Introduction
Uncle Liu is a single old man. Because he is lonely, he plans to remarry. He wants to find a wife to accompany each other and spend his old age, but what is unexpected is that this decision made him regret it. Let us take a look at his story.
Self-reporter: Uncle Liu
My surname is Liu, and people usually call me Lao Liu. I am 70 years old this year, and my wife passed away a few years ago. My son works in Shanghai and rarely comes back. I feel a little lonely living by myself, for fear that I would not find it even if I died at home that day. So during this period of time I have been thinking about remarrying, so that someone can accompany me and live with me. Secondly, I am getting older, and I am already unable to do many things, so I also hope that someone can take care of myself.
My own conditions are not bad. I have three houses under my own name. I originally planned to give two houses to my two sons, but they didn't want them and let me stay for retirement. When I was young, I worked in a state-owned enterprise. I worked for most of my life as soon as I started. The pension is not bad. I have seven to eight thousand in a month. In addition, I don’t rent out two houses, and the monthly rent is ten to twenty thousand. . Usually, each of the two sons is given a living allowance of 5,000 yuan each month, which adds up to 10,000 yuan. Although I can't live a rich and noble life, I think I can still live a well-off life.
Recently, to exercise, I would go out to dance the square dance every night. During this period, I met Kobayashi. Kobayashi is 54 years old this year. She looks good, and she has always paid attention to maintenance. A little younger than the actual age, the person is also very gentle, and looks very temperamental when speaking softly. Xiaolin has two sons, and he just graduated from university not long after.
Husband passed away a few years ago. Her son worked in another place and he rarely came back to accompany her. In these years, she lives alone and feels lonely, so she also plans to find another one. After these days of getting along, we all feel pretty good. I told my son and them clearly that they felt very guilty of not being able to come back and accompany me, so they were very supportive of my second marriage plan.
Someone can accompany me and take care of me, and they can be relieved to work outside.There is no problem with Xiaolin. Her son thinks she has not been easy these years, and supports her plan to remarry. Both parties are satisfied and supported. We went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get a marriage certificate, because we all felt that everyone was not young, so we didn't hold any wedding banquets, so we just called the families of both parties to have a meal together.
The life after marriage is very harmonious and very good. Xiaolin is a very diligent and clean person. Since she married me, the house has been kept clean and tidy. You can eat delicious meals every day. But such a good day broke up within a few days, and after a few days of marriage, Kobayashi told me that there was something to discuss with me. As soon as I heard it, I asked her what was going on.
She told me that her two sons had just graduated, and they hadn't afforded a house yet, and they didn't have a house, so it would be difficult to find someone. I hope I can transfer the two houses under my name to her two sons, and hope that I will give her 30,000 yuan a month for living expenses. When I heard that this was asking for a house and living expenses of 30,000 yuan per month, I disagreed.
Xiaolin was very angry, and yelled every day, "We are both married, isn't my son your son?" They also called you Dad. Why are they not willing to give the two houses? Why are they so stingy? As expected, they are either natural or different. Actually, I’m not unwilling to give it. The problem is that after a few days of marriage, I don’t know what they did to me or whether it’s true to me, so I asked me to transfer the two houses to them, in case they don’t recognize it from the bottom of my heart. What should I do if my dad is not good to me? If they get along for a long time and understand each other, they will recognize my dad and be filial to me, so there is nothing to transfer the house to them.
After all, my son has bought a house himself, and they don’t want my house. Even if they are going to get married in the future, I will be fine with the bride price. The problem is that I have only been married to Xiaolin for a few days, and I have just been with them for a few days, and I am not familiar with them. Why would I be willing to transfer the two houses to them? But Xiaolin didn't listen to me at all. He yelled every day to transfer the house to them and scolded me shamelessly. She married me so much younger than me. She was very aggrieved. I didn’t even want to obey her. .
I tried to reason with her,She didn't listen at all, and either gave the house or divorced. She said I was shameless, but she was the one who felt shameless. In the end, I chose to divorce her. The marriage lasted only fifteen days. It was false to say that it was not sad. After all, I still paid a lot for this marriage. I have invested a lot of affection for this marriage.
Actually, the two of us knew each other too little, got married in a relatively short time, and didn't know what kind of person each other was. If you want to remarry in the future, you must first understand it, or else you will be afraid of spending time and energy like you do now. In the end, you will have to spend a lot of money in a basket. It feels uncomfortable to think about it.
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If you want to remarry, you must not be impulsive, and you must know more about the other person, otherwise you will regret it, and you will even end up with both people and money.
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