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01
Shen Nian looked at the two bars in pregnancy test stick , a little confused.
She felt that this child came too badly.
Her first daughter Tongtong is only two years old and has no idea of having a second child at all. However, God will make people beat people, and the child comes at this time.
My husband Zheng Wei saw that she had not come out for a long time when she was going to the bathroom, so he called her twice but didn't respond. He was a little worried and went straight to open the door.
Shen Nianjian was Zheng Wei, and subconsciously hid the thing behind him.
"Why don't you respond? I thought what's wrong with you...what did you hide just now?"
"Nothing, a woman's thing." Shen Nian wanted to fool him in a few words.
But who is Zheng Wei? He has always been very careful. He saw it with sharp eyes and it looked a bit like a pregnancy test stick.
I remembered that Shen Nian complained to him two days ago that the monthly events were postponed for several days and had not come yet.
He stepped forward two steps, took out her hand from behind and looked at it. It turned out to be a pregnancy test stick, and it actually was two bars.
Zheng Wei is very happy.
The mother was talking about asking Shen Nian to have another grandson every day, but she didn't want to. Now it seems that it was God's will.
"That's great, now my mother is finally going to get her wish."
02
Shen Nian felt uncomfortable when she saw Zheng Wei like this.
: She doesn't want this child, and it's not the time.
The second is Zheng Wei’s “grandson” blurted out.
She knew that her mother-in-law wanted a grandson in her dreams. After learning that the first child was a daughter, although the mother-in-law didn't say anything, she was already doing her ideological work: "Granddaughter is good, give birth to another grandson, and make it a good word, just right!"
After giving birth to a daughter, Shen Nian rested at home for a while. At that time, her mother-in-law talked about it every day, asking her to have another grandson for her while she was young.
But Shen Nianda was unwilling to do so from the bottom of his heart.
She was in a critical moment of promotion at that time. She worked hard for so many years and finally achieved some results. She was about to be promoted.
But her opponent's colleague revealed that she was pregnant, which led to her failure to get promoted.
So, Shen Nian felt a little complaining.
She was pregnant and didn't plan to have a child, but when her mother-in-law found out, she said she would keep everything.
and she sang this incident, one to ten, ten to hundreds, and somehow it was passed to the ears of her opponents and colleagues, and she just happened to be controlled by her.
chance is just missed. After
lost hope of promotion, Shen Nian was depressed for a while, and later took advantage of the baby to take a good rest.
She just felt uncomfortable.
feels unfair. She is obviously better at abilities, but because she is pregnant, she no longer considers her.
However, when Shen Nian was resting at home, he was not at ease.
When my mother-in-law saw that it was her daughter, she kept hinting that she had another one.
Seeing that Shen Nian ignored her, her mother-in-law was a little unhappy. Over time, the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law became a little subtle.
Shen Nian knows that this will not work, and sooner or later conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will break out.
She returned to work early before the maternity leave ended.
In order to minimize contact with mother-in-law, Shen Nian devotes herself to work.
She was unwilling to give up and wanted to climb up.
The mother-in-law sneered at her and mocked her: "This woman still has to focus on her family. What's the use of making so much money!"
Shen Nian ignored her.
If she remembers correctly, that was not what she said when she was at home on maternity leave.
She just asked Zheng Wei to coax the child after get off work, and her mother-in-law said, "Zheng Wei is tired from work one day, why do you still ask him to take care of the child? The whole family is counting on his salary for his meal."
The mother-in-law's everything made Shen Nian, who was a little depressed, full of energy again.
Now she realized that no matter how she did, her mother-in-law would not be satisfied with her.
03
When Tongtong was two years old, the company vacated a position as director.
Shen Nian has absolute advantages in terms of ability and years of work.
She is imperative for the position of director.
Even the boss talked to her in person, telling her not to let him down.
Just, God's will once again make people.
She is actually pregnant again!
Seeing Zheng Wei happily telling his mother-in-law about the good news, Shen Nian suddenly made up her mind.
The mother-in-law knew the news and happily ran to Shen Nian's house overnight.
took Shen Nian's hand intimately and told her to pay attention to it, as if she was to her own daughter.
Shen Nian felt a little sarcastic. She took her hand back and told her mother-in-law the decision: "I don't plan to have this child."
"What!" Zheng Wei and her mother-in-law spoke in unison.
"What do you want to do? This child must!"
"I won't stay." Shen Nian has made up his mind.
The mother-in-law couldn't help but get angry when she saw that she had no room for refusal.
"It is natural for women to have children. Since you are pregnant is fate, your mind is so poisonous. You want to abolish my grandson!"
Shen Nian mocked her: "How did you know that it must be a grandson, what if it is a granddaughter?"
"It must be a grandson!"
"What if it is not?"
The mother-in-law thought that Shen Nian was making trouble and didn't want to answer her: "Anyway, you don't want to abolish my grandson!"
Zheng Wei also disagreed with her abolishing the child, so that she would not let her down for the sake of her mother-in-law's wishes.
Shen Nian had no reason to be angry.
Zheng Wei will only stand on her mother-in-law's side and will not consider her again.
Doesn’t he know how hard he worked and how much he wanted to be promoted?
But in order to satisfy her mother-in-law's wish, she must give birth to a boy.
Why should she sacrifice herself to satisfy her mother-in-law’s desire to favor boys over girls? The more this happens in
, the less Shen Nian will leave this child.
When my mother-in-law saw her like this, she scolded her for being heartless and too toxic.
"Since you want to abort the child, you will refund the 160,000 yuan gift I have given you. In the future, if you don't have too many, someone wants to have a child, I don't believe it. If you have money, you can't find a life."
Shen Nian became even more angry when she heard her mother-in-law say this.
Whether to give birth or not is her freedom, and her mother-in-law has no right to interfere.
The bride price was also what I promised to give when I got married, so how could I return it?
And after my mother-in-law’s words, I’m afraid that I’ve found a home for Zheng Wei, right?
Zheng Wei was so angry that he saw two women like this.
He dared not say to his mother-in-law, nor did he dare to accuse Shen Nian. He could only do something anxious when he was stuck in the middle.
Shen Nian saw him like this, so angry that she ran out directly.
Zheng Wei's inaction attitude made Shen Nian even more determined not to do this child.
She was afraid of sacrifice again. If she was still a girl, she would not know what would happen to her mother-in-law.
She dared not gamble anymore.
Even if she is a boy, she is afraid.
The mother-in-law prefers boys over girls. If she is a boy, she may not be able to ignore her daughter.
The palms and backs of hands are all flesh, and she doesn't want the child to feel unbalanced.
Instead of doing this, it is better to take good care of yourself first. Only when you are strong can you have the ability to protect your children.
04
The child was not left in the end.
When Shen Nian went back, Zheng Wei's first reaction was to look at her belly.
Shen Nian ignored him.
went back to the room to rest alone.
's move is undoubtedly to tell Zheng Wei the answer.
Zheng Wei's eyes were red and asked her: "You can really do it?"
"Otherwise? Will you make a decision for me, a mama boy? You said a little relaxedly, and I was the one who was tired and dragged down in the end, and it had no effect on you. Do you still hope that I can sacrifice myself to help you?"
The mother-in-law pushed the door and walked in: "You dare to really want children! Your son divorced her, what are the women who don't have children here!"
Zheng Wei didn't say anything.
Shen Nian saw him shaken. The same goes for
. Whatever the mother-in-law says is what she wants, of course he will be shaken.
"Diet divorce."
"Battle gift is returned! My money is not for nothing to raise someone else's daughter."
Shen Nian will certainly not say how much is it.
She is only willing to return half of it for her daughter’s sake. She also did not give up the custody of her daughter.
Although Zheng Wei was angry with her private decision, he really wanted to get a divorce, and he couldn't make up his mind.
After all, he still loves Shen Nian.
He felt a dilemma, and his mother-in-law was urging him tightly again, and Shen Nian looked at him with mocking eyes.
Zheng Wei knew that Shen Nian looked down on him and could not make up his mind for his own affairs.
Faced with my mother-in-law's step-by-step pressing, Zheng Wei yelled at her mother-in-law for the first time.
"Mom, don't worry about my business!"
The mother-in-law was angry and wanted to say something, but in the end she was silent in Zheng Wei's increasingly ugly face.
After the mother-in-law left, the two were speechless.
Shen Nian was not in a hurry to him either.
Putting aside the saying of a mom-baby boy, Zheng Wei is not bad as a father. As long as he is willing to change, she can continue to live with him for Tongtong's sake.
However, Zheng Wei seems to have not passed the level of her child privately.
is unwilling to talk to her.
No matter what his final decision was, Shen Nian could accept it calmly.
In a marriage relationship, there are fewer rules and regulations, more understanding and respect, so that the relationship will not survive in suffering.
The best state between people is that we can be ourselves easily and naturally, but we are both sincere and conscious.
The worst thing is to emphasize unilateral will to try to limit the freedom of others and kidnap a common tomorrow with the standards of personal consciousness.
Only a common will can make the marriage go further and further.
If Zheng Wei still only sticks to his own wishes, Shen Nian feels that there is no need to persist.
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