"Sister, I want to talk to you, I'm about to collapse," my cousin said to me in a crying voice. Heng is the only child of her cousin, with handsome eyebrows and fair skin. She is a gentle and elegant child. My cousin is hardworking and has been working on construction for many ye

"Sister, I want to talk to you, I'm about to collapse," my cousin said to me in a crying voice.

Heng is the only child of her cousin, with handsome eyebrows and fair skin. She is a gentle and elegant child. My cousin is hardworking and has been working on construction for many years and is a small contractor. My cousin is gentle and virtuous, and she is thin and weak. She has followed her husband to work as a small worker on the construction site for many years. Although they are very tired, for their obedient son, they have a yearning for a better life. They think that no matter how hard or tired they are, they are happy in their hearts.

After my son went to college, my cousin called him, and many times no one answered him. Call the child’s teacher, and the teacher told her that the child sometimes goes out of school to attend classes. My cousin and brother-in-law, who are dedicated to making money, did not think about the consequences of this matter. After four years of college life, the child did not get his graduation certificate as scheduled, and his cousin and brother-in-law realized the seriousness of his son's problem.

After his son returned home, he refused his parents' request to let him go out to work. His reason was that he had anxiety disorders, could not sleep, and could not go out to work.

Does my cousin’s son really have anxiety? Although I am not a doctor, from my cousin’s narrative, I think that most of the children do not have the so-called anxiety disorder. My cousin said that except for eating, the children almost always play with their mobile phones during the rest of the time. They go to bed when they are tired and play when they wake up, and never go out. He said that he could only sleep for two or three hours at night. With the stimulation of mobile games, can he sleep well?

I told my cousin to patiently explain the pros and cons of being addicted to mobile games, move them with emotion, explain them with reason, and see if the child can wake up; you can also take the child to see the doctor to see if the child is addicted to the Internet. If so, cooperate with the doctor to quit the Internet addiction. If the child has no illness, parents should make up their minds and continue to work outside. If the child is still unwilling to go out to work, don’t give him living expenses and arrange for relatives and friends, and no one should lend him money. Take a look, can he continue to lie at home and look at his phone after spending the money?

My cousin told me that last night, he asked his son to hand over his phone to himself at 10:30, and his son was furious at that time: he lost his temper and threw things. He roared at his cousin: Can I quit my phone immediately? You have to let me take it slowly! My cousin wanted to take care of his son, but his son was too tight, and he was afraid that he would have a few shortcomings. Besides, my cousin really couldn't control his son!

Cousin's cousin's husband used his blood and sweat to build a wealthy home for his son. Their lives are much better than their neighbors. Perhaps this is the reason why their son is down-to-earth and dependent on his parents!

Children, have you ever thought about your hard-working parents? They worked hard for you for most of their lives and never dared to take a day off. Do the child take a closer look at your mother? Think about her thinness, and what beliefs she relies on to support her in the heavy work on the construction site. Isn’t that all because of her love for you, her only son? Parents will grow old slowly, can you still chew on them then?

Kid, wake up, throw down your phone, walk out the door, keep your responsibilities in mind, and work hard! You can use your own hands to create a better future for yourself and bring comfort to your parents who love you wholeheartedly! You will find that the world outside of "mobile phone" is wider and better!

Children, what can save you is ultimately you yourself!

Cousin, cousin, husband, you should also think about it carefully. You are dedicated to making money and always want to give your son the best. You will always respond to your requests and ignore the correct guidance of your child. Isn’t it the result of spoiling for your son?