As a person over forty, I have read several stories and understand the truth. It is only when I have been in them and experienced the ups and downs of life that I discovered that a lot of wisdom in life is actually hidden in the little things in life.
The story of eating pears
A man bought a box of pears. It was a pity that the pears would spoil due to the hot weather. So he picked a few of the worst ones and ate them every day, but ended up eating a box of rotten pears.
To summarize, make a couplet:
Upper couplet: Put the good ones to eat rotten ones
Lower couplet: Eat the rotten ones and eat them well
Horizontal column: Eat the rotten ones forever
The story of parrots and crows
When a parrot meets a crow, the parrot in the cage is at ease; the crow in the wild is free.
The parrot envied the crow's freedom, and the crow envied the parrot's comfort, so the two birds discussed an exchange.
The crow gets comfort, but rarely makes his owner happy, and finally dies of depression; the parrot gets freedom, but has long-term comfort and cannot survive independently, and eventually dies of hunger.
The story of a drop of ink
A drop of ink falls into a glass of water, and the water immediately changes color and cannot be drunk;
A drop of ink melts into the sea, and the sea is still a blue sea;
Why? Because the belly capacity of the two is different.
The story of a father and son carrying a donkey
A father and son took the donkey to the street, and they both walked. Some said they were stupid;
The son rode, and some said the son was unfilial;
The father rode, and some said the father was too cruel;
The father and son rode together, and some said they did not love the donkey;
In the end, the father and son had to carry the donkey home.
The story of a fox eating chickens
The fox found a nest of chickens, but he couldn't get in because they were too fat, so he finally entered after three days of hunger.
couldn't come out after a full meal, so it had to starve again for three days before coming out. In the end, it lamented that all its work in the process was in vain except for satisfying its appetite.
Dialogue story between teachers and parents
At the parent-teacher meeting, the teacher asked these four questions on the blackboard:
2+2=4; 4+4=8;
8+8=16; 9+9=20.
Parents said one after another: "You calculated one question wrong."
The teacher turned around and said slowly: "Yes, everyone can see clearly that this question was calculated wrong. But I calculated three questions correctly before, why no one praised me, but only saw the one question I calculated wrong!" "
The teacher then said meaningfully: "Parents, the true meaning of education is not to find out what your children are doing wrong, but to appreciate what they do right!"
The sky will light up when the rooster crows, and it will also light up when the rooster does not crow. Whether it will dawn or not is not the rooster's decision, the key is who wakes up. Those who woke up lived a day, those who didn't woke up lived a lifetime. Living healthily is the most important and happiest thing in the world. Every day you wake up, you are new.
Cherish the present moment, be positive and happy! Always pay attention and don’t let yourself fall into bad moods!
Don't blindly envy other people's happiness, maybe that's not suitable for you. In this world, don't compare, live your own life and enjoy your own life is the way to go! While the sun is shining, go out for a walk! Every plant, every tree, every flower and every bird in this world is beautiful. Don’t let this beautiful time live up to you.
Life is like eating pears. If you worry about the unhappy things every day, you will be miserable for the rest of your life. Put down the unhappy things and throw them away. If you have a little sunshine every day, you will be brilliant for the rest of your life!
The unripe wheat ears stand straight up, while the mature wheat ears hang their heads;
Why? Because the portions of the two are different. Being tolerant of others is magnanimity; humility of oneself is weight; taken together, it is the quality of a person. The bigger the situation, the more you know how to be tolerant; the higher your emotional intelligence, the more you know how to bow your head.
I hope we can all become people with high emotional intelligence who have a big picture.
Perfume is 95% water, and only 5% is different, which is the secret recipe of each company.
The same is true for people. 95% of things are basically similar. The difference is the critical 5%, including a person's cultivation, character, and desires, which determine a person's happiness and pain.It takes five or ten years for the essence to be added to the perfume. The same goes for people. They need to grow and practice before they have their own unique flavor.
people cannot live in the opinions of others.
If you don't have your own opinion and determination, and you are always influenced by other people's words and deeds, you can only do stupid things like "father and son carrying the donkey".
life! Come and go naked, no one can take away the wealth and fame that you have built throughout your life.
The money earned with youth cannot buy back youth; the money earned with life cannot buy back life; Therefore, it is important to learn to rest and be happy!
If you treat someone well a hundred times, maybe he will forget it; if you don't go well once, maybe everything will be wiped out!
is the human principle of 100-1=0. This is true among friends, and so among relatives and family members.
It is better to take a step back among friends, and to take a step back among relatives. If you have received a drop of kindness from someone, you should repay it with a spring of water. This is the way to be a human being!
