I am a 50-year-old bachelor and spent 3 million to marry a beautiful girl who is 20 years younger than me, but her desire is too strong, and I can't stand it after half a year. I am Uncle Yan, 50 years old this year. I used to work in a tea factory. Now I open a tea shop and two teahouses myself. My annual income is about 2 million yuan, which is not wealthy, but I have enough to support my family. I worked in a tea factory when I was in my 20s. I met my first love girlfriend Xiaohan at the tea factory. She is two years younger than me, 1.6 meters tall, and has a sweet appearance. She is my ideal partner.
My family is from a rural area and the family is not rich. My parents' main source of income is farming and raising sheep. I am the eldest in the family, and there are two sisters and a younger brother studying below. So before I fell in love with Xiaohan, I told her about the situation at home, but she said she didn't care. As long as we work hard together, a good life will be sooner or later. After hearing her words, I swear that I only love her, a woman in my life, and that I must let her live a happy life. We were accused of 3 months and we met our parents from both sides. Her parents were also reasonable people. As soon as we saw me, they said that my child was a good one and a man who lived a down-to-earth life.
Later, under the witness of our parents, we got married and held a simple banquet. Originally, I thought we would be happy for the rest of our lives, but I didn’t expect something happened when Xiaohan was 7 months pregnant. When Xiaohan was 7 months pregnant, my parents and I were planting rice seedlings in the field that day, and it suddenly started to rain heavily. Xiaohan was afraid that we would be wet, so he put on an umbrella to give us straw raincoats and hats. Because it rained, there was loess on the road again. Xiaohan slid on the way and rolled down the road. His stomach hit the stone. When we found out, Xiaohan had fainted.
I rushed to the hospital for emergency treatment. The doctor said it was too late to send her away. Xiaohan had left. I felt that the sky had fallen, my wife had no children, and there was no life in the days to come.
Since Xiaohan passed away, I locked myself in the room and hugged Xiaohan's photos every day in tears. I was like a savage. My parents called me over and over again outside the door to comfort me.
But I couldn't cheer up. I felt that it was meaningless to be alive. Until that day, my mother took a bottle of medicine and said at the door, "Wang Yan, if you don't come out, I will drink this bottle of medicine."
Unexpectedly, as soon as she finished speaking, she drank the bottle in one go, but it scared me and quickly opened the door and ran out.
It turned out that my mother had already washed the bottle and it contained water, but it scared me. It was from then on that I realized that I still have my parents and I had to cheer up. After living at home for a few days, I returned to work in the tea factory and worked there for more than 5 years. Later, the boss said that in order to expand sales, if employees in the factory are interested in starting a business, they can get the goods at the lowest price. I seized this opportunity and used all my savings to open a tea shop. Because of the location, the business has always been pretty good. Later, our hometown developed the tourism industry, and I invested in two teahouses, and the average annual income of the three stores was about 2 million yuan.
I bought an electric car for my parents, bought a 150-square-meter house in the city, and also bought a car with a deposit of about 5 million yuan. Life is getting richer and richer, but after Xiaohan passed away, I was not interested in other women until I met Zhong Jie in the teahouse last year. Zhong Jie is an employee of our teahouse. She looks a bit similar to Xiaohan, and even her style of doing things is very similar. I was fascinated by her and could not extricate myself. After learning, Zhong Jie was 30 years old. Her husband died of illness five years ago, leaving behind a one-and-a-half-year-old son. Her husband did not remarry after his death.
Later I expressed my love to her, and she did not object, but she put forward a condition.
She said: "My only concern now is my son. He is only over 5 years old now. If you really like me, after we get married, you have to buy me a house and give it to the child in the future. In addition, when the child's father passed away, he spent all his savings in the family and borrowed hundreds of thousands of dollars. He also needed your help to pay it back, so that I can marry you with peace of mind."
I think if I really like someone, it is worth it to pay for her, so I agreed to all her requests. We spent nearly 3 million yuan in marriage, buying a house for her, helping her repay her debts, and buying insurance for her son.
After we got married, Zhong Jie was indeed devoted to living with me and was very good to my parents, but I couldn't stand it after less than half a year of marriage, because I couldn't stand it either physically or mentally. After all, she is old. After we got married, she asked me to do husband and wife with her almost every day. Sometimes I was busy outside for a day and was exhausted when I got home, so I wanted to lie down and have a good sleep. But Zhong Jie just wanted to lie beside me like a wolf and touch me. She didn't say anything when she refused occasionally. After she refused too much, she complained, "I wouldn't have found someone that old age, even this desire would not satisfy me, and it would be too incompetent." If I persisted like this, I guess I would die in a few years.
Also, it's material. When she first got married, she spent 3 million yuan. Later, her younger brother had to buy a car worth 300,000 yuan after graduating from college, which was 200,000 yuan. He asked me to lend it to him, but he spoke, and I borrowed it too. Later, her parents said that the house at home had no air conditioning and it was hot in summer, so I installed air conditioning for each house in their home. I thought it was a trivial matter later. But unexpectedly, their family told me not long ago that her brother had a girlfriend, and the woman asked to buy a house before she was willing to marry her, and asked me to borrow money to buy a house. This made me really unbearable. Her spiritual and material desires are endless. I really want to end this marriage immediately. But can I get the money I spent back?
@Sujiu said: What I want to say is that you didn’t marry a wife? This is simply a vampire. Taking advantage of the small loss now, you should stop loss of and in time, otherwise the loss will still be behind. Zhong Jie is interested in not your people, but your money. You can consult a lawyer to see how you can recover some of the losses. Friends, what do you think Uncle Yan should do?
