The eldest sister has a strong appeal. When she made an initiative in the group, her sister-in-law responded first. The third and fourth sisters followed. On Saturday, she took the high-speed train back to her hometown to wash curtains and clean the curtains and clean the mother. She was both a commander and a leader, reducing the labor burden of her parents. She was the veritable production team leader of her parents' family.
It may be because my elder sister is too gentle and weak. My elder sister has been capable since childhood. She has worked hard and persevered in a big family with many siblings and dared to fight well. At that time, the school was on busy holidays, and we all had to participate in the production team's labor. I often failed to complete the tasks and were bullied by others. My sister was so angry that she had to help me catch up with the labor progress, and on the other hand, she had to punch and kick the "evil" and help me clean up the environment. Everyone knew that my sister was so powerful that she would never dare to tell me any more and point fingers.
At that time, there were broad beans, fruits, etc. in the production team. My sister and a group of children often went to steal and pick them. I would never dare to do such bad things. The little girls knew that I was mud and couldn't support the wall, so they asked me to stand guard. But I had a literary dream all over my mind. The captain came to me and found that he was scolded by the little girls in a row.
The family sew gloves and spinning asbestos to generate income for the family, she is the main force. Sitting on the sewing machine all day, I quilted out 100 gloves in a single piece. When I grew up and got married, I was still the backbone of my parents' family and the strong labor force. From building houses to contracting land to collecting crops, interpersonal relationships, coordinated and coordinated family, both paying money and effort, and thinking about it, and devote my heart to my parents and brothers. I will take care of my parents and brothers. If there is any difficulty, I will spare no effort to lend a helping hand.
There is such a phenomenon in life. If you pay too much attention and invest, you will often continue to pay and maintain your personality. Some people say it is the so-called sunk cost . Personally, I think that the continuous efforts in the family regardless of gains and losses must be the pull of emotional responsibility, and action consciousness even becomes a behavioral pattern.
For half a century, the eldest sister sprinkled silkworms in her parents' home and burned herself. It was difficult to describe all kinds of big and small. Although she is nearly sixty years old, her mother's family is still the place where she runs the most and fastest and her emotional energy is most concentrated. Even her little grandson knew that her grandmother was the person she cared about the most.
Maybe our generation is the last " Helping Brother Demon ". The sunset is approaching, and I have always hoped that my eldest sister will pay more attention to herself. In addition to dedication, the meaning of life must also love yourself well. You might as well be "selfish" yourself. Blind efforts will emptie yourself and consume your spiritual energy.
In recent years, my eldest sister has participated in various cultural activities at the Senior Citizens University. I hope she can enjoy it in singing and dancing, find the value positioning for the second half of her life, and live out the texture and richness of life.
