"I'll make the decision of this family..."
Wang Chang's brother-in-law just found a new job this year, and this job is quite close to Wang Chang's family. His brother-in-law doesn't like living in a dormitory, and when he goes out to rent a house, he is afraid of spending money, so he goes to discuss his sister's life and lives at her.
Wang Chang's wife agreed, so Wang Chang dared not refuse. Wang Chang's family has three bedrooms and one living room, which is quite spacious. In the second week, my brother-in-law moved in.
After my brother-in-law moved into Wang Chang's house, Wang Chang's biggest feeling was that the expenses had increased. Wang Chang is the workshop director of the factory. His salary is OK. In the past, he could save six or seven thousand yuan a month, but now he can't save even two or three thousand yuan. Before, my wife and children at home had only three people, three pairs of chopsticks, and three or four steamed buns were enough to eat, but since my brother-in-law came to live, I spent a lot of extra money just by buying steamed buns every month.
Moreover, my brother-in-law has a lot of appetite. There are at least two steamed buns in a meal. Three people eat together, at least four dishes and one soup. Wang Chang dared not make the meal badly. Just take care of it, I'm afraid my brother-in-law will lose his temper if he doesn't serve his brother-in-law well. Moreover, Wang Chang has always cooked and cleaned the kitchen at home, and just serving his wife is enough. In addition, his brother-in-law lives here, so he feels very tired.
Wang Chang's brother-in-law is a bad person. He is not only greedy, but also lazy. He has been to his brother-in-law's house for a month and does not know how to help his brother-in-law do some work. He does not care about himself, and he always encourages his nephew and sister to buy snacks and go to the restaurant. Wang Chang was also helpless. After all, it was up to his wife's face. With his wife suppressing him, he didn't dare to say anything. Even if he was a little dissatisfied with his brother-in-law, he swallowed his anger.
When Wang Chang was doing housework, he saw his wife and brother-in-law crossing his legs, talking and laughing while eating snacks. Wang Chang was angry and thought, serving his wife and children was enough, but his brother-in-law relied on her sister to eat and drink. He grew up so much, without any emotional intelligence at all, and he was not reasonable. After all, this is not his own home, and he doesn't feel embarrassed to stay here.
During the Mid-Autumn Festival, something that Wang Chang couldn't accept even more happened.
On August 14th, Wang Chang's father-in-law suddenly suffered from cerebral hemorrhage and fainted on the ground while doing farm work. He was quickly sent to the hospital. After two days of stay, he was transferred to the city central hospital.
Wang Chang's family is not far from the city central hospital. When his father-in-law was discharged from the hospital, his mother-in-law proposed to stay at Wang Chang's house first to facilitate the follow-up visit and rest in the future. His wife agreed without vaguely.
father-in-law and mother-in-law came to Wang Chang's house to live. It was okay for one or two days, but it took a long time. Because of different living habits, many places were inconvenient. Wang Chang was very uncomfortable and was disgusted. But it cannot be shown that my wife can see it.
Because I only have the same bathroom, I have to queue up to go to the toilet in the morning and take a shower at night. I feel very frustrated. Wang Chang often can't stand it because he is queuing to go to the toilet, so he has to run downstairs to go to the public toilet.
Later, Wang Chang proposed to rent a house nearby for his parents-in-law and brother-in-law to live in, and he would get the monthly rent. But my wife disagreed no matter how hard she said she would take care of the two elders. Even the children were joking, not wanting them to move out and want to play with their uncle. My parents-in-law also wanted to be here, thinking that they could save money and help coax the children.
Wang Chang was helpless. Now his wife and family are reunited, and the whole family is smiling every day. But Wang Chang felt that he was an outsider and could not integrate into them, and he had to serve them.
Every day after get off work, Wang Chang doesn’t want to go home. He always smokes alone in the car downstairs. I didn't go back until very late. Every time I used the excuse of having dinner with my friends, having a meeting in the company, a business trip, etc. Anyway, I just didn't want to go home and see my parents-in-law and brother-in-law, which made him very depressed. They came to squeeze out their own and their wife's living space and their two-person world.
In a blink of an eye, my parents-in-law and brother-in-law lived in Wang Chang's house for four or five months.Wang Chang was already impatient. On the weekend, Wang Chang took advantage of his brother-in-law taking the children to play. When his parents-in-law went downstairs, he discussed with his wife and asked his wife to persuade her parents and brother and tell them to leave. It's okay for them to stay here for a day or two, but it's inconvenient to live here and affect their normal life.
but my wife was still angry and got angry at Wang Chang, "What's wrong? That's my parents and my brother-in-law, and you are also your parents-in-law and your brother-in-law. Isn't it okay to respect them and take care of your brother-in-law? Do you feel sorry for spending your money here? I'm willing to let them live in my house. I have the final say in this house, I'm happy."
Wang Chang was also angry when he saw that his wife was so unreasonable, "Yes, it's okay to respect your parents and take care of your brother, but this is a bit too much . Didn’t I just keep holding on to you and not saying it? But how much inconvenience does this bring? And after so long, the expenses are so great, I’m exhausted and I can’t save a lot of money. At home, I have always spoiled you, spoiled you, and treated you as my ancestors. Can you consider me? If you can’t rely on me to spoil you, you really feel that you are the queen and become the head of the family. I’m the one who makes the decision. Enough, I’m tired, let them leave tomorrow, and rent a house. "
"I don’t!"
The more quarreled, the more angry the two of them started fighting.
Couples should understand and understand each other. In this society, the status of women is constantly improving, and they are all queens and queens in the family, willful and coquettish. It is believed that men should serve women and obey their husbands. Some women even act as demons of helping their younger brothers in marriage, and demanding their husbands excessively for their younger brothers and their mothers’ family members, but they think it is a natural thing. This is an unhealthy marriage relationship and there is no at least equality and respect.
If you want a good relationship between husband and wife, your marriage will last for a long time. We also need to understand and respect each other. It is also appropriate for husbands to spend money on their parents-in-law or serve their parents-in-law, but we cannot make unreasonable requests. I wish all couples in the world can find the right way to get along with each other and have a happy marriage.
