The son graduated and worked in a certain unit. The son had a girlfriend. He had met several times. The girl was dignified, generous and gentle. Both parents were quite satisfied. The two of them got along well. They have been dating for nearly three years. The girl worked as a teacher in a primary school in the county town and urged them to get married many times. Every time she said she was still young and she was not in a hurry to wait.
Before National Day this year, my son came back from get off work and said he would talk to us if he had something to do. He said that he would take advantage of the National Day holiday and asked us to meet his girlfriend and parents and discuss the marriage. I was very happy to hear that my son’s marriage has finally been put on the agenda. I said I strongly support you, and you can make any reservations at the hotel. As long as their requests are not excessive, everything will be easy to say.
is set on the National Day, and the lunar calendar is on the 6th day of September. I booked a private room in a hotel in the county town in advance. The first time parents of both parties met, the level should not be too low. In order to give each other a good impression on the National Day, my wife and I dressed up and were very excited. My son and girlfriend's hometown are from the countryside. I only know that they are from a village in the neighboring town. It is not too far from my house. My father is driving a truck outside and often comes back once a few months. Her younger brother is still in school and works in the county to take care of his younger brother's mother.
To be polite, I arrived at the hotel half an hour in advance, so I couldn't let the other party wait for us. In less than ten minutes, the other party also arrived. When I went out to greet them, I was stunned. My son and mother-in-law turned out to be my first love girlfriend. I thought to myself why it was such a coincidence that I might be a bad thing. The other party was stunned when he saw me, but the other party didn't say anything. Since everyone was tacit, it would be better if everyone didn't say it or not to say it out loud. It would be regarded as the first time meeting to avoid any trouble. What we know is that the kids, the girl father and my wife don't know.
Discussion on dinner and things went smoothly. Both parties are very supportive of the children's marriage. They have made a reservation on the 2nd day of October of the lunar calendar. If there is anything, it will be said that, fortunately, the past has not affected the relationship between the two families yet. In the 1980s, marriages were usually introduced by acquaintances. Our two families had a distant relationship. At that time, I had just been admitted to high school, and the parents of both sides hit it off and officially confirmed their relationship. In 1977, resumed the college entrance examination . It turned out that junior high school and high school were recommended by each production team. Regardless of grades, students' background and political thoughts were the most important. I just happened to be admitted to the first year with my examination results after graduating from junior high school.
We were not even 20 years old at that time, and our parents had no say. Shortly after the engagement, she was introduced by an acquaintance to work at the commune flour mill. At that time, when she was in high school, she felt that the dormitory was so delicious that I didn't want to live. She lived in the movie projection team through relationships. The movie projection team was outside the gate of the flour mill. We had never contacted her for so close. She didn't know where I lived, but I basically knew her situation. Before the college entrance examination, I told her that I could not get into college and could only go home to farm. At that time, I worked in a commune enterprise, which was a rare thing that was superior to others. We were not satisfied with it and finally broke up peacefully. In fact, she likes the son of the deputy director of the flour mill. It’s not that the son of the deputy director is so outstanding. She just wants to stay in the flour mill for a long time and wants to climb high branches.
Soon after, I got engaged with a girl from the neighboring village. But the good times didn't last long. Two months later, under pressure from both parents, I reconciled. Because she looked down on me, I didn't even touch her for three years. She wanted to find someone to work, but she was not the type I like. I was afraid that she would rely on me, so the two of them just made up for it.
College Entrance Examination results were announced, and it was expected that the failure of my parents wanted me to repeat the exam, but I was hesitant. When I went to Zhengzhou to buy things during the holiday, everyone may not believe it. I took the train to Zhengzhou. There were not many people on the train and the couple didn’t have a relationship. She disliked me and I despised her. It was already afternoon when I arrived in Zhengzhou. I bought a few clothes and it was too late. I had no train to go back, so I could only stay in a hotel. I arranged for her to stay and told me to pick her up the morning. I played in the middle of the night and found a hotel to stay in.
The next morning, I went to the Erqi Memorial Tower and took a few photos. It was already 10 o'clock after dinner. I went to see if she had left and didn't want to go back with her. Unexpectedly, she was waiting for me at the entrance of the hotel and asked me why I had only come here yet. I said I had been lost for several hours before I found it.I said let's go back, she said she wanted to go to the Erqi Memorial Tower to take a photo at the Erqi Memorial Tower. After taking the photo, she asked me if I would take the photo, and I said we should go back if I didn't take it. After I got home, I went to my house to ask if the photos were sent to my house. My cousin said that my brother's one had been back a long time ago and yours hadn't come back yet. Because of this, he knew that I didn't like her and deliberately kept her in the hotel. When we broke up, we had a conflict over the clothes we bought. We have never met each other at close range in the future. When we saw each other from afar, we avoided it.
it used to be a movie projectionist. Now I think about it and thank her. Without her dislike, I would not repeat the school, nor would I study harder, and I would not be able to get into school, nor would I have the current life. After the reform and opening up , commune enterprises closed one after another, and she got married after she returned.
I didn’t expect that 30 years later, both of them were quite embarrassed because their children sat together again. Today is a good day, and it goes very smoothly. Our past events have not affected our children. It is still very happy that my son is about to enter the marriage hall. Have you ever encountered such a thing?
