says that you will not marry a phoenix man.
Cailian (pseudonym) disagreed with it and felt that he only had to work hard and strive for his small family.
But unexpectedly, things went against her wishes, and she felt the hurt.
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Although Cailian is from a good family, she is the second child at home. She has always been average and not popular, so she has always been very inferior.
Although there are some small achievements in work, they have not yet made up their relationship. After working for several years, the kind matchmaker helped her introduce her, but few of them met her. Her mother was so anxious that she felt sorry for her.
Cailian herself is not in a hurry. She feels that her sweetheart will come sooner or later, and this matter cannot be anxious.
National Day is a festive day and a wedding day. Many newlyweds will choose to get married on National Day. My best friend Lan chose to get married on National Day. She also asked Cailian to be her bridesmaid and "sell" herself.
I met Hu Jun (pseudonym) who came to attend the banquet. Hu Jun was from a poor family and had a sister at home. His parents and sister tried every means to get him to go to school in a big city. He worked very hard, and the gods paid off. After a few years, he finally improved a little in the city, but he became an older single man. His family was anxious and asked him to be a matchmaker. He was also against him. He always had the time to be alone, so he fell in love with Cailian at first sight.
Both of them are older young people. Cailian always feels different when she sees Hu Jun. When Hu Jun wants to get a friend with her, she does not refuse, so the two of them naturally get along with friends.
After talking for half a year, the two felt fine. With the urging of their parents, they thought of getting married. Hu Jun left some money for several years. The two discussed buying a small house in the city and when the conditions were improved in the future, they would go to replace the larger house.
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After marriage, although the two lived a tight life, it was still sweet. Cailian also firmly believed that their lives would definitely get better and better.
This is true. Through the efforts of the two, life is getting better and better, and the two have a daughter. The mother-in-law came to the house to take care of her confinement period, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a conflict. No matter what the matter was, Hu Jun always stood on her mother-in-law's side indiscriminately. Afterwards, Cailian had to make her more considerate with her mother-in-law. It was not easy for them to raise him.
Sometimes what is even more annoying is that it was obviously a mother-in-law who was wrong, so he asked Cailian to apologize to her mother-in-law in public. Cailian had a few quarrels and thought it was not easy to start a family. Besides, her mother also advised Cailian to be tolerant and not to care about it so much, and to think about the children.
Once everyone went out to play together, and his elder brother-in-law said he wanted to invite everyone to dinner, but Hu Jun insisted on rushing to pay the bill himself. He always felt that he was working in a big city. In fact, they were not much better, but Hu Jun always pretended to be fat. Afterwards, Cailian said to him: "You don't have to always rush to pay the bill like this. No one will look down on you. You have to live your little life well. It's okay to have the spare energy to help others. There is no need to show off in everything."
But Hu Jun couldn't listen at all, so later, Cailian rarely went out with Hu Jun. Unless he had to go, Cailian would not be upset.
Hu Jun is a typical Phoenix man, and he is very proud, but he is still quite ambitious. Cailian also likes him, but Cailian can't convince him, so she is too lazy to argue with him, so she won't feel so angry that she will get sick.
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In a blink of an eye, my daughter was graceful and beautiful, and she was particularly liked.
My daughter said to Cailian, "Mom, I fell in love with a boy. His family conditions were not good. That year, he was the first student in the village to get 985. He was very ambitious, and our leaders admired him very much, and I like him very much."
I was shocked and asked, "You and him have developed to a different level, you are not suitable for him."
My daughter jumped up and asked, "Why is it not suitable for me? I think it is quite suitable, I am going to chase him."
Are you ashamed, and you are still chasing him. He hasn't liked you yet, right?
The daughter said, "I can feel that he has a good impression of me and looks at me differently."
Mom will tell you like this. My mother was also because of your father's motivation, went to college, and settled in the city through hard work. I felt that your father was very suitable for me. It was not until after marriage that I knew how poor your father's family was. He was admitted to college and was like a carp jumping into the dragon gate.
Your father is indeed excellent, but like your father, he has a kind of selfishness in his bones, and no matter what happens, he always stands on your grandmother's side, and he is filial and requires his wife to do it. If you are a little unhappy, it is your mother's responsibility.
I have enough, and I have wanted to escape many times.
He basically has the personality that a phoenix man should have. Sometimes I feel very depressed, but fortunately, your father's work is stable and motivated.
So I have never thought about leaving Marriage, if you divorce, it will hurt you a lot. If you have the chance to make a new choice. I won’t choose your father, I am already immune.
Fortunately, you are also very obedient. After taking the good school, you will find a good job after leaving the school gate.
But mom, I hope you are calm and calm and don’t follow the old path of your mother again, otherwise it will harm yourself and your family for a lifetime.
Cailian bitter woman She lobbied her daughter with heart, but she couldn't listen. Cailian was so anxious that she was like an ant on a hot pan. Cailian was so sad that she felt sore in her mouth. But her daughter didn't agree, because Cailian deliberately broke up the two of them.
Cailian was so angry that she didn't sleep all night, her hair turned white, but her daughter felt that her mother was fucking too much. She was also happy.
Boyfriend said, "You will be nice to me in the future, just believe him." ”