Today is the 23rd day of the lunar calendar, which is my uncle's birthday. I went back for dinner and didn't buy any gifts. I only gave my uncle a red envelope of 200 yuan. The cousin saw it on the side and said sarcastically: Spicy!
I know that my cousin has a lot of opinions on me.
Because, during dinner yesterday, the cousin called and said that they all lived in the countryside, and it was inconvenient and had no time to order cakes in the city. I asked those who lived in the city to help order a cake and take it back. There was no mention of giving money at all.
And I, on the phone, directly rejected the cousin's request, saying that I still have something to do and didn't have time to order cakes, and asked the cousin to order cakes by himself.
So, my cousin was dissatisfied with me because of this.
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Last year, the day before my uncle's birthday, my cousin also called me for the same reason, just like when I was having dinner yesterday, saying that they lived in the countryside and it was not convenient to order cakes in the city. I asked me to order a cake that was seven inches long for her to bring back, and she would transfer the cake money to me later.
At that time, I thought the lobby sister was quite reasonable, so she had to go to the city twice to order a cake, which was indeed a waste of time. It would be better for me to order a cake and take it back to save trouble, so I was happy to take the cake order on myself.
In order to order a cake, I went to the cake shop to choose, and then sent the price, pictures, etc. to the cousin to ask for her opinions. It not only took me energy, but also took me about two hours.
Finally, it was decided by the cousin and chose a cake worth 398 yuan, seven inches.
At that time, the cousin said that I would pay first, and then she would transfer the cake money to me. I replied, OK, I will pay first.
A few days after my uncle's birthday, my cousin's sister never contacted me, and none of my uncle's other four children had mentioned the money for the cake to me.
I don’t know if they forgot it or deliberately pretended not to remember it. Anyway, no one mentioned the money for the cake, so I couldn’t call the cousin to ask my sister for the 398 yuan.
Two more days passed, it was my daughter’s birthday. I took this opportunity to mention the cake on WeChat. But my cousin changed the topic on WeChat, just not mentioning the money.
So, I understood, my cousin is not going to give me cake money. Although the result of
makes me feel very uncomfortable, I don’t care much. After all, as a niece, it is also appropriate to buy birthday cake for your uncle .
What makes me feel uncomfortable is that my cousin is actually asking me to pay for the money under the name of her buying cakes.
paid the money, but did not get the name it deserved. No one would be happy.
This matter passed by quietly, and no one mentioned it again.
In the blink of an eye, a year has passed, and today is my uncle’s birthday again. So my cousin called again last night and asked me to help order the cake for the same reason, but there was no need to mention money at all. Therefore, I directly rejected my cousin's request on the phone.
This afternoon, I went to the mall for a walk and planned to buy some gifts to take them back to celebrate my uncle's birthday.
According to our practice, the birthday of elders is not a birthday party, but ordinary relatives gather together for a meal, it doesn’t matter whether they buy gifts or not. The key is to have people here, and the purpose is to be lively and popular.
Originally, I planned to buy some fruit, box of milk, and a piece of egg. However, I don’t have a small car, I ride an electric bike, and I have to take a three-year-old child, which feels very inconvenient.
At this time, I wish I could own an new energy vehicle .
I heard that Lantu Dreamer's home star nanny car has many advantages. It can be powered, oiled, and switched freely. It also has 7 seats and two rows of independent seats. It is smart and safe. It is said to be a five-star safety development standard.
, this car is equipped with L2+-level intelligent driving assistance for the first time, which can easily achieve overtaking and automatic parking and other scenarios.
Moreover, this car also has massage function, automatic ventilation and heat dissipation, which is super luxurious and comfortable. It can run 750 kilometers in one breath, which is even more considerate than a nanny.
This car is very touching just by understanding it. If there is enough money in the wallet, this car can be considered.
It’s a pity that my wallet is getting shy. It’s better to think about buying a car in your heart. Facing reality, ride my electric bicycle carefully.
Because it is inconvenient to bring a lot of things on an electric bicycle, I decided not to buy gifts to go back to celebrate my uncle's birthday. I directly gave my uncle a red envelope of 200 yuan, gave him money, and asked him to arrange how to spend it himself, which is my little wish as my niece.
When I gave my uncle a red envelope, I told him that I didn’t know what he needed or liked, so I didn’t buy a gift. Give him a 200 yuan red envelope and let him buy what he likes.
The cousin who happened to be sitting with his uncle saw it and she said sarcastically: Spicy! Actually, I heard the sentence
, but I pretended not to hear it. I was afraid that if I retorted her, it would destroy the lively atmosphere at that time.
My dear uncle's birthday, I only gave me a red envelope of 200 yuan. Maybe it was a little less, but I was a little stingy. But I think that the gift is light and the affection is heavy. The key is that I have this intention.
Due to the epidemic in the past two or three years, my family’s income has decreased a lot. In addition, I don’t work now and have no income. I am living a life where I can save as much as I can. Therefore, I will do my best and will never be ashamed of a swollen face.
Because, I have to live a life of face and suffer, I don’t want to make myself live so hard!
Besides, when my dad celebrated his birthday, she would buy first-grade eggs to go back for dinner, or buy a box of milk, and didn't buy any extra items. If she really wanted to be serious, she was actually more stingy than me.
Friends, my cousin said in front of everyone that I was stingy. I actually heard it, but I pretended not to hear it. Isn’t it particularly cowardly if I do this? Should I retort her on the spot?
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When looking for cake pictures, I thought these cake pictures were very beautiful and I liked them, so I put a few more pictures at the end of the article, hoping that everyone would like them as much as I do!
