Introduction: "My brother has not yet had a formal and stable job. My mother is old and has no good life around me. Our financial conditions are still relatively good. I want to say that I would not let my mother come here. In retirement, it doesn’t cost much to raise my mother a

Introduction:

"My brother has not yet had a formal and stable job. My mother is old and has no good life around me. Our financial conditions are still relatively good. I want to say that I don't want me to do so. My mother came here to support her. Anyway, it wouldn't cost much to raise my mother alone." His wife Zhang Qianluo said to her husband Zhao Qiqiu.

Zhao Qiqiu immediately agreed to his wife. Although he is just a son-in-law, his wife has always been very good to his parents since she got married. She has high emotional intelligence and is good at talking. She always makes her parents happy. Zhao Qiqiu thinks you treat me Hello parents, I will be nice to your parents, so after my wife made this request, Zhao Qiqiu agreed without thinking.

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After my mother-in-law comes to take care of her old age, Zhao Qiqiu will also kindly remind her mother-in-law: "Although you are not my biological mother, don't be too dissatisfied. Since I promised to let you take care of her old age, don't be polite here. I want to You just say whatever you want to eat, as long as we couple can do it, we will definitely agree to you. "Zhao Qiqiu is also a person who wants to save face. Since he has promised his wife to let his mother-in-law come to take care of her old age, he should be willing to give up. It is best to spend money on his mother-in-law to make his mother-in-law live more and more smoothly in their family, have a good spirit and good complexion. In this way, as a son-in-law, he can fulfill his responsibilities to his mother-in-law.

Because of Zhao Qiqiu's son-in-law's generousness, his mother-in-law's complexion became better and better after she was retired at her daughter's house. Not only did she eat well, but she also dressed well when she went out. Brother-in-law Zhang Ziyang became more and more powerful after seeing her mother go to her brother-in-law's house to retire. It’s elegant and luxurious, I guess my mother’s meals must be good at her brother-in-law. He had a sudden inspiration and thought of going to his brother-in-law's house to eat and drink. Anyway, as long as he went to see his "mother", it was justified. Zhang Ziyang picked up two kilograms of cheapest fruit and went to his brother-in-law in a fake way. I visited my mother at home.

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When Zhang Ziyang first brought fruit to visit his mother, his son-in-law Zhao Qiqiu and his wife were quite happy. They thought that this brother-in-law was finally sensible and knew that they cared about her mother, so they warmly welcomed her brother-in-law, buying seafood and doing it. Buy chicken, duck, fish and meat, and cook a large table of food to entertain my brother-in-law. Zhao Qiqiu always remembers his brother-in-law's eyes when he saw the table of food glowing. The brother-in-law smiled and said, "Brother-in-law, your food is really good, only a few of us I will definitely not finish eating, but I will definitely finish eating my wife and children if I call them over to eat.”

Zhao Qiqiu thought that his brother-in-law would come this time at most, and he would definitely not bring his whole family to visit his mother-in-law every day. His mother-in-law also misses his children. In order to make his mother-in-law happy, Zhao Qiqiu decided to drive to take his brother-in-law's wife and children in person, planning to do so. Everyone got together to have a lively meal. At the dinner table, Zhao Qiqiu saw the "eating strength" of his brother-in-law's family. The four of them acted at the dinner table just like they hadn't eaten good things for hundreds of years. It was quick and quick, and it was "wind and windy" for every dish. Most of the dishes on a large table were eaten up by my brother-in-law's family, and Zhao Qiqiu and his wife and children were not full.

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Although Zhao Qiqiu was a little annoyed at that time, his brother-in-law's family was not polite, he did not get angry, nor did he show his unhappiness, because he felt that his brother-in-law had come this time anyway, so there was no need to worry, so let it go, but Zhao Qiqiu's tolerance made him feel My brother-in-law thought it was easy to eat at my brother-in-law’s house, so since then, my brother-in-law Zhang Ziyang often brought the whole family to my brother-in-law Zhao Qiqiu’s house to eat and drink with me in the name of “visiting my mother”.

Zhao Qiqiu couldn't even if he didn't want to entertain them, because his brother-in-law's family was very smart. Before the meal time was over, they kept asking what they wanted to eat today. They didn't mind what to eat, as long as they didn't let them go back empty-handed.At first, Zhao Qiqiu was not angry and treated them several times because of his face. However, the more he was entertained, the more angry Zhao Qiqiu felt, because his brother-in-law and his family were not coming to their house to eat simple home-cooked dishes, they had to eat every meal. When eating seafood, beef and mutton, my brother-in-law and his family came to Zhao Qiqiu's house for a meal. They had to eat four or five hundred, and they would come three or four times a week. Who can be calm?

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Zhao Qiqiu finally understood that this brother-in-law had not suddenly become sensible. He did not really come to visit his mother. He found that his mother-in-law lived a good life at his son-in-law's house, so he wanted to come to Zhao Qiqiu in the name of visiting "mother-in-law". This brother-in-law's family is free to eat and drink, and it is not just a person who comes here to eat and drink, but brings the whole family here to eat and drink. Zhao Qiqiu believes that he has the obligation to support his mother-in-law, but he is not obliged to support his brother-in-law's family. So he had repeatedly tactfully advised his brother-in-law not to bring his family to eat and drink, but his brother-in-law insisted on pretending to be confused. He smiled and agreed to Zhao Qiqiu, but later he used the same trick again and continued to carry it with him. The whole family came to eat and drink freely.

Sometimes my brother-in-law even played a little clever trick. He and his wife didn't come, but he brought the two children over and said that the mother missed the child and asked the child to accompany his mother-in-law for a few days. In fact, Zhao Qiqiu paid for it. The two children were eating and drinking, and my brother-in-law was too sensible. That day, my brother-in-law sent the two children over. And at meal time, he and his wife had no intention of leaving, but kept saying: " It's time to have a meal." Zhao Qiqiu finally got angry that day. He did not prepare a good meal and drink to entertain his brother-in-law, but prepared porridge, pickles and steamed buns.

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My brother-in-law is of course not satisfied with such a meal. He then treated his brother-in-law's family as his own and led the children to rummage through the boxes and cabinets to find snacks. Zhao Qiqiu couldn't stand it anymore. He said, "I can't afford to support your whole family. You are also an adult, and you have a wife and children." I have been kind and righteous for your mother to support you. You still want me to support your family. You are so sensible. I advise you to take on the responsibility of supporting your family. Don't always be so annoying. If you have the ability to support your family, you rely on yourself to support your family. I have no obligation or ability to support your whole family by buying them delicious food and drinks. ”

The brother-in-law looked ugly when Zhao Qiqiu said, and Zhao Qiqiu no longer wanted to continue to maintain the superficial peace between relatives. Let my brother-in-law take the child away, let my brother-in-law come to him less in the future, and the children should be brought to him less. They have their own life to bear, so they ask their family to disturb him less. My brother-in-law threw down a sentence: "If you don't come, you won't come. What's so great about it? Just what's delicious about this porridge steamed bun and pickles? I don't want to come here." Zhao Qiqiu said to my brother-in-law: Let's go slowly and don't give it away. Remember Stay here and don't come back in the future.

Conclusion:

In fact, Zhao Qiqiu should be a little rude to his brother-in-law as soon as possible. There is no need to tolerate him so many times before he became popular.

The more tolerant others are to him, the more he is, the more impolite he should be to such people, so that he can get rid of them sooner.