Spring and Autumn , Jinguo Doctor Yang Chufu Doctor Doctor Yang Chufu Do you go to Wei , and when you come back, you pass by Ningyi , and live in an inn. The owner's surname is Ying (ying). Seeing Yang Chufu's appearance and extraordinary behavior, he admired him very much. He quietly said to his wife: "I had long wanted to join a person with noble character, but for many years, I have been paying attention to it at any time and have not found a suitable one. . Today I saw that Yang Chufu is a good man, so I decided to go with him. "The owner of the shop got Yang Chufu's consent and left his wife and followed him.
Along the way, Yang Chufu talked with the shop owner, not knowing what to talk about. The shop owner listened while walking. Just after walking out of Ningyi County, the shop owner changed his mind and broke up with Yang Chufu. The owner's wife asked when she saw her husband suddenly turn back and was confused. "You finally met such a person, why didn't you go with him? Are you very determined? Don't you feel at ease about family affairs." said the owner of
, "I saw that he looked handsome and thought he could trust him. , but I felt very annoying after hearing his remarks. I was afraid that when I went with him, I would not get education, but instead suffered disaster, so I gave up my original idea. "The owner said. In the mind of the owner of the shop, Yang Chufu is a "flattering" person. So, the shop owner resolutely left him.
This is the allusion "Flamboyant." It is a metaphor for being good-looking but without actual content, and it also refers to being very knowledgeable on the surface but actually empty.
Have you ever met such a person in life? I always boast about your talents and never take care of things. I look very knowledgeable on the outside, but when I chat, I feel like I am empty-headed. I don’t know what I ask, but I can’t do anything I can? Don’t trust such people too much, and stay away from them.
1. Speaking is like painting a big cake, one is unreliable.
Some people never understand the importance of " promised ". Just talking, but not taking action.
Xiao Li and Xiao Lin are a couple, but Xiao Li and Xiao Lin broke up some time ago. My friends were all surprised because the two seemed to have a low relationship and were harmonious. They didn’t understand how to break up just by breaking up?
Later, everyone realized that Kobayashi was a person who was full of train running. What he promised to Xiao Li never fulfilled.
He promised Xiao Li to go to his parents, but every time he mentioned this, he always pushed and said that he was not prepared and went to see her parents after buying a house and a car. But in life, he is a person who spends money and doesn't know how to be frugal.
He promised the two of them to go out for the suburbs together on weekends, but it has been almost half a year since they have passed, and their wish has not been fulfilled. Kobayashi's reason is that he is too busy with work and even works overtime on Saturdays and Sundays. He works so hard to live a good life, and hopes he can understand it. But later, Xiao Li accidentally heard his colleague Xiaolin say that the company had worked overtime on the weekend.
He did not fulfill Xiao Li's promise. The reason for every time was to let her live a good life, but he was the one who spent money without restraint. He was the one who slept with his head covering his head on the weekend. His words and deeds made Xiao Li finally unable to bear it. Zi burst out.
If you have such people around you, you are always used to outlining the vision of the future that seems perfect for you in the most beautiful language. Don’t believe it all, you must look at what the other party has done? Have you really made any efforts? If you sing better than doing it, you are a flashy person, stay away from him.
2. It is not as reliable as inside and inside.
Some people look gentle, dressed in suits and ties, and dressed noble and elegantly, but when they speak vulgarly, they are hypocritical hypocrites; some people eat vegetarian food all day long, and look at evil people with kind eyes, but actually their hearts are like snakes and scorpions.
A person’s cultivation is reflected in his attitude towards people from disadvantaged groups.
Once, Xiao Feng asked his best friend to have dinner together. When they arrived at the restaurant, they ordered good dishes and waited for the waiter to serve them. Because there were a lot of people during the peak noon, the waiter served the dishes a little slower. My best friend wanted to get up and go to the bathroom. Before the waiter could react, the two of them bumped into each other and the soup accidentally splashed on my best friend.The waiter apologized immediately. But she refused to give in and pointed at the waiter and cursed, saying that the waiter was blind and that her clothes were worth more than a thousand, so she asked the other party to compensate. Only after Xiao Feng's persuasion was the only way to give up. But from then on, Xiao Feng and his best friend no longer seemed so close.
We should all think carefully about what a person’s true nobility is. Is it just his own external appearance? I really don't want someone like this among my friends to dress up as decent and generous every day, but in fact, it's just a vain, speaking dirty words, treating others sarcastic and mean. People like this who are different from each other should stay away from him.
3. Chat from all over the world is unreliable
There are some people in life who have a problem that they are good at boasting, which is what we usually call bragging.
People like this have a clever mouth and like to talk about things from the south and west. They sound like they are very knowledgeable, but if they listen carefully, they are actually nonsense from all over the world. You don’t understand what he is saying at all, and you can’t figure out the core content he is about, just like Yang Chufu in the story.
Summary:
flashy people give people the feeling that they are unreliable and insecure. Therefore, we must be people who speak honestly, be consistent in their words and practice both inside and outside.
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