these things one by one?
: "Qiudi, we are husband and wife, then my dad is your dad? Besides, it is our natural responsibility to take care of the elderly? We are a family, so don't do it. I will give you all my salary every month, and you will give this family to you. It depends on whether you can quit your job and take care of your parents at home? "Hao Nan was still talking to herself,
: "I heard it right? Our AA system has been more than eight years, we each have good luck and don't disturb each other, isn't it good? Now if you have difficulties, I need to give up my job, I can't do it, I still have to be responsible for myself and my son's future. If I have any debts to this family over the years, if I owe you, I should have paid off all my efforts. Please don't kidnap for me again, "Qiu Di can no longer control herself, and she wants to leave this hypocrite as soon as possible.
: "Qiudi, don't say so badly. I'm right about you and your son. Don't ask too much. Now my parents need to take care of you. You have to agree. If you don't agree, you have to agree. If you don't agree, you have to agree. If you don't agree, you have to agree. If you don't agree, you have to agree. If you don't agree, you have to take care of your parents. She thinks Qiudi should take responsibility for the obligation to take care of his parents with him.
: "Sorry, I don't agree to take care of your parents. They don't I took care of me for a day, and even if I have something to do, they would refuse to help my son. Why should I let go of everything when they need it? Please remember that they are your parents, not my parents," Qiu Di didn't want to bear it anymore and just explained everything,
: "Okay! Then you leave my house now, let's get divorced," Hao Nan shouted, he was sure that Qiu Di could not divorce, where would she live after the divorce?
: "Okay, I agree. I have lived with you all these years. We will go and finish the procedures tomorrow."
In this way, because there was no property dispute, the two of them successfully divorced. After walking out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, Qiu Di can finally breathe the air of freedom. She has a sense of relief. The marriage of more than ten years has exhausted her. She wants to re-arrange her life.
Hao Nan followed Qiu Di with regret. She knew that Qiu Di was a kind and good woman, but he did not cherish it. It was his result that he caused today. He wanted to save it, but Qiu Di had already left, leaving only the mess of Hao Nan's future life.