When Ren Xue was in college, her father died of illness. Her mother Zhang Lan never got married to support her daughter in college.
Ren Xue studied special education. After graduation, she worked in a local special schools.
Zhang Lan feels that a good day has come. When her daughter has a job, she has no worries. She just wants to wait for her daughter to find a partner she likes and gets a family, and she will no longer worry.
Unexpectedly, Zhang Lan found out that one year of gastric cancer . Although she was found to have had a timely operation and saved her life, she was very thin.
Zhang Lan is a very delicate person. Her family is clean and clean. Her clothes and personal image are very beautiful. She suddenly got this disease. She said, "I should have enjoyed a happy life, but suddenly I got this serious illness again. I just don't want to find a partner, and others will criticize me. I have no luck and are sick."
daughter Ren Xue comforted her mother and said, "Since you don't want to find a partner, why do you care about these things? I will find a good partner in the future. Let's live happily together. How good is it to enjoy the blessings of your children!"
Zhang Lan said, "That's what I said, how can I really get angry?"
Ren Xue has a good job, but finding a partner is not smooth. She introduced several times, and she always has no qualities, or she can't stand each other's age.
One day, a friend of Ren Xue introduced her to a car repairman in a 4S store.
Ren Xue met him, and Ren Xue thought the car repair masters were all wearing work clothes. The oil stains on both hands have no image.
I didn't expect the repairman to have a clean face. She observed the man's hands, which were very clean and his clothes were clean. Ren Xue thought: Who wouldn't wear clothes cleaner and more beautiful when they met? But is the oil stains on your hands difficult to wash?
Ren Xue is old and has a heart that is unhappy. She looks at him like a great fortune, but she doesn't ask what he is called, just to not refute the person's face.
This man also thinks that Ren Xue is a teacher and a repairman. The two of them don’t match at all, so he is not optimistic about their relationship and thinks that there will be no progress.
They first met at Ren Xue’s friend’s birthday party. Because there were too many people, they were not embarrassed by each other.
Ren Xue’s friend introduced his name to Ren Xue, and everyone called him Qinghe.
Ren Xue found that Qinghe people were very sunny and helped everyone take a seat at the banquet because the banquet was prepared at his own home. Qinghe helped arrange tables and chairs, arrange the seats of the staff, and help match dishes.
Some people don’t know each other, so Qinghe arranges people who can speak to each other to sit together, so that they are not embarrassed by each other, and when they are angry, they become harmonious.
Ren Xue thinks Qinghe is a little interesting.
The two added WeChat to each other and chatted a few times.
Ren Xue later learned that Qinghe was not a repairman, but a master. He would only get started if he had major work that he couldn't understand. The rest was just to let his apprentice do it.
Qinghe is very careful and takes great care of Ren Xue.
Ren Xue’s home is very far away from the school. Ren Xue usually takes the bus when she goes to work. If time is tight, she will take a taxi.
Qinghe said to Ren Xue, I will teach you how to drive, you have learned to drive, I will buy you a scooter, of course it won’t be very expensive, but it will be very convenient for you.
No one has cared so much about Ren Xue for many years, and she felt very moved.
Qinghe's family is from the countryside and has not farmed for many years. His parents moved to this city. His father bought two buildings, one for Qinghe to get married, and the other lived by himself. His father ran a taxi on the street and his mother did some small work.
Qinghe did not hide his own slightest, and told Ren Xue everything about his family
Ren Xue felt that he was very honest and always smiled at him. She knew that he fell in love with him.
The two have been together for half a year. Ren Xue feels that they are comfortable and warm together. Although they have a little different education levels. They graduated from Qinghe Junior High School and Ren Xue graduated from college, but they have a common language and both feel very attractive to each other.
Ren Xue finds an opportunity to bring Qinghe home and let her mother Zhang Lan see it.
Zhang Lan is also very open-minded. As long as Ren Xue meets Qinghe, the boy has a good character and a family background doesn’t matter. As long as he looks up to our children, I can accept it and I support it.
During this period, Qinghe's parents had met Ren Xue several times. They were full of joy that their son could find a teacher, and they were always afraid that this daughter-in-law would not be able to marry her.
Now both parents recognize each other's children, and they are both older (Qinghe is one year older than Ren Xue). The parents of both parties will arrange to marry their children.
Qinghe's parents have only been in the city for a few years, and the buildings they bought are not new ones. Zhang Lan doesn't care about it, but Qinghe's family can't afford much money to Ren Xue as a bride.
Zhang Lan does not pay attention to the dowry and feels that doing things will also let others know that Qinghe’s parents value their daughter.
Qinghe's mother said, "My family is also a small family. I really like Yunxue. I can't afford to pay, so I gave the child 30,000 yuan to get married."
When Zhang Lan heard this, she felt very uncomfortable. Although I don’t pay attention to the bride price, we all live in the same city, and you also know that other people’s families are marrying children. What’s going on? Others have to give at least one hundred thousand or eighty thousand. If you give 30 thousand, is this discrimination against us? Still have something to say? Seeing that we agree to marry you, are you greedy or show off your child with high profile?
Zhang Lan said to her mother-in-law: "Your family doesn't have much money now, so I'm not in a hurry. Let's wait for the two children. When will you save enough money, let's get married again."
Qinghe's parents were unwilling to hear Zhang Lan say this. They felt that they were a bit contemptuous of people when they paid 30,000 yuan. When asked, the most people in other families received 80,000 or even more than 100,000 yuan. We cannot compare with the more, and we cannot make Zhang Lan feel sad. If the two children are not married, they will have knots in their hearts, and it will not be good in the future!
Qinghe's parents borrowed some money and raised up 100,000 yuan. They said to Zhang Lan: "I'll give my child a 100,000 yuan benefactor. What we did before was a bit rash and rude. Please don't care about it. Since our marriage has been made, what do you think I did wrong? Just say it clearly. We are rural people, and we don't know the details and are not considerate. You must not be as knowledgeable as our rural people."
Zhang Lan saw her family mother saying so sincerely, and she took out another 100,000 yuan. She said: "I also know the situation of your family. It doesn't take 100,000 or 80,000 yuan, 60,000 yuan, for good luck!
Qinghe's parents said: "We really want to get this in-laws, because we all like Ren Xue, if we weren't a little nervous, we should really take more. "
See how good the couple speaks, and they are open and in place.
Since both parents are very satisfied and there is no dissatisfaction with them anymore, the two children got married smoothly.
The young couple lived a sweet life, and the elderly on both sides did not have so many things, so they were always in harmony.
It is impossible to live without conflicts, but if there is conflict, it depends on how the adults on both sides handle it?
Ren Xue and Qinghe have been married for more than a year and gave birth to a boy. When they were in the hospital for a day, they found that the child's face was very yellow. The doctor said it was neonatal jaundice , and he would slowly absorb it. .
But the next day, I found that the child's jaundice was serious. The doctor said he needed to take the blue light exam alone to reduce jaundice.
The parents on both sides quickly arranged a high room for Ren Xue and the child, and asked the child to take blue light to treat jaundice.
Because Zhang Lan was in poor health, when she put the child in the blue light box at night, she saw that the child fell asleep. Qinghe's mother and Qinghe asked Zhang Lan to take a rest, otherwise she would be afraid that the child would cry and affect her health.
Zhang Lan saw that the child was at ease, so she went downstairs to the delivery room they lived in for rest.
Zhang Lan had something to worry about her child. At three o'clock in the morning, she went back to the high school to visit the child.
When she arrived in the high room, she saw the child being hugged by her mother-in-law and was sleeping steadily.
Zhang Lan touched the blue light box and looked at the time above, and the child had only been taking a photo for two hours.
Zhang Lan suddenly became angry and woke up her mother-in-law regardless of the situation, saying, "We are treating the child. One high room is 180 per night. How can you sleep steadily? If we just want to sleep, why should we spend a high price to cover the high room?"
Zhang Lan shouted that everyone woke up, and Ren Xue quickly said to her mother, "The child cried in the blue light box. Everyone had no choice but to carry it out."
Zhang Lan said, "The child was just born and there was no sense of security. You won't reach out to pat him, so you can make him more stable. Then put it in the blue light box. If you do this, you won't cure his illness. If you do this, what if you don't cure his illness. He is serious, don't you regret it even more? Isn't it normal for the child to cry twice? "
Zhang Lan was angry, her tone was high, and her tone was particularly obvious. Her mother-in-law was very embarrassed for a moment, and Qinghe didn't say anything. Ren Xue said to her mother: "Look at how you look, you can't speak kindly."
Zhang Lan said to the girl in anger: "What are good things? Follow you? If you want to sleep, we will go back to the original bed and go to sleep. If you say good things, everyone will know how to say good things. Do you want to hear good things or treat the child's illness?"
The three people didn't say anything, but the atmosphere was very awkward.
After a while, the doctor came to check the rounds and was very angry when he saw the blue light timer. He blamed the people in the room and said, "Tell you to take the blue light to your child. What did you do last night? Such a young child, don't treat him quickly, aren't you afraid of sequelae?"
The mother-in-law was very angry at first, and barely supported her face. Now when she heard the doctor say the same, she quickly admitted her mistake and said to the doctor, "It's my fault. The child cried in the blue light box and just carried it out. I thought it was nothing serious. I didn't expect jaundice to be the case. Such a serious illness, I was wrong, I was wrong, this time I will definitely do what the doctor said! "
During breakfast, Qinghe's father came to see his grandson. He knew the whole story and blamed Qinghe and his wife for saying, "I don't blame my mother for criticizing you. People are right. If she wasn't physically ill, she would definitely not leave with confidence and would definitely be here to accompany the child. You said that you adults, Ren Xue had just finished giving birth and fell asleep. Why are you so unreasonable? "
Qinghe's father said to Zhang Lan again: "My mother-in-law, thanks to you, you are so stupid. , If you have sufficient supervision, we can rest assured about what you do, you have to come and see what we do wrong, you have to say it out loud. We are all for the good of the child."
How heartwarming is said by the in-laws. Zhang Lan was angry before. When she heard the in-laws say this, she smiled and said to her in-laws: "Look at my bad temper just now, I was not sure about my emotions for the moment. We are all for the good of the child, so don't be like me."
in-laws said: "The child's health is a big deal. You did it right. You are an educated person. , We rural people don’t understand, don’t look down on me, I’m very grateful.”
Zhang Lan said, “Don’t say that, we are all the same people, it’s all for the good of our children!” This small problem has passed. Since then, they have discussed everything with each other. It is impossible for parents to live a family matter without any conflicts or bumps. However, no matter who is unhappy about anything, the parents of both sides will solve the problem in a timely manner and never hide it, so they have always been at peace.
Qinghe and Ren Xue took their children out of the hospital and lived with their parents. Although their parents-in-law had another house, they had always lived with five people because they took care of their grandson.
Zhang Lan lives alone because she is thinking about her grandson. She goes to see the child the next day. Every time she goes, she says happily, "Let me see what the baby looks like?"
Then she goes to the kitchen and says to her mother-in-law, "You are tired every day, I'm here, I'll prepare the food."
Zhang Lan buys some vegetables and fruits every time she goes, and she says, "I can't spend my money, so she spends it on the child, one child in the family, and both parties are for the child's good."
It is impossible to live without any bumps and bumps in life, but these six people are harmonious. You praise my child and I praise your child. It is very enviable in the community.
The couple is also very sensible. When Ren Xue was just pregnant, she and Qinghe lived at Zhang Lan's house, and Qinghe took the initiative to help Zhang Lan do housework. Although Zhang Lan doesn't need it, he rushed to do it.
When Ren Xue, Qinghe and her mother-in-law lived together, Ren Xue would take the initiative to wipe the floor and clean the room every day. When her mother-in-law didn't let her do it, she said, "I'm doing exercise, and it's not good for her to sit all the time. "
These two children will take the initiative to help each other's parents. Every time they see two mothers having conflicts, they will scold their mother first, so the two mothers have never been upset because of any problem.
Living at home does not necessarily mean that it is right or wrong. As long as they don't care about each other, it is not difficult to get along with each other happily?
