"My family doesn't welcome you and your good daughter, leave quickly!" Ruan Yu threw her mother-in-law's luggage outside the door and pushed her out.
The husband Liu Shengli wanted to stop his wife. Ruan Yu glanced at him and asked him if he wanted to leave. She didn't stay, so he quickly packed up his things and got out together.
The aunt rushed over when she heard the news. Seeing that her sister-in-law was so overwhelmed, she started scolding Ruan Yu when she stood in front of her mother and asked her why she drove her mother away. When she saw her younger brother who didn't dare to say anything, she scolded her younger brother and scolded her for being useless. What's the difference between being a coward who was in the back?
Liu Shengli was so angry that he didn't fight with his sister when he saw her, so he started arguing with her, saying that they had gotten along well, but that his sister came to eat and drink every now and then, but she also liked to make trouble and get things from home to make a mess.
Ruan Yu looked at his aunt and said bluntly, "You are not talking about who gave birth to the child, who will be filial to his mother. I don't object to Shengli's filial piety, but I can't live in my house. If you are so filial, please take it to your house. If Shengli is not allowed to rent a house for your mother." After saying that, he closed the door and was too lazy to take care of his aunt and shouting outside.
Ruan Yu and Liu Shengli got married because they bought a house from their parents' home. Liu Shengli's family paid a bride price of 68,000 yuan, spent 10,000 yuan to buy three gold , and gave 666 changes. After marriage, the couple moved into Ruan Yu's house.
After Ruan Yu gave birth to a child, she wanted to continue working. Her mother just retired and said she came over to take care of her children. But her mother-in-law said that her grandson naturally had to take care of her, so she came over with a big bag. Ruan Yu felt that her mother-in-law was very grateful to her mother-in-law for her to take care of her children. She gave her 3,000 living expenses every month and bought clothes and shoes for her mother-in-law.
It was a good time to get along well in the first half of the year. Although Ruan Yu doesn’t like some living habits, she would tell her husband that if she asked her husband to talk to her mother-in-law, she would change her mother-in-law, so her relationship has always been quite harmonious.
Half a year later, Ruan Yu went to work. Her mother-in-law took care of her children at home and did housework. She didn't know anyone around her, so she would ask her daughter who didn't go to work and take care of her children at home to come over and talk. The conflict at home began at this time.
My aunt's child is only half a year older than Ruan Yu's child. When the child just learned to walk and was very curious, his family was often messed up.
Ruan Yu did not have enough breastfeeding, so he weaned the child before going to work. His aunt came every day and asked her child to drink her baby's milk powder and used her baby's bottle. If she hadn't happened to be caught by her, she would have no way to believe it. She controlled her control and didn't lose her temper. She just said that this was unhygienic. At that time, my aunt said sarcastically that Ruan Yu had a lot of things and said that her aunt disliked her nephew.
Ruan Yu was very angry. She said why the child liked diarrhea recently. She suspected that it was because of the relationship between the sister-in-law and the child, so she asked her husband to tell her mother-in-law that this could not be done.
This time my mother-in-law was unhappy and said that Ruan Yu disliked them. It was normal for the child to have diarrhea, so why did it have something to do with them? She also said that if she didn't believe her, don't let her take care of her.
Liu Shengli quickly coaxed his mother and said that she had absolutely no intention. She just reminded her, which made her mother-in-law calm.
But after that day, my mother-in-law stopped cooking dinner and stopped doing housework. When they came back from get off work, she gave them the children and waited for them to cook. After dinner, she went out and said she was going out for a walk and exercise.
Ruan Yu asked her husband and mother-in-law what this means. They can share housework and they can also cook, but can't they discuss it carefully? Sometimes when we come back late from work overtime, she doesn't cook. She would rather eat instant noodles by herself. She doesn't want to take care of the children. She can ask her mother to help.
I don’t know how my husband communicates with my mother-in-law, but my sister-in-law came to me and said that Ruan Yu is really a powerful daughter-in-law. It is a love affair for the mother-in-law to help take care of the children, and it is a duty not to take care of the children. Whoever gave birth to them, who has the right to pick on her mother here.
The mother-in-law just burst into tears without saying anything, making Ruan Yu really become the evil daughter-in-law who bullies her mother-in-law. Liu Shengli pulled her sister to stop talking. Ruan Yu didn't want to argue with them, so she turned back to the room, and her aunt said she was guilty.
A few days later, Ruan Yu found that the child had 2 cans of milk powder missing and she also threw 1 of her lipstick. She asked her mother-in-law what was going on. The mother-in-law stammered and said that it was her sister who took it. Ruan Yu said how could her sister steal her things. The mother-in-law was unwilling and said that her sister called stealing something.
Ruan Yu has really had enough. Her aunt usually comes to eat and drink, but she has to take all the milk powder from her child. She obviously should have three periods of drinks, but her child has only two periods of drinks, so she can take advantage of all the benefits.
She asked her mother-in-law to leave. In the past, she didn't care about throwing some small things, thinking that she had lost them. Now she thinks who knows what's going on! Then the beginning happened.
My sister-in-law has no job and spends money depends on her husband's expression. How dare she take her mother in? Liu Shengli is going to rent a house nearby for her mother, but her mother wants to go back to her hometown and said she will not be so angry. She scolded her son and left.
A married daughter really should not get involved in the affairs of her parents’ family. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is subtle, and if an aunt is in the middle, there will only be more and more conflicts.
The originally harmonious family relationship has also fallen out. There is no winner in this matter. Each of them has their own grievances. If they cannot understand each other and communicate in a friendly manner, the gap between people will naturally become deeper and deeper.
Do you think Ruan Yu was doing too much?
