01
When I got home from get off work, my mother-in-law was busy in the kitchen. She shouted through the glass door that the food would be ready soon, and I would go and accompany the child first.
Thinking of what happened in the morning, my efforts made me feel guilty, and I was going to have a good chat with her.
Just as he was about to go into the kitchen to help, Li Jun came back and saw the peach sauce in my hand and blamed me for spending money indiscriminately. He heard that I bought it for my mother-in-law, and he immediately changed his words. My mother paid for her family and it was right to buy something.
I rolled my eyes and told Li Jun, have you ever thought that mom is in love? Li Jun immediately retorted, how could anyone have her eldest grandson to move her?
He warned me not to be troubled and not to be fucked by then. After saying that, Li Jun yawned and drove a game to the sofa.
If I hadn't seen those two sentences, I wouldn't have thought of my mother-in-law's love.
At work this morning, I opened my notebook and saw WeChat jumping. I subconsciously clicked on it. The dialog box popped up: Missing you love, how did you sleep last night?
My heart was missed for a while. My husband is usually jealous, so he has to see these words, which is difficult to explain. After a closer look, this is my mother-in-law’s account.
Last night, my mother-in-law logged in to her account using my computer and said she wanted to download the video of them dancing. The computer screen was big and she didn't bother with her eyes. After watching it, she didn't return to WeChat, and the computer automatically hibernated.
has little information, there is a saying: Don’t tell your son and daughter-in-law about these things.
I couldn't see anything with just a few words, and this is my mother-in-law's account, and peeping makes me look vulgar. I hurriedly logged out of the account and changed my work mode.
All day, those two sentences created countless question marks in my head. Li Jun didn't want me to care about these things, so he had to let it go.
02
I am two years older than Li Jun and I met on blind dates.
There is a saying in my hometown: A girl in her junior year, holds gold bricks. The matchmaker said, I am half a brick, and my horoscope is very good for my husband, so I went to my husband, Li Jun was strong, and we decided to get married.
I got married a month before I was 30 years old and blocked the leisurely mouth of the town. Here, not getting married means there is something wrong with people.
Li Jun is not much better. In a single-parent family, his mother lost her husband in middle age and was kicked out of the house by her in-laws. She was orphan and widowed. In the most difficult time, she was fortunately taken in by the temple.
Later, her mother found a job in the electronics factory and took Li Jun to the dormitory, but the roommate was unwilling, so the mother and son gritted their teeth and found a dilapidated place to rent it.
Li Jun was successful. Not only did he get into university, but he also got a scholarship. The tuition was a student loan. This glorious spirit spread throughout the town and it was easy to be happy, but in the past two years, no girl was willing to marry him.
I want to say that I married Li Jun purely because he is a filial person. I heard that filial people will not have bad character, so I was with him in such a confused manner.
The first month he met Li Jun, he said that everything else could be discussed, but the only thing was that he would live with his mother and understand the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and try to coax him from the future.
My mother-in-law, when we were confirming our relationship, took my hand and said that she would make room for us couples in the future, and she would never affect us.
I was really moved by this. The so-called mother, kindness and filial piety, is probably like this. So, I waved my hand and said with great understanding that I will live with us when I get married.
After marriage, there were naturally trivial matters. Li Jun obviously looked at his mother, but his mother-in-law was very powerful. I felt from the bottom of my heart that the decision was right.
03
My mother-in-law has been a little "busy" recently. She said that she will no longer help us take care of children in the future, she will have her own life. This immediately reminded me of the two previous sentences.
Since getting married, Li Jun and I have supported our mother-in-law in love, but she refused, for fear that others would poke the backbone of and would not be safe when we are old.
Li Jun supports her mother-in-law not to take care of the children, but does not agree with her moving out.
I decided to talk to my mother-in-law and said my thoughts frankly. The moment she looked up at me, tears broke the line, and I suddenly panicked. Li Jun, who happened to be home, saw this scene.
We returned to the bedroom tacitly. Before I could explain, he seemed to have been touched by the reverse scale and accused me frantically. I wanted to defend myself, but I couldn't get into the conversation. That was the first time I felt that I was redundant in this home.
Looking at his twisted face, I was thinking in my heart, obviously I have a good intention, why can't my mother-in-law stand up and say something to me?
Li Jun finally became quiet after half an hour. Seeing that I was silent, his quarrel seemed redundant, and finally left a sentence: You can do it yourself! Then he slammed the door and went to the living room. The child was shocked and woke up and cried loudly.
I carried the child out of the bedroom and saw my mother-in-law packing things. I trotted over and told her that it was not what Li Jun said.
Seeing that my mother-in-law was not grateful, I said, "Mom, I know everything. We will support you in love with that uncle. You don't need to move. You really think it's okay if you can't take care of the children."
My mother-in-law stared at me for three seconds, and my back felt a little chilled. She said angrily, "In your heart, am I like this?"
Li Jun, who used to stealth when playing games, heard what I said, jumped up and said, don't slander his mother, etc. I became a bad person.
When my mother-in-law cried, my husband Ichigo, and the child made a fuss, the scene was extremely chaotic. Li Jun said that he would accompany his mother to the old house and let me take care of the child by myself.
Before I could react, I could hear the sound of closing the door. I looked at the child in my arms and felt a hard time.
04
The next morning, I contacted the mother of the unit next door and promised a care fee of 200 yuan a day. She barely accepted the money and the baby.
Working in the morning, I was completely free. I first forgot my work notes at a meeting, and then got the wrong document and was criticized by my leader. I simply got off work at noon. I took a leave of absence and went home, and my salary was deducted for a whole day.
For the first time I felt that it was so difficult to take care of my children. Fortunately, tomorrow is Saturday. I took my children to five or six custodians and finally chose the one closest to the company.
On the weekend night, Li Jun went home and I told him this decision. He was very calm, as if he had been drained from his strength. He slowly said that his mother had gastric cancer .
Looking at my surprised expression, Li Jun lowered his eyelids and said, I apologize to you, I shouldn’t be so impulsive to quarrel with you. My tears flashed, and the complaining emotions of the past few days disappeared in an instant.
I asked about my mother-in-law's condition. Li Jun said that in the late stage, she refused to cooperate with the treatment and did not want her family to die. Just use medicine to support her. In the end, he respected her mother-in-law's decision.
This is like the mother-in-law I know, she never wants to cause trouble for her children. I choked up and said to Li Jun firmly, "Come back in the last time, let's take care of her and give her the best medicine."
Li Jun shook his head and said, she wanted to live in an old house, which was closer to that Chinese medicine doctor.
Li Jun glanced at me and said that my mother seemed to have some ambiguous relationship with the old man. He also told me not to break it up again. My mother-in-law was thin-skinned and respected her no matter how she wanted to live in the future.
I agreed to Li Jun to pick up the child to see his mother-in-law after get off work, each person will be allowed to go to see his mother-in-law every day.
is easy to say. If you really do it, you can go through four points in a row. I feel it is extremely hard. Whenever I miss the days when my mother-in-law helped her, I have the motivation to take my child to see her every day.
My mother-in-law looks very good recently. Perhaps it is the power of love, but she is not as hardworking as before. She will naturally get better when she is in a good mood.
originally thought that I would work hard for a few years to accompany my mother-in-law to the final road until my colleague's WeChat broke this lie.
05
Colleague is a bad-tempered person. He firmly disagrees with her mother's love. People in our office joked that she wanted to tie her mother to death.
When a colleague heard this, he held up his mobile phone to show us the chat records she secretly photographed, proving that she did not hinder her mother from pursuing happiness. It was because the other party was not good. The old man was too fancy and unreliable, and was afraid that his mother would suffer a loss.
I took a look at it curiously, and the avatar was extremely familiar. After a few seconds, my mood calmed down. This is the person who is ambiguous with my mother-in-law.
After get off work, I took my child to see my mother-in-law, carefully observed her condition, talked about her recent life, and checked a lot when I got home. She didn’t look like a cancer patient, and I had a bad feeling in my heart.
Mother-in-law's ambiguous object is a Chinese medicine doctor. When her mother-in-law gets medicine from him, the money for Chinese medicine costs two or three thousand yuan a month, which is still the emotional price. Before, we saw that our mother-in-law was in good condition, so we didn’t think much about it, but now, he is going to find another old lady, what’s the matter?
Before going to bed, I told Li Jun my doubts. When Li Jun heard me questioning his mother's illness, he called me heartless and said that I just wanted to squeeze her dry. Communication was fruitless, so I shut up in time.
The next day, I took a leave and went straight to my mother-in-law's place. I told my mother-in-law that the company promotes the care for the elderly and action. If it is selected as the photo wall, there will be a reward of 2,000 yuan. It is actually a formality, not really seeing a doctor, but my mother-in-law believes it.
I brag about it, but in fact I told the doctor to help my mother-in-law with a checkup.
On the third day, when my mother-in-law got the test results, I hurriedly called the expert number and heard the expert make repeated determinations that it was just gastritis, which needed to be treated slowly, and there was no question of cancer.
I felt relieved when I heard that my mother-in-law was safe and called to report my mother-in-law anonymously, that is, the Chinese medicine doctor.
06
The incident was soon exposed. Traditional Chinese medicine is under the banner of "restoring chronic diseases in the elderly" and specializes in single elderly people. At the beginning, he said there was a problem. He prescribed a few doses of medicine to gain the trust of the patients. Some people were afraid that they would still have to go to the hospital, so they escaped the scam. Those who were successful in PUA became long-term customers.
Traditional Chinese medicine was detained for investigation, and the mother-in-law was in love and experienced many vicissitudes overnight. Li Jun accused me of doing too ruthlessly, and my mother-in-law refused to return to her family no matter what she said, and said she was laughed at by someone.
I asked Li Jun to invite his mother-in-law home. Li Jun said I was thinking a lot, just thinking that if someone took care of the child, he would live a life of a young grandma by himself.
I had a fierce quarrel with Li Jun. I thought I had done a good thing to save my mother-in-law from being deceived, but I didn't expect that both my mother-in-law and Li Jun thought it was my fault.
feel wronged, and naturally I am not willing to be outdone. Li Jun raised his hand and slapped me hard, and said, "I am happy. Even if my mother was cheated of money, as long as she is happy, I am willing to provide for it."
wiped off the blood from the corner of my mouth, and I sneered, but I didn't expect that things would have developed to this point.
I and Li Jun are divorced, family violence is my bottom line. I know that he has protected his mother-in-law inside and out for so many years. Thinking of him as a single parent, I tolerated his behavior.
Maybe I was wrong from the beginning. Marriage cannot be compromised, and single-parent families are not a reason to make their partner feel wronged.
