Today, I am basking in the sun downstairs. Perhaps because of my age, I am now also in love with the entertainment life of the elderly.
just happened to be there. Someone in the community got married. The float was parked at the door of the family. The flowers and the big red wedding words made people feel very happy.
Several old men and women sat in the small garden chatting. The old man wearing a hat said, "This show brings a lot of money. Now these young people can really waste money."
short-haired old lady echoed, "That's right, I'll starve to death. It costs more than one million to buy a house, and hundreds of thousands to get married. Who has two sons in her family can make her do it. The parents made it into pieces. "
" Yes, look at Lao Li in our community, and I don't know how it is now? He went to the past two years ago, and delayed the old woman's Helmerts disease in order to marry her youngest son. If it were timely treatment, his wife would not go out and lose it. He would not be slumped in the bed now, no one cares about it."
Old Li in their mouths , I know that his niece Susu and I are neighbors and are very familiar with each other.
One night, Su Su forgot to bring the key, came to my house for a while, and then talked about her uncle.
Su Su said:
My aunt and my uncle have been frugal all their lives, married a wife for their three sons and bought a house, but my cousins, alas, it is embarrassing to tell my uncle about it now.
At the last year, my little cousin got married. When he went home, he asked my uncle for money. My uncle gave him 10,000 yuan to treat my aunt. My cousin still thought it was too little, so why didn’t he say that it was his third time getting married.
After half a year, my aunt fell ill and went out to buy breakfast, but she couldn't find her way home. A week later, she was found under a big tree on the side of the road. She was dying and left after a few days after being sent to the hospital.
Now, my uncle has been paralyzed and was kicked by his three cousins as a ball.
I couldn't stand it and wanted to come to me. My second cousin's wife said, "What did you do earlier? Why didn't you take it to take care of me a few years ago? Isn't it just that the old man's pension has increased, and if you want to make money, it's not your turn. Besides, he is not without a son, nor is he a last resort. He also needs to take rats and meddle in other people's business."
I never mentioned this again.
But yesterday I went to see my uncle, and when he saw me, he cried and said he was hungry and wanted to eat braised pork. I just bought it for him, but my cousin took it away. My cousin said, "The doctor said he can only eat pumpkin buns, two a day. What kind of braised pork are you going to harm me? I still have to go to work, so how can I have time to clean up for him."
Yan Yan, do you know that when I left, I didn't dare to look at my uncle in the eyes. He just looked at me with tears in his eyes, but I was powerless.
As he spoke, Su Su became excited. You said, what's the use of raising a son? You will eat braised vegetables all your life. Now your life is better, and you can't even eat braised pork. It would be great if he had a daughter. If he had a daughter, he could go to see him with justification.
I can only talk a few gossips with Su Su and leave a few sighs.
Today, when I saw these elderly people, from their mental state and dress, I could tell which one is an old man with a daughter and which one is an old man with a wife.
We are all children, we are all parents, we have all been young, but we all want, or are getting old.
The requirements of the elderly are very simple. They are nothing more than three meals a day to enjoy the joy of family. As children, we must not let the elderly be lonely and helpless in the twilight years.
